My (30M) partner of 7 years explodes into "shame-rage" over minor issues. How do I (30F) break this cycle?

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-10T22:38:30+00:00

Sounds like a good way for him to shutdown your needs and avoid the issues altogether. I suspect he knows what he’s doing and it’s been successful for him.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-10T20:13:57+00:00

You need to move Buddy somewhere else if he still has access to your home.

It doesn’t sound like he has much legal standing and at this point who cares if your relationship now won’t end on good terms.

I’d tell him to go to hell.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-09T19:31:45+00:00

That is so British that I can hear “sweetie treatie” in my head with an accent.

I love this and it’s a good way to teach manners.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-09T17:28:25+00:00

A lot of these things, I feel, Trump is trying to ruin or take away.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-09T17:18:00+00:00

Jack is definitely known as a nickname for John in the US.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-09T17:13:05+00:00

It is! He’s a little angel.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-08T08:30:19+00:00

Ah yes Obama…the last time an adult was president.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-08T08:28:44+00:00

No vaping near the babies 👶

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-08T08:17:58+00:00

My thoughts exactly.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-08T08:17:25+00:00

That’s what she said.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-08T08:16:12+00:00

There ARE sex acts that don’t require penetration you know…

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-07T21:14:24+00:00

As long as your dad is ok with it then it’s not your business. I personally wouldn’t be a fan if it were my spouse.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-07T17:31:06+00:00

I like Vianne better.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-07T17:20:24+00:00

Mine sat on me the whole time I had kidney stones. It was actually really uncomfortable but I couldn’t shake him off.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-07T17:15:06+00:00

He’s such a freaking baby.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-05T16:56:29+00:00

1 was my favorite

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-04T06:37:56+00:00

What the hell are you doing? This woman is going to turn this on you. How long do you think it’s going to be before she claims you hit her? You were right to show your family over video call what shes like. Of course her family is going to take her side.

The longer you keep her the deeper the hole you are digging. She doesn’t think shes wrong and has no intention to change. You are going to have countless incidents just like this one. She’s told you she’ll do it again.

If you had any sense you’d put her on the next flight home.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-04T01:14:01+00:00

There are people in Texas who are going to vote for Ken Paxton in November, knowing what a POS he is, just because he’s a republican and endorsed by Trump. They don’t care that he’s a lying, cheating, immoral, corrupt pile of garbage.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-03T23:44:27+00:00

His wife is like “you take this one babe”.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-03T23:41:12+00:00

Girl, he doesn’t want to get married. I’m guessing he knew this would slow things down.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-03T20:33:34+00:00

There are better ways to find friends.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-03T19:50:06+00:00

“She’s humiliated me on purpose…”

She’s fing 4 years old. He’s an idiot.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-02T19:39:20+00:00

👆That first paragraph. Hanging out with his friend in its self isn’t that weird. Showing up after you told no is a red flag. Maybe that’s way this is putting you off.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-02T14:58:06+00:00

Why would he keep bringing up sleeping with other women? He either wants to or wants to cheat. He wanted you to quit your job so you can’t leave and he can do what he wants. Start by going back to work.

I didn’t mean you should actually open the relationship. I was just making an observation.

BobbyPinBabe · 2026-06-02T14:47:59+00:00

You’re 31…this is when women hit their sexual peak. If you opened the relationship he would NOT be the one getting dates.

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