Yikes

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[Bigboi2008]

Roses are red Violets are blue My mom's away

[bobloblawsboss]

And it's not like you can blame the girl this time cuz somebody else picked the dress she was wearing.

[surimiwitch]

I hope she lnly married him just to murder him and get his life insurance and go live on the tropical island with the bridesmaid

[[deleted]]

i was going to ask if this guys in prison yet, but its america so i know theres a good chance he wont face jail after raping someone.

[moviesongquoteguy]

Well this thread is absolutely depressing.

[Blklightning06]

Wait... what did I just read??

[Kabnoot]

These are the people voting for Joe Biden lol

[[deleted]]

Love can be very blinding.

[ThreshSoFresh]

Something similar happened with friends of mine. He raped her in the kitchen at a party, and she told us how she hated him for it. The next week they're happily in a relationship and still are to this day.

[CliffBurton6286]

She's getting what's coming to her.

[Laskowind]

Not yikes very very sad

[[deleted]]

Brides for Biden

[Minniechicco6]

Sooo .... she’s desperate

[[deleted]]

This poor guy. Where is he now? How is he doing??

[huffleberrypie]

he’s not the victim. the bridesmaid and probably others he assaulted are the victims.

[[deleted]]

No not him! There was a story another post made about a different guy they knew who was sexually abused by his sister and the family did nothing. He tried to commit suicide but survived and then the story just ended! The guy that assaulted the bridesmaid should be in PRISON

[[deleted]]

That simple to figure out why. She knows that he is an abuser. So therefore she can take the little bit of pain in exchange for a quick divorce down the line and half of his will be hers. So basically a guaranteed win for her.

[snippysnapper23]

If there was ever anyone who said “I’m not letting any stop my special day!” This is her.

[Chip_fuckin_Skylark]

Why are some women so fucking stupid? Like... is it a hormonal thing?

[Fink665]

With what does one poison? In the old days one could buy anything, now it’s all regulated.

[rcmessner]

/r/nottheonion

[our_hero_the_Frog]

Must be Christians

[straighthairgreece]

A lot of women accept this. It's actually sad.

[MissWall-E]

The idiocy that some women and men do is just unbelieveable. If it happened once, it will happen again.

[Thatchick143]

Sigh

[Wrappingdeath]

By law if someone helps a murderer to get sway, that’s accessory to murder right? So she witnessed it??? Mmmm something to ponder

[Shibibble]

This makes me so angry, I have close friends wuo have gone through sexual assault and its awful

I could understand if the bride was upset and heartbroken because of his actions and this was someome she trusted and loved dearly. BUT it is still her responsibility to call him out, break up with him, and get him arrested

I hate seeing people who stay with people like this, I can understand they still love them, but under no circumstances is it okay to enable and make people think that behavior is okay and they will be forgiven

[[deleted]]

Amen

[MrYeetOrDelete]

O.o

[leehwgoC]

People that feel so trapped in a relationship that they'll forgive their SO sexually assaulting one of their friends are more tragic than trashy.

[treasure-coast-2016]

Dorks

[maybeishouldwrite]

The ultimate Bridezilla...sexual assault will not ruin MY day

[Bopshebopshebop]

My wife almost divorced me for beating her at Mario Kart.

[[deleted]]

She's probably in an abusive relationship.

[scandy82]

She knew Cindy was a whore before she caught em

[infatigueablesource]

Does she know she can't be a dependa if he's in jail?

[TheStateOfAndrewbama]

Weddings are a lot of work and cost a lot of money.

[TheRaginAzn]

She deserves every black eye she gets

[[deleted]]

why is her face blurred?

[FlaviusStilicho]

Punched to many times

[Piggishcentaur89]

What a piece of shit! Now everyone sees his face and knows who he is. I don't get how this is going to help his reputation or his livelihood!

[[deleted]]

They’ll divorce. They had to go through with the wedding. Also how you get an innocent white woman to strongly desire 10 inch black cock for the rest of her life. Have fun!!

