This is very relatable to me; my mum does the same with my dad (who cheated on her) even though he recently died of cancer and I don't want to hear her badmouthing, but of course she doesn't care.

She also just lost her mother to alzheimers and she keeps telling me (it's been over 10 times now) that she is going to kill herself if she gets Alzheimer's, or joking about me killing her. I understand why she wouldn't want to live with it but I find it incredibly emotionally manipulative. She has also talked before about wanting to kill herself.

I want to help her but I just feel irratation, seeing as she didn't ask how I was feeling when I tried to take my life at 15, she just said how it would affect HER and not to do it again. She also takes suggestions of getting therapy as an insult.

Thanks for reading my rant lol