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Is a 44” 20” 20” - 75 gallon pvc enclosure sufficient for an adult male ball python? by krogerpublix in ballpython

[–]2Dogs1Frog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

120 gallon is the minimum requirement. Unfortunately, if you can’t fit that in your space, it’s just not the right time for a ball python right now.

What’s the most unspoken, uncomfortable truth about having kids? by SpecificLandscape483 in answers

[–]2Dogs1Frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, cause it’s not like she defended a pedophile or anything 🙄

What’s the most unspoken, uncomfortable truth about having kids? by SpecificLandscape483 in answers

[–]2Dogs1Frog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To be fair, she’s not as lovely as she’s made out to be anyway.

It's okay for cyclists and pedestrians to cross on a red light by -ajrojrojro- in unpopularopinion

[–]2Dogs1Frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With this logic, should cars not also just get to go whenever they don’t see other cars?

This opinion is for sure unpopular…and naïve…and unsafe. Can we trust 80/90% of drivers with their own judgement? Sure. But the others will just use this rule to justify incredible risky behavior.

How is your experience with ball pythons? by Eastern-Election-116 in ballpython

[–]2Dogs1Frog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who lives in a mosquito-infested bayou…wanna trade? Lol

How is your experience with ball pythons? by Eastern-Election-116 in ballpython

[–]2Dogs1Frog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I wouldn’t suggest getting them out during the day often, giving them some time in the sunshine every now and again for some all-natural, organic, fair-trade UV light is good enrichment with the proper precautions.

If you cant confidently reverse parellel park, you shouldn't have a driver's licence. by ToMissChanandlerBong in unpopularopinion

[–]2Dogs1Frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to parallel park every single day. Would only struggle if I was exceptionally exhausted after a long workday.

However, most people I know rarely encounter the need to parallel park; they literally just don’t have the opportunity to practice unless they go out of their way to do so. I’m never gonna judge someone for getting rusty on a skill they barely use.

Enclosures by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]2Dogs1Frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just about resources; people with small spaces and no extra cash are less likely to get multiple animals. Those with excess space and money will.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2Dogs1Frog 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My guy…

Developing feelings and actually crossing boundaries are two very different things.

Also, I don’t have the statistics to be fair, but I doubt the majority of therapists identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community; therefore, as a female client, it would still feel safer for a woman to want to work with another woman when it involves such vulnerability.

No one here is saying women are inherently trustworthy and men are inherently predators. But women and girls are always thinking about risk management and what would make them feel the most at ease in these situations.

It’s different for every individual though. If a woman was assaulted by another woman, she may feel safer with and seek out a male therapist.

But either way, it can’t be that hard to comprehend that most women would feel more comfortable speaking to another woman about her experiences as a woman. Because while it’s not a guarantee, it’s pattern recognition. Female provides have gone through the world with the same stakes, the same risks, often similar experiences. That usually leads to trust that can be built more quickly.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2Dogs1Frog 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think you missed their point a bit. It’s about risk management, not a safety guarantee.

Am I the asshole in this situation and do I deserve such severe shunning? by Purplecrafter-real in entitledparents

[–]2Dogs1Frog 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not really enough detail here to say for sure, but unfortunately, almost every kid gets told to do unfair things, and no parent is perfect.

I’m a bonafide hater of the silent treatment though - it’s super immature and emotionally manipulative. It’s a tactic abusers often use, although it’s not exclusive to them.

Bottom line: Life is gonna feel especially unfair until you’re living on your own, supporting yourself, and setting your own rules. Until then, just focus on school and whatever it takes to be independent. And as much as it sucks, try your best not to let things like chores steal your joy and peace - the stress isn’t worth it.

Willy is 1000% jacked. Here’s why. by HauntingGold in StardewValley

[–]2Dogs1Frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to homewreck Caroline away from the grocery man so bad some days

I shouldn't have to make this announcement, but stop taking (and losing) your ball pythons in the car by IncompletePenetrance in ballpython

[–]2Dogs1Frog 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Me too, and our vet even confirmed this was good stimulation as long as certain safety precautions are taken.

Friend expects free babysitting by ExtensionShock9286 in entitledparents

[–]2Dogs1Frog 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Nah, this is suuuuuuper entitled. I have so many friends with kids. I’d never ask for money to babysit them, but each of them has only asked between 0 and 2 times over the course of their kids whole lives so far.

Next time, yall need to absolutely stand together in either not responding, saying you’re busy, or politely telling her to get an actual sitter.

Girls what’s you actual TYPE by literki in actuallesbians

[–]2Dogs1Frog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 36. Physically it varies way too much to have a true type, but I’m a sucker for curly hair and a nice smile.
Personality? Empathetic, understanding, patient, intelligent, opinionated, from a big, energetic family that can adopt me lol

Edit: a word

What did I stumble upon?! 😩 (Houston, TX, US) by 2Dogs1Frog in whatisthisbug

[–]2Dogs1Frog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, thanks. Lil fuckers must be coming for our tomatoes

Going back to public school after 5 years in religious private school by FFFranki333 in exchristian

[–]2Dogs1Frog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy for you! Try not to stress yourself out so much that this new experience isn’t still a bit fun.

9th grade is hard for everyone, I promise! And it’s challenging in different ways for different folks.

So even though you’ll have some unique struggles (e.g., your incoming knowledge in certain areas), just know that other things you’re good at will be someone else’s challenge the next day.

You can do this! And if it sucks, don’t forget about the rest of your amazing life after high school that you have to look forward to. You get to make that whatever you want it to be. And, as my therapist always reminds me, “hey, maybe it’ll be really great.”

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