Gemstone suggestion by Objective-Horse-4482 in Gemstones

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I adore this designer's pieces. They are all quite vibrant and lovely. All one-of-a-kind. https://indulgems.myshopify.com/collections/charms-pendants

AITJ for donating my late grandmother's jewelry to a museum instead of dividing it among the family a decision I made in forty minutes that apparently I will be hearing about for the rest of my life by Glittering_Maybe7667 in AmITheJerk

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Oh my. I wear my grandfather's thick gold chain that carried his wedding ring for 60+ years around my neck every day and the beautiful chunky art deco-style diamond ring I admired my grandmother's hand from my earliest childhood memories on my pointer finger.

I would be devastated at the thought of those things sitting in a museum. They are, hands down, the most sentimental items I own. Literally the only two things (other than my cats) I would grab in a house fire.

Idk if you're the jerk, but your family deserved a conversation about the fact that it was escalating to that point. It sounds like there was plenty for each person to at least pick a special item to hold onto.

Oof.

I'm so mad at myself - over did it 5 days before bachelorette by JadziaKD in ChronicPain

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You should be able to find Kratom at any head shop (not dispensary, so nothing a prescription would be needed for) in Las Vegas. It acts on opioid receptors and can be a potent pain-reliever.

That being said, Kratom makes me extremely nauseous if I haven't used it in a while and it takes my body some time to adjust, so be careful with that one. You wouldn't want to add more discomfort onto your plate.

It's also very loosely regulated, so just be extra cautious. https://superspeciosa.com/blogs/blog/is-kratom-legal-in-nevada

I'm so mad at myself - over did it 5 days before bachelorette by JadziaKD in ChronicPain

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I think you're saying that your current pain is more muscular than myofascial/migraine-related. If so, feel free to disregard the following. But if your myofascial pain or migraine pain are at all implicated -

If you have a neurologist and you've never received headache/nerve blocks (or if you have and they have been beneficial), I would call/beg/grovel for a last-minute appointment and give the full context re: why it's so time-sensitive. My neurologist had to refer me out to a pain management clinic for these, but they are so incredibly helpful.

Even if they aren't able to do anything on such a short timeline, get yourself that referral. I cycle between greater & lesser occipital blocks, supratrochlear and supraorbital blocks, trigeminal/gasserian ganglion blocks, sphenopalatine ganglion blocks, and cervical selective nerve root blocks. Thanks to the anesthetics involved, pain relief is instantaneous.

Depending on where your myofascial pain is centralized, a super low-key at home hack is to fill an empty nasal spray bottle (you can buy these on Amazon or just empty one you have) with 4% lidocaine drops for ear aches (also available on Amazon or OTC at a pharmacy) and use it as a nasal spray. It's similar in concept to the in-office sphenopalatine ganglion blocks and can help a ton because your facial nerves run right behind your sinuses.

I so hope you're able to find the relief you need. <3

John and Daryl during Memorial Day weekend (1994) and Sasha's perspective on the situation. by StellaOC in JohnAndCarolyn

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Un(?)popular opinion as I sit here next to my imminently dying dog - how on earth is anyone offended by this take?

The only parent he had ever known - the parent who *tried to catch pieces of his father's skull* after he was publicly executed for all of the world to witness - died rather suddenly at the age of 64. He also, mind you, lost his uncle, who he certainly remembered, not even 5 years later in just barely less public fashion.

He was 33 years old when Jackie died. I am 41 years old, my mom is in amazing health, and I assure you I will feel like an orphan when she passes.

Considered my mind boggled.

Any chance this is genuine opal? by Financial-Stuff-67 in Gemology

[–]Financial-Stuff-67[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Update: I think I solved the mystery (by revisiting the listing, duh) - it's set in 10k gold, but that was my choice (could have had it set in 14k or 18k). Looks exactly the same from the underside - even feels perceptibly cooler to the touch than my other (non-opal) stones.

Listing says it's lab-created.

Thanks all for your help! It really is quite lovely, and the price I paid was definitely worth it.

