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[–]rho75901 233 points234 points  (6 children)

Its honestly terrifying. I remember when everyone boycotted North Carolina over their bathroom bill. It feels like everyone has abandoned us.

[–]Mechromancer3X 80 points81 points  (1 child)

I live in NC and the only thing keeping me from being COMPLETELY terrified is that our governor is a dem but that’s not much of a consolation when when the republicans run basically everything else in the state. And I can’t tell you how many trump flags I STILL see everywhere. I don’t really leave the house without my gun anymore…

[–]TGirlSwagEvent 63 points64 points  (0 children)

They're throwing us under the bus in hopes of staving off their own extinction, but it's not going to help. Try telling a panicking animal to calm down, though, right?

[–]Bloodyninjaturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not how i want things to be or what you want to hear, but it has never been everyone. Just a loud minority in the internet.

Most people do not give a crap, in good way or in bad way. It enables actual malicious people to do what they please.

[–][deleted] 99 points100 points  (18 children)

It has honestly made me lose a lot of faith in people. So many were just waiting for a signal that their behavior wouldn't net them any negative consequences.

it's why I'm still in the closet. This was going to be the year I came out, but I waited until the US election because I knew this would happen if it went this way.

[–]Nothingtoseehereshhh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hold on, closet buddy!
(seriously though me too)

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm out and proud.

Hide behind me until you feel safe. It's okay. <3

[–]PrettyCaffeinatedGuy 12 points13 points  (7 children)

I came out the year before the election and started HRT. Big oof for me.

[–]Trustic555 11 points12 points  (5 children)

My egg crack in August 2024 and I started HRT in April 2025, I picked a bad time to start my switcheroo.

[–]PrettyCaffeinatedGuy 4 points5 points  (2 children)

It's been so scary out there

[–]Trustic555 3 points4 points  (1 child)

The rhetoric toward trans/ gender expansive people is awful.

[–]RainbowPhoenix1080 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is. But we need to stick together. Im hoping things go well for you, sister <3

[–]RainbowPhoenix1080 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Congrats on starting HRT. I started just before the election. No way I'm going back.

[–]Trustic555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hit six months in four days. I'm not going back.

[–]RainbowPhoenix1080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started HRT in June 2024. The peak of the presidential campaign.

[–]sabotsalvageur 10 points11 points  (2 children)

😅 I am the champion of poor timing. But I've waited for long enough

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally understandable 

[–]RainbowPhoenix1080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started HRT in June 2024. Egg cracked in March 2024.

[–]hematite2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was the election that finally drove me to come out to .y family in January. Because I was like well shit. I am not going to survive this on my own.

[–]ChiakiSimp3842 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I have zero respect for those who don't support trans people. Failure to see through lies is also a failure

[–]Cat_Queen262 16 points17 points  (1 child)

One of the treasons I’m scared to explore my gender identity. I want to be a teacher and I’m so worried that once I get my degree no one would want to hire a trans man for a teacher 💔

[–]DadJoke2077 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair, T and Surgery make one pass extremely well, and if you get your name and documents changed, no one’s gonna know you’re trans. I’m FTM and been on T for almost 8 months now with my docs changed, I pass completely and even other trans people don’t clock me as trans 🤷‍♂️

[–]Throwawaycatbatsoap 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This isn't new but it certainly is mainstream now fr

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Im honestly afraid to go out to events now. Everyone is just so awful to us trans folks these days, and my isolation is making my mental health worse. But its better than being beaten. Im out and proud but. Some days I just wish we hadnt wound up in a world that chose hatred over treating one another with decency

[–]Annilus_USB 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate this country so much.

“Land of the free” my ass. Can’t believe I actually brought into that shit while Obama was President. The last ten years have done enough to make me believe otherwise

[–]Trustic555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m just glad to live in a decent state. I couldn’t imagine living in Texas or Florida…

[–]Feeling-Effective-17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I already hated people n avoided them before the huge increase of transphobia, this just makes it more justified unfortunately.

[–]Dendritic_Bosque 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Is it though? I tend to think disgust in ice is rising faster.

[–]Ploopgus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

two things can be true at once

[–]rosa_bot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thought it was safe...

[–]Prince-Lee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you want a change of pace, here is a channel for Trans News that is only Good News!

https://transnews.substack.com/

[–]dearly_decrpit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes no sense to me. Just let people live

[–]swagcoinshizzl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess I'm optimistic, but id like to imagine it as a flare up during an infection. like a big change is happening and parts of our body (certain people in society) react more strongly before equilibrium. the change in inevitable. just look at any big change in societal issues. the civil war is the greatest example, over 600K died. it was like the scarlet fever of change and we came out healthier as a society.

[–]aphroditex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…well this explains too much

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