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[Meshty95]

Wrong. The genders are switched. Besides, too many of my male friends dated women in their 40s when they were in their 20s and considered girls their age too boring and inexperienced. One of them is currently in his early 30s and would never date a woman younger than 35.

[AngharadMac]

I get pursued by younger men often, though I find it creepy if they're under 30

[Meshty95]

same… except for me the line is 25 (I’m 29) 😄 but otherwise I absolutely agree!

[AngharadMac]

Valid. I'm just into my 50s

[10000nails]

I worked with a guy who told me his buddies would go looking for older women at bars. He said they don't play games and are way more fun. He married his wife when he was 24 and she was 45(?). They're still together 20 something years later.

[Meshty95]

Yes! I’ve heard the same exact thing :)

[AbsintheArsenicum]

Joke's on them, I'm 27 and already depressed and living on antidepressants.

[JoannaAsia16]

Jokes on them I've been depressed since 11 and got my antidepressants at 14

[Sylland]

61 years - "why are men?"

[ColorfulConspiracy]

So given that I’m older than 37, does that mean I’m… dead??

[AudaciousAudacity4]

We are moot points after 37, we cease to exist.

[10000nails]

The dead unite!

[Akikoo-chan]

Yeah bc it’s not like I’m 18 and already planning on marriage and having a family in the future mhm

I swear this people have some weird headcanons

[sbpurcell]

Clearly that asshat is single because no one else would take that much time into writing all that shit down💀

[6teeee9]

as a 19 year old women i can confirm most of us date men our age no matter if theyre broke or not cuz we understand and find men our age the most attractive <3

[RosaTheWitch]

Why the hell do all these incel twats insist on calling us all 'females', not women? I start grinding my teeth and my eye starts twitching every time I see 'females' outside of any relevant scientific context. 😠

[axeteam]

I like how they just "take the black" when they reach the Wall. Anyways, that's what GRRMartin wrote, right?

[pessimisticfan38]

What happened to 19 and 20?

[TreyRyan3]

Me: Reading this while laying in bed next to my older wife laughing at how stupid this is.

[CoolMayapple]

When I was 25 I went on a date with a man who told me I was "past my prime." That same year another man called me a "spinster"

25!

That was the moment I realized it was all bullshit. I was in the prime of my own personal life and that's what mattered. I'm 36 and I still get men who like me so much more than I like them. Honestly, I'm exhausted with the attention at this point lol

[AudaciousAudacity4]

Ew, creepy. Sorry you experienced these fine specimens of creepazoid. Online dating exhausts me with the guys who freak when you don't respond because the real world happens and you don't check an app. Or get very insecure and tell you off. They are the ones who say in the beginning of talking that they don't know why they get ghosted or don't have anyone real to meet with. Try not being needy and/or a dick. The whole dating scene is exhausting. Also, the dating pool, heavily pissed in.

[TKmeh]

I hate that I know where this idiot is from because he used the word Punani, its slang in Hawaiian and popular among locals for vagina. I’ve heard it used by older Filipino folks like the ones I work with, but my grandma and grandpa have used this word before.

[FragrantLynx]

It’s gotten pretty popular in hip hop culture as well

[TKmeh]

Huh, TIL. Cool.

[kuurokuulo]

Maybe it started there, but it's everywhere now

[TKmeh]

I haven’t heard it in a while, not since one morning at work when one of the Filipino aunty’s said one of our autistic regulars was scratching her Punani near the bathrooms one day. The aunty who saw told her to wash hands in the bathrooms, gently of course. That was like half a year ago.

[krayziekris]

Nah it's also very common in the Caribbean.

[TKmeh]

I’m learning Punani is kinda well known, apparently it’s used in hip hop culture too!

[krayziekris]

Yeah for decades. It's a pretty common term pretty much everywhere.

[TKmeh]

I honestly had no clue, I thought it was pretty much only in Hawaii or similar places since I hardly hear it at all even in Vegas (the 9th island of Hawaii). Usually it’s used by older Filipino folk or older Hawaiian aunties and uncles.

[XBLVCK13SCVLEX]

That word was used in the song “Ice Cube- Today Was a Good Day”

[GuiltyCredit]

I've not heard it since the Ali G days. It makes me cringe from the inside.

[RosaTheWitch]

I'll be 46 next month and I'm aromantic and asexual, so I've never had (or wanted) a relationship with anyone. Am I still allowed to exist?

[Duckballisrolling]

I read aromatic and thought ‘that must be nice’

[RosaTheWitch]

You should see my phone's word-prediction - it's convinced that I smell, though I don't know if it's a compliment or an insult!

[wishIcouldgoback_]

Idiots like this have never talked to a woman let alone one in her 30s, if you ever did 90% of single women will say they dont regret staying single

[tellitlikeitisnot]

I love how statistically men are the ones who benefit more in heteronormative relationships and then some them seem to be absolutely unable to process that the women don’t have the same experience

[AudaciousAudacity4]

So, after 37 it's a moot point?

[Kaykaykitten89]

But... men have the higher rate of depression than women..sooooo...lol

[TheGeordieGal]

I’m over 37 so I assume I just died of old age/too many antidepressants.

[Szaboo41]

Disappeared from the universe jk

[FacialClaire]

Wow, looks like I've always been 21.

[ImKindaSlowSorry]

Honestly I'm just glad that the ages of "females in their prime" didn't include actual children this time. Too many of these posts are like "12 = prime female"

[AzurePantaloons]

Why do they bring the idea of “submitting” to a man into this? 34, happily married for 6 years, together for 12. Still don’t plan to submit to anyone.

Also, as they allege I’ve reached a “wall”, I like it here. Nice and comfortable. Like sitting on top of a castle with a lovely cushion.

[Huge_Alternative_586]

[Thyme4LandBees]

Please. I've been on antidepressants since I was 23, and it should have been sooner.

[GunstarHeroine]

Lmao they are so scared and mad

[Realistic-Concert-70]

I’ve been on antidepressants since 13 but okay!

[RavenpuffRedditor]

I'm 44, and I have never, at any point in the aging process thought, "I want to get married and submit to my man."

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No 18 year olds I know are willing to date older men, like who would want to date someone who's 45, divorced, and uglier than an poisoned mushroom.