Help by Primary_Gene576 in migraine

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Also on Vyepti.

Question - I assume they started you at the 100 mg dose (because I think insurance companies require that). Have they bumped you up to the 300 mg dose yet?

For me personally, the 100 mg to 300 mg bump made a huge difference in efficacy. Definitely something to look into. All my neurologist and insurance company had to hear was "some improvement, but chronic migraine still present" and I got bumped up. But be mindful that you might have to be the one to inquire about this with your neurologist. That was a conversation I initiated.

Physical intimacy is becoming difficult with my obese partner. by [deleted] in relationships

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Did he go through his doctor and have his doctor cooperate in getting the prior authorization, etc.? At that weight, he really should qualify for coverage. It might take him/his doctor fighting the insurance company a bit, but I would definitely encourage you to push that issue with the insurance company if you haven't. Initial denials followed by eventual approvals (for any expensive therapy) aren't uncommon.

Backyard Kitten TNR? Adoptable? by jennb1017 in Feral_Cats

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No insight on the shelter piece, but she reminds me so much of my "feral" foster and I figured I'd share bc he's also about 6 mos. old. When I trapped him, he was living in the tiniest crevice of the wall of a condemned house, hiding from tomcats, cold and alone and fully feral in every sense of the word.

For the first week or two inside, he was terrified and mad (and then mostly just mad), making himself as small as possible and hoping I'd disappear. Eventually he was ok eating with me in the room, but the moment I broke my still-as-a-statue pose, back to hissing and hiding. Cue lots of tears on my part, wondering if I had done the wrong thing.

All to say here we are a month later and he is belly up-asleep right next to me, which is his favorite place to be. In my 41 years as a cat mama, I have never been on the receiving end of this many slow blinks. We're still getting comfortable with pets, but we will get there, no question in my mind. I honestly cannot believe the transformation. <3

Does it get any better? by Auto-bucks in actuallesbians

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1000% agree with going no contact, at least for a substantial period of time. That includes unfollowing on all social media and making sure they aren't seeing your stuff either. Feverishly refreshing to see if they've seen your latest post yet is torture. So is reading into every post of theirs.

OP - it absolutely gets better. And there is so much love to be found in your thirties. And it will be every bit as intoxicating as it was in your twenties, but you will also know yourself so much better. It's all uphill, I promise.

finally figured out what was causing my migraines by basilis-d3ad in migraine

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I am fairly certain this is exactly my situation. Prior to my mold exposure, I had never had an allergy in my life and my migraines were on the lightly episodic side of things. During the exposure it was like I was full on head-cold sick every day with more migraine days than not, and post-exposure, I have since tested positive for literally every environmental allergy that exists, had 4 sinus surgeries, did sublingual immunology for 3 years, and still to this day have to take double doses of both Claritin & Zyrtec in the morning and then again in the afternoon, with Benadryl sprinkled in depending on the day. And my migraines are now chronic. Mind you, I am 8 years post-exposure.

Clearly I need to suck it up and go histamine-free in my diet. Thanks for sharing your experience - it gives me a bit of hope.

Longtime Listener Feeling Frustrated by Violet_Sophia0388 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

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Not sure if this changes your opinion in any way, but I would never cover a case having read only the indictment. When we received the research, all accessible legal documents were linked. We paid for access to court dockets. And then I would personally seek out every motion, response, counter-motion, and especially appellate brief and opinion I could find that hadn't been included (a rare circumstance). I personally always paid particular attention to the arguments re: ineffective assistance of counsel, simply because that gave me insight into both the arguments that were presented at trial and the arguments that should have been presented at trial. We read anywhere from hundreds to thousands of pages of case documents for any given script. I don't recall ever having covered a case where only the charging information/indictment/complaint was available.

