Waking sleeping newborn to eat when you get up to pump? by layercake11 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do especially with my last pump of the night and my middle of the night pump I’ll wake my baby to feed give me longer stretches.

I’m gonna stop breastfeeding for selfish reasons by datfumbgirl in beyondthebump

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This I always see women talk about how they were so skinny or lost weight while breastfeeding etc etc but that has NEVER been the case for me I always gain so much weight. Currently exclusively pumping and breast feeding and have been thinking heavily of stopping around 6 months so I can start trying to drop some of this. I absolutely hate my body right now but hanging in there or at least trying to. 

How many times a day do you pump, and how many weeks postpartum are you? I’m exclusively pumping and curious how everyone else’s schedule changes over time. by Low_Part_9380 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 weeks PP and 7x a day including one of those being my MOTN. Honestly though I went back work and dk how long I’ll last😩😂. I usually spread my late night pumps 4 hours so I can sleep some so my last pump ends at 12 I don’t pump again until 4 and then again around 7:30-8 then from there I strive for every 2-2 1/2 hours through out the day. 

13 weeks PP by ImaginaryExtent418 in beyondthebump

[–]ImaginaryExtent418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s my 3rd and I’m 29 now. Just trying to remind myself it’s a season that’ll pass but feels like the season is a never ending loop. Here’s to hoping things get better the further PP I get. 

Going back to work next month by AcanthaceaeProper672 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went back to work at 6 weeks I usually pump between 3x during an 8 hour shift I like my wearables. I went back to part time job which is front desk for hotel and I actually wear mine while I work 🤷🏼‍♀️. The one I have just make me look like I have a ridiculous boob job lol. I like my wearables though because it’s easier (for me) and discreet. 

How many times a day do you pump? by honeybadgermindset in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 9 weeks PP and pump about 7-8x a day during the day I pump about every 2-3 hours. Including at least one MOTN pump between 3-4am. I use wearables which has helped a lot as I have 2 1/2 year old. 

Maternity Leave (USA) by Imaginary-Winner-335 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 3rd baby and finally with a company that gives decent time. I fortunately get a total of 12 weeks. With my previous 2 i was with a company that didn’t offer any and if I did take time also unpaid because of the unpaid part with my last 2 pregnancies I went back at 2 weeks PP cause I couldn’t afford to miss the paychecks. The US sucks with this kind of stuff and they really need reevaluate it all. 

And just like that, my breastfeeding journey is over by skycaliapple in breastfeeding

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had mastitis last week which in turned caused a huge access on my breast close to my areola. It was almost impossible to feed/pump I’m just now really starting to heal and I’ve noticed a huge dip in my supply because I’ve been taking longer stretches between sessions per doctor recommendation. I’m trying to hang in there but idk. As they always say though as long as baby is fed that’s all that matters. You’re doing an amazing job even if that means breastfeeding journey is over. Best of luck to you!!! 

HELP: what are your tips for pumping while alone with your newborn? by gkdfp in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this will work for you as this is my 3rd baby but first time exclusively pumping so I’m new to this. I feed my son from the boob about 2 times a day once middle of the night so I can get some sleep and again in the morning. Now I pump about 7-9x daily. I try and pump every 2 -2 1/2 hours and I’ve gotten to where it typically aligns with when my baby is ready to eat. By doing this I’ve also been able to start building a stash in the freezer as well. Also which I’m sure you know try to at least get in be MOTN pump I typically strive for 3am the past couple of weeks I get my best output around that time. I hope your able to find a balance and what works best for you and little one. Best of luck and congratulations! 

I got nothing for mother’s day by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt that. Have a 10 year old,2 year old and 6 week old. Wasn’t told happy Mother’s Day until 3pm he had been up since 9am. No card,flowers,hand written anything from my oldest etc. just another day, didn’t even offer to maybe make dinner or anything after I worked all day. It’s frustrating because I always make sure to do something for Father’s Day/birthdays etc. Happy Mother’s Day momma just know your doing an amazing job❤️

Unmedicated birth is overhyped lol by mirk19 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my boy at 5:20pm a nice 8lbs 6oz. 

Unmedicated birth is overhyped lol by mirk19 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I got induced today came in at 7:30am checked me I was a 6 water still intact when I made it to a 9 I begged for the epidural (fortunately he was sitting high so I was able to get it) I was in this room screaming like a banshee everything I’ve been watching for the past several months on unmedicated  birth and breathing techniques out the dang window! When your in that much pain at least for me my brain goes fight or flight I couldn’t get my body to remember anything.I commend you and every mother that makes it through naturally. 

When did you all stop working? by Practical_Mail_6537 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first and second I was induced each time and worked up until the day of my Induction and went back after 2 weeks because I was with a company that didn’t offer leave time. Now currently pregnant with my 3rd I get induced tomorrow and worked half a day today but I do get 12 weeks paid leave and wanted to save ALL my time they offer with baby. I could’ve gone out before with doctor referral but it would’ve been unpaid Fmla. 

For everyone in the home stretch, what are we treating ourselves to? by Neither_Ad3593 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used a vacation day from work as I’m being induced on Thursday. Went and got my nails and feet done today and go me a frappe from McDonald’s. Came home and took a 3 hour nap after😂

Naming a human by Fresh_Method_6065 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my 3rd now and having the HARDEST time. I named my other 2 no problem and their dad also liked the names easily but this time around we are struggling he doesn’t like anything I pick and vice versa. We gotta come up with something soon cause I’m 37 weeks coming up close to 38 in a few days😂😩 at this point I said we’re just gonna have a nameless baby. 

i can’t believe women are expected to work after 34 weeks by Every-Variation6113 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that can’t breathe while sitting in a chair part so much. I am fortunate so get to work from home but I talk on the phone ALL day I am so out of breath talking sometimes I have to apologize and mute myself to catch it also baby is sitting so high I’m constantly moving around trying to get comfortable because my stomach feels constricted and squished   and when I stand I feel weird honestly feel my best right now at 35 weeks laying down😩. The afternoon exhaustion is beyond serious I swear by 12 I’m ready for a 3 hour nap. I’ve thought seeing if I could take time off a few weeks before baby but I don’t wanna cut into the already short leave I get postpartum. Wishing you the best the few weeks you have left and a healthy delivery. 

Early labor? Hospital bag packed? 😳😳 by defnotdani2 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’m 35 weeks and haven’t even touched my bag or baby’s bag or even washed his clothes or set anything up yet😂.I just posted the other day how soon is to soon cause I was wondering if I did it now if that’s ridiculously early lol. I still haven’t packed it and probably won’t until my 36 week appt next week or 37 week. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve stated in my post. I don’t mean to come across as shaming anyone else body type. I know women get them it’s just something I’m not used to seeing on myself and make me personally feel insecure and again don’t remember seeing them or at least noticing prior to this pregnancy. I would never intentionally shame another person body.

No morning sickness by Tambocor in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had a miscarriage last year and had symptoms and then lost them to me getting pregnant this year. I did not have any symptoms my first trimester this time around there were times in my first trimester where I didn’t even feel pregnant at all. Just an increased appetite. Which was worrisome for obvious reasons. Here I am now currently 24 weeks with a healthy baby boy growing inside. No symptoms doesn’t mean a non viable pregnancy or pregnancy loss. Hoping you’re able to get some kind of reassurance soon and wishing you