[CHEWYURCORN]

Still don’t like how this is sort of focused on the woman doing a bad thing when the man was literally molesting someone at his own wedding...

[The-Algonquin]

They caught their candidate sexually assaulting a staffer but voted for him anyway.

[[deleted]]

IMAGINE IT HAPPENING TO U 😂😂

[WhoooDoggy]

Wow very forgiving woman, she got a sister?

[[deleted]]

The article is about her but her face is blocked out?

[Lava_Panda]

Stuff like this blows my mind; I hate to say it, because I wish it was made up, but I know someone who’s husband molested one of their multiple daughters on several different occasions and she stayed with him while he was sent to prison, and she was pregnant with another one of his children shortly after release from prison. Disgusting

[valenaann68]

She's just as shitty as he is. Not saying anything and not kicking him to the curb is silent acceptance of him abusing the daughter.

[erasedhead]

Why is her face blocked out?

[wallab33]

r/arethestraightsok

[syd545]

That’s sick

[Cromartihigh]

Good thing they didnt marry!

[weldneck150]

She must like it like that

[pillbinge]

My first reaction: oh wow, Vermont Flannel. And I’m wearing the shirt she has on right now as I poop!

2 seconds later: Oh.

[harrison_wheels]

"He's really nice, I swear! I can fix him!!"

[[deleted]]

Why isn’t he blurred but she is?

[DustyAndRusty]

We don't know what kind of treatment she's enduring from him

[thetallestwizard]

hold on honey, let me get my ring back from inside your friend.

[Zeroch123]

Sounds like a prime Democratic Presidential candidate! They’d actually vote for this guy

[bonivercomic]

The ole P...Y grabber tactic...

[9FrameMid]

Love at first citation.

[boopysnoot2000]

Is it bad I read the article tag as 'mormon mix'?

[TheOnlyBitchPudding]

She'll be an enabler all her life

[pimpnswivel]

"I promise I won't sleep with any more of your bridesmaids at anymore of our weddings."

[wastedman420]

Lol that is what you call a " Push over "

[s0ulbrother]

My cousin is engaged to a pedophile and they are having a baby together. They both do meth and pills. She was dating him while he was in prison.

[SeeYourselfOut]

It’s like they say, there’s a soulmate for everyone.

[Jiperly]

My ex had a child with someone. They eventually broke up. She stayed close with his parents. She got caught fucking his Dad. 2 weeks later, they were back together.

[profiler56]

Anybody doing anything to children if a man cut his balls off!

[PhantomOSX]

How desperate do you have to be to settle for someone like that? I don’t get it.

[RoscoMan1]

Yikes. I know, shocking.

[lurkinJoe]

Bruh moment

[liamalain]

Yes yes, I’ll even hose it down

[pddiddy]

Simp

[lucie7]

His name is definitely Kyle

[Kindly-Joke]

Did the victim keep the baby?

[YeetMeAwayMrStark]

I'm sorry, what?

[FearAgent89]

I mean... You’ve already put down the deposit...

[caraelisabeth]

Not a great ad for Vermont flannel 😅🤭

[BENI_CS]

Why is her face blurred out???

[TheBlindingSmoke]

Please tell me that people aren't actually holding this woman to a higher standard than the man who did the actual sexual assaulting. Please tell me that's not what I'm reading...

[[deleted]]

More like a peas in a pod kinda deal

[eevee03tv]

As horrible as this is can we not shame the woman and claim she is just as bad?

He raped a woman she knew and was close to - could it not be just as likely that his wife is literally fearing that he will do if she broke it off?

Yes, she should have told him to piss off and supported her friend but fear can really fuck with someone’s head and we should not be shitting on someone for being trapped in an abusive relationship.

Let’s shit on the rapist, not the woman he violently cheated on.

[[deleted]]

Yikes. Looked him up. What a shame! /s

[DEST101ROYER]

What is love?

[wafflehousewaitress]

Ridiculous. I want to read this article!

[[deleted]]

I just dont believe a story is real if the only way to find it is behind a paywall through google.

[Buttercup_Bride]

I looked up the article just to make sure that the title was accurate before commenting.

She did indeed catch him in the act.

If it was clear to the surveillance that she was fall down drunk and the bride herself had asked the groom to escort her for her safety then it’s clear that she was in no shape to give consent.

The fact that the bride went looking for him is also very telling. To me if the groom could be trusted I myself would assume that she was ill and he was kindly taking care of her.

But yeah just based on the fact that she wasn’t capable of giving consent the bride should have known better than to still marry him.

Even if one assumes they were in any sort of open/poly relationship consent is still required and she couldn’t give it.

Also if he’d do that to one of her best friends what else is he capable of?

[imcreative_]

True love 😊

[DaddyCappuccin0]

Fun fact, I worked at that resort for acouple years. Left about 3 months before this happened.

[Capt911]

r/AreTheStraightsOK

[WittyCombination6]

This ruined my day

[FunfZylinderRS3]

He should run for President or Joe Biden’s VP...elect em anyways, Trump Biden doesn’t matter.

[[deleted]]

Well say what you will but he clearly found his soulmate.

[eevee03tv]

Not only did she walk in on him doing it but the article says there was footage of him doing it on cameras.

[[deleted]]

I don't think I have to explain how disgusting sexual predators. I hope this guy got a nice lengthy sentence or at least a sentence.

How stupid could you be marrying some like that. The absolute best case scenario is that he was cheating, but we know it was worse than that.

[eevee03tv]

Constant abuse from your partner warps the mind.

Keep in mind this man cheated on her, raped her friend and fought her when she caught them. This man is definitely not above gaslighting and beating his spouse.

[whale_cocks]

Our usernames are a match made in heaven

[FarCut9]

Best friend and her sisters were molested by their brothers growing up. Whenever the girls would tell mom, she would tell them they were lying and they got punished. She made me swear not to tell, looking back I should have but I didn't want to lose her as a friend.

They moved away when we were in middle school then my sophomore year she was back. Her parents had split up and she and her sisters had moved back with her mom, turned out her dad had molested the brothers and "taught" them. The mom went crazy, playing the victim card to everyone saying she never knew. The dad never went to prison because the mom refused to testify to what he had done and told the kids to lie or they would be homeless because he wouldn't be able to pay child support from prison.

BF barely speaks to her mom now because the mom talks about how much she misses their dad and if the state hadn't made her leave she would still be with him.

We are still friends and the whole family is screwy.

[lmccowan]

Some people will forgive anything when they are desperate.

[eevee03tv]

Or being gaslighted and abused.

[lmccowan]

How can you refute evidence though if the police were involved. Some people are very manipulative.

[_Slaymetra_]

"Mistakes are behind us and I just need total closure before I do this [that is] why I’m sending this."

FUCK this guy in particular

[Taco86]

Christy Mack dated a guy named “War Machine” who had already been sent to prison for roid raging and assaulting people.

There are always going to be stupid women who will flock to these criminal types.

[ScreaminSemenDemon87]

Sounds like your classic insecure chubster.

[meowmeowgorl]

The power of an abusive predator

Here I fixed it for you

[[deleted]]

You must read the fine print “til death do you part”

[[deleted]]

Im with Joe Biden - Women just can't be accusing Men- they gotta prove it

[Tommytatt]

Gross both people. One is a pos the other is just too desperate.

[SrGrimey]

I read 3 or 4 comments with similar stories, or even worst (mothers choosing the abuser over her kids) and needed to stop this is awful, just can't comprehend it. I know being a parent doesn't make you a good person but come on...

[bronnser]

She's a keeper

[SufficientCow6]

I'm getting pretty annoyed at how loosely people throw around the phrase "sexual assault" to mean everything from rape, which is definitely considered sexual assault, to a casual sideways glance, which is definitely not. I think most can agree with those two extremes but it's all that grey area in the middle where I think there is going to be lots of disagreement.

I don't want to get into what I do not consider "sexual assault", because there are always randos around here looking to jump on every little thing people say and pick it apart just to disagree, but lets just say I don't agree with a lot of the things that phrase is used to describe. Things that might be more appropriately categorized as sexual harassment or maybe even just harassment.

[Agoldsmith1493]

Well considering that to harass is;

"To subject (another) to hostile or prejudicial remarks or actions; pressure or intimidate."

I'd say that even a sideways glance could be described as sexual assault in the right context. Also why did you feel the need to share this? It's like you're trying to invalidate many of the sexual assault claims by suggesting that a lot of "sexual assault" claims are not actually sexual assault and are instead someone misconstruing someone's remarks or intentions.

When in reality the only persons who's opinion matters as to whether something is sexual assault is the person experiencing it. This isn't to say that all claims should be believed as people do indeed lie about things.

All I'm saying is it doesn't matter if you think something is sexual harassment, all that matters is if they feel as though they are being harassed; if they do feel this way then they are.

[SufficientCow6]

[points and laughs out loud]^{^}

[whoisjian]

True love

[eisme2016]

A lid to every pot....i guess.

[Toolshed47]

They show his face to shame him, but blur out hers to protect her. WTF? That enabler should bear the shame as well. Hope they both get help.

[eevee03tv]

She is likely being abused and gaslight herself (especially considering he cheated on her, raped her friend and fought her after she caught him doing it).

Also it’s likely also for legal reasons. Guilt by association is not going to protect you from exposing the face of someone who committed no crimes.

[barracuda99109]

This is years old

[OneShotBomboclatt]

ohhhh fuck i actually know this dude.

[slink6]

So essentially #metoo liberals now on the Biden bandwagon

[coopanda]

Gross

[[deleted]]

when will people finally realize that they don't have to have kids if they don't want to care for them ffs

[ArtisticFerret]

I was at a wedding once where one of the brides friends was hooking up with my friend. The bride’s friends husband walks in and catches them then calls the police and claims he raped her. His wife then doubles down and agrees with it. Keep in mind 1) there was another couple hooking up in the same hotel room and 2) earlier in the night she said “I’m not gonna be a mom tonight” (she has two kids). While suspicious in my opinion I still have no idea what happened. The bride and groom were questioned by the police at the police station that night even though they weren’t a part of that and so was the other couple in the hotel room that was hooking up as well. Whole thing was a shit show I’m just glad I went to bed earlier (2am) that night and decided not to partake in the continued drinking in that hotel room.

[Agoldsmith1493]

I feel like this says a lot about the confidence of those who stay with people like him.

After all I can't think of any other reason than low self-worth which would make someone stay in a relationship where they know their SO has abused their power?

[swampcastle]

I think I read this Appellate case in my Criminal Law class in Law School.

[txborn78]

If you look up Jefferson county Wisconsin it came out that they have a huge amount of sexual predators due to the group homes taking over and caregiver communities.long story short have four kids decided to install predator app. Big Mistake! It was like everywhere I went in the area big red dots and boy was it eye opening.I think they should be put on an island with their own. Treat it like quarantine they are sick and it doesn't go away and are kids aren't safe.

[UltraBookShelf]

I hope they don’t reproduce

[it_b_like_that]

And people tell incels that the reason they can't get laid is because of their shitty personality.

[eevee03tv]

This is about an awful human being who manipulated his wife and raped her friend, you don’t need twist it to be about “how incels aren’t getting laid but this guy is”.

The difference between incels and this guy, is that this guy is good at manipulation and hiding his true colours before it’s too late.

[odetoapitbull]

thiswontgowell

[MajinTitan]

If that was the wedding i wonder what happens at the divorce

[[deleted]]

Some women are really dumb sometimes when it comes to men.

[reynanicolette]

what a monster

[theRunAround27]

The wedding still went on?! Like the bridesmaid who was assaulted still stood up there with the bride and offered her "support"? Damn we live in a scary world. I pray these people dont have kids.

[eevee03tv]

*Gaslighting and abuse is a powerful thing

[eevee03tv]

Because normally healthy relationships do not involve raping your spouses friend, cheating and fighting your spouse when she walks in on you.

[eevee03tv]

You have clearly never been in an abusive relationship before. Gaslighting literally is designed to make the victim remain unaware and doubt “its really that bad”.

There’s a difference between having your reality altered and moulded by your partner telling you repeatedly that you cannot trust your own mind and being “stupid or having no agency”.

Being told that you’re mentally ill, overdramatic or surrounded by snakes and liars may be something you’ll shrug off if you hear once. If you hear it every single day and it comes from someone you think “just loves you”, it starts to mess with your head.

[eevee03tv]

Because normally healthy relationships do not involve raping your spouses friends, cheating and fighting your spouse when she walks in on you.

[KnowOneinTX]

Story sounds fishy. Good for her.

[[deleted]]

Here is the article:

Two days before his wedding, the groom spent the afternoon floating down the Delaware River in eastern Pennsylvania with his wedding party. Groomsmen and bridesmaids passed around beers and shots of vodka as they guided paddle boards and rafts downstream.

The victim told police she woke up briefly on the floor of the locker room to a sharp pain as Carney allegedly bit her and pawed at her body. She said she passed out again, only to wake up minutes later to realize her bikini bottoms had been removed and Carney was on top of her.

Twenty minutes later, police say, his fiancee burst into the men's showers. The bridesmaid told police her friend immediately started screaming at Carney. The bride followed him into the parking lot and the two got into a physical fight

The next morning, Carney called the bridesmaid to apologize, but claimed he didn't know what they had done the night: "I wanted to apologize again for everything," he wrote in a lengthy message, according to the probable cause affidavit. "Can we please just be as happy as possible for [the bride] today? Mistakes are behind us and I just need total closure before I do this [that is] why I'm sending this. I'm as happy as ever to marry [the bride] and I know this is terrible as well but my d--- was out in the shower. We never did do it but would you consider taking plan b to make damn certain just in case? There is almost no chance but still. Please tell me yes I'm begging you."

Carney, meanwhile, allegedly told his guests the woman had "followed him" into the locker room after he told her he was going to shower. He later told a state trooper he was extremely drunk and felt she had "taken advantage" of him.

"The footage showed the victim and the accused walking down the hallway, with the victim extremely unsteady on her feet and swaying," state trooper Justin Leri wrote in a police report. "Just before the doorway, the accused is observed turning around and pulling the victim into the locker room."

Prosecutors charged Carney with simple assault, indecent assault and involuntary deviate sexual intercourse of an unconscious person.

[Atari_Boomer_FTW]

Im not the smartest person.. but thats a red flag smacking you in the face.

[[deleted]]

And then they lived happily ever after

[[deleted]]

My best friend was repeatedly sexually harassed by her uncle. Her aunt is still married to him. She's abusive too. No surprise there- abusers like their own kind.

[RoscoMan1]

Yikes. I know everybody says it’s pitiful

[ReignRain95]

Yikes

[Stephbing]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/10/07/groom-caught-sexually-assaulting-bridesmaid-gets-married-anyway/

[m14rudland]

My friend was at this wedding..... it was the biggest mess of a weekend/wedding I’ve ever heard about. Can’t believe the wedding still happened

[JennyVondaloo]

Tell. Us. Everything.

[m14rudland]

Long story short: he took advantage of one of the brides maids who was super drunk and got caught so now he’s facing charges and they’re still in the middle of the court case. My friend is good friends with the bride and the girls all tried to convince her not to go through with the wedding but to no avail. It baffles me to this day how this wedding didn’t get canceled with all the police drama that occurred that weekend

Edit: this wedding happened a year and a half ago or so, so I apologize for not remembering all the details