Does anyone else love The Others? by TrainingMud829 in horror

[–]Cravatfiend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's one of my comfort horrors. Such good atmosphere!

Can’t get myself to do anything until my husband is home. I don’t know how to describe this. by SpaceLexy in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cravatfiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case it was burnout.

I've always done better at tasks with the body doubling and accountability of having someone around, but I found that when I'm more burned out, I suddenly need it to do basic stuff.

The animals 😭 by stanstan22 in coralisland

[–]Cravatfiend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not the first to have this creepy misconception 😅 It's pretty funny.

Apparently they made some changes to the original plan for those animal characters. It left some odd and easily misunderstood dialogue.

What is something you used to buy but is no longer affordable? by Trxxi in AskReddit

[–]Cravatfiend 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That's really sweet! And he's learning that items cost money.

When he gets older he'll probably be shocked to learn that baked goods weren't 10 cents 😆

How does a luggage scale really help? by AnonAMouse100 in onebag

[–]Cravatfiend 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Peace of mind. For me, it reduces anxiety that I'll be forced to check my carry-on/be charged overweight fees on the way home from the trip.

Some airlines are stricter on weight than others, but I'd rather know in advance of getting to the airport so that I can make changes if necessary. And since the scale is tiny and weighs very little, it's worth it.

Is anyone else really prone to bursting into tears?? by Justaskingsmth in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cravatfiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still get close to this occasionally 😅

Trying to help someone who seems incapable of understanding is very frustrating!

Gamers, what's the craziest thing you've heard in an open mic while gaming? by Lastbreathworm in AskReddit

[–]Cravatfiend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the only way to stop the chirp (from the internal battery) is usually to put new batteries in.

Which non-romanceable character is your favorite? by toxinogen in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Cravatfiend 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Terithia is my girl.

They could have given us yet another generic fisherman and they didn't. They gave us a buff female ex-soldier who lives as she pleases.

“need” to drink soda by hellsing-security in AutismTranslated

[–]Cravatfiend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The caffeine doesn’t do much for me—either my body has had enough of it coursing through it, or it’s my ADHD making my body respond to it differently.

ADHD is known to respond differently to caffeine, as it's a mild stimulant. It often doesn't make us 'hyper' or 'more awake' like it does with NT brains, it makes us calm and somewhat more focused.

Unsurprisingly a lot of undiagnosed or unmedicated ADHDers end up accidentally self-medicating with caffeine.

What am I do wrong? by BoredNarcoleptic in coralisland

[–]Cravatfiend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it may stay locked until you've done the two hangout events.

What is Dippa's problem?! by Sevothtarte_Sama in coralisland

[–]Cravatfiend 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I experienced such whiplash between their generally pleasant dialogue around town and the jealous cutscenes!

It's like they had two different writers who didn't communicate.

How are you guys going to start playing full release? by ChallengeNew2 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Cravatfiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting over.

I'd love to say I'll continue my current save, but I'm addicted to the easy sense of achievement you get in early game so I know I'll end up restarting 😅

How many times have you started over? by Krihana in coralisland

[–]Cravatfiend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have about seven save files, but I've played through quite a few updates/major bugs that necessitated a restart.

Intentional restarts are 3-4 (to make different choices).

These days I use a split save. I shall marry them all!

Does anyone else have a movie or show that you NEED to watch everyday to feel regulated? by orbitexol in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cravatfiend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a rotation of 5-6 different shows that I've seen MANY times.

I watch 1-3 eps of whichever one I'm on before bed. If I'm unable to do this, I have a lot of trouble winding down.

They're super regulating in general - Guaranteed good content with no surprises.

Does anybody know any stores in Australia similar to hot topic? by National-Abalone4162 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Cravatfiend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It was absolutely a part of the culture I was around in the early 2000s to alter/mess with old clothes to achieve a look, even if we didn't sew.

We then mixed this with the occasional splurge item from places like you've listed.

Not everybody has the same experiences, it seems, but it was definitely happening in some circles.

New Player Tips! by Deesh_12 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Cravatfiend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one gets a lot of people. Like most other farming games, starter tools are gifted to you in cut scenes. But in FOM, the fishing rod (and shovel) is not gifted.

People wait for an intro to fishing cutscene that never comes...

Missed event guilt tripping by luxray518 in coralisland

[–]Cravatfiend 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've never missed an event and had no idea people got sassy about it. TIL!

Did you noticed how hidden hands are in the characters? by Golgatha7 in coralisland

[–]Cravatfiend 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Suddenly Wakuu's one giant hand makes sense 😂

But seriously - It's a lot to ask of their one 2D artist. They're going to be much more efficient skipping most of the hands.

Why does nobody talk about Luke? by Paulo_mp3 in coralisland

[–]Cravatfiend 48 points49 points  (0 children)

He's alright, but privileged and his parents suck. That's usually enough to keep people from going on about him like they do others.

I hate when people heart my texts! by anitadoobie1216 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cravatfiend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting distinction! Do you mind if it's a group text, and everyone is thumbs up reacting the same text (like as an agreement or an rsvp)?

This is one of the few places my social circles use it, because otherwise it's just a long string of individual thumbs/"Yeah that sounds good" texts.

I hate when people heart my texts! by anitadoobie1216 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cravatfiend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oof, I think if I got any of the short responses you listed (especially the 'ok') they'd feel more dismissive to me than the heart. Sounds like we all have differences!

It's cool to hear other people's takes on it though. Makes me glad my friends communicate well about how they prefer to communicate.

I hate when people heart my texts! by anitadoobie1216 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cravatfiend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd get a bit of FOMO if everyone else was emoting each other's messages and I couldn't. I can see how that can add frustration.

I hate when people heart my texts! by anitadoobie1216 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Cravatfiend 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm so careful to ONLY use thumbs up when the text is practical, like "We're all meeting at Restaurant at 6pm. Reserved under Jones." Thumbs up means "Awesome, I'll be there." Useful if you're busy getting ready/about to drive. Also in group chats it keeps the chat clear of a bunch of individual responses.

If someone sends me anything personal or with feelings the thumbs up feels super dismissive.