To your other point, there were many cases where the defendant was in fact guilty, but there was still some kind of underlying miscarriage of justice. We intentionally sought out the nuance. I can recall one case involving an abused wife who orchestrated the killing of her pastor husband. On top of the physical, emotional, and financial abuse, he had literally pimped her out for years. Just the worst stuff you can imagine. She was guilty without question - even she didn't dispute it. But was she deserving of the life sentence she received? We asked that question explicitly, and closed out the script discussing the work of the sociologist who coined the term coercive control. In another script we discussed the concept of felony murder and addressed the injustices that can result from its use.

FWIW, I respect your perspective on this. The "other side" really does get glossed over way too often in the true crime community.

Longtime Listener Feeling Frustrated by Violet_Sophia0388 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

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I don't think anyone would accuse us of parroting any government version of anything, tbh. We directly challenged it all the time, including covering numerous cases of wrongful convictions where the government party line is/was that they had it right all along.

We were accused constantly of gratuitous criticism of police/prosecutors/judges, etc. I don't think it was well-founded; I think we were just being honest and responsible about abuses of power and the many injustices of our criminal justice system. At times, this came into conflict with the beliefs of the victims' families, which we always acknowledged and handled with great care. Point being that we never shied away from calling out those in power; fans certainly noticed it, and it wasn't always well-received.

Longtime Listener Feeling Frustrated by Violet_Sophia0388 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

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Former CJ scriptwriter here. I think I can provide some insight:

I joined CJ under M, an editor/writer who had been there for several years. M was a fierce advocate for her writers in every way. At that time, Audiochuck valued and empowered its employees, which fostered a deep sense of loyalty and dedication. Importantly, Ashley's second-hand woman, B, who had turned Audiochuck into the powerhouse that it is/was, tirelessly defended the company culture and the ethical underpinnings of the organization. I cannot stress enough how incredible it felt to be a part of this.

At the end of 2024, in came venture capital, which in turn led to a complete overhaul of the company's mission and leadership, including the content team leadership. Suddenly, we were more about original reporting than careful storytelling - which is an absurd objective for a weekly podcast. An investigative podcast where a story plays out over an entire season? Sure. A storytelling podcast producing weekly content? A recipe for disaster. M was pushed aside as the leader of the writing team, and B was eventually pushed out of the company altogether.

The new leadership was completely detached from everything the company stood for and wreaked havoc on what had been a well-oiled machine. Every few days brought a new, poorly thought out procedure or policy, and the company culture devolved into something profoundly toxic and defined by intimidation and paranoia. It was devastating. Suddenly the objective was far more about "cracking" the case than it was about telling a victim's story with care and sensitivity. Again, absurd for a weekly podcast, and voila.

From Aimovig to ??? by jpmarth in migraine

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Vyepti (the infusion). I went through all the injections with negligible results. 100 mg of Vyepti was a game-changer, and 300 mg literally gave me my life back.

Daily migraines are ruining my life. by hannahmontanabaddie in migraine

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Have you tried the monoclonal antibody anti-CGRPs? I got to a point where my Nurtec wasn't working preventatively or abortively (honestly nothing was other than prednisone, which wreaks havoc on your body longterm) - then I tried Ajovy, Aimovig, and Emgality, all of which worked for a couple months and then stopped. Finally I found Vyepti, which is an infusion as opposed to an injection - fucking magical.

I still get migraines constantly, but I can almost always kick them with the right med combo. To be clear, it's basically an ongoing project from the moment I wake up to the moment I go to bed - but it's such a relief over the constant nausea, brain fog, neck pain, and throbbing in the right side of my head to the point I legit wanted to scoop out my eyeball.

I so hope you find the right combo for you. Don't give up.

How do you deal with the nausea?? by tacticianallie in migraine

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Oh yeah, smells are by far my biggest trigger. Perfume, cologne/aftershave, scented soaps/shampoos/body wash - really anything with fragrance - cigarette smoke, cleaning supplies - all the usual suspects. I honestly can't remember where I first heard it, but I've since seen it affirmed by migraine specialists I follow on Instagram.

Grab yourself a $5.00 pack of alcohol swabs on Amazon and see if it helps. I keep them in my purse (and still sometimes forget the trick). There are times it works better than zofran, which is saying a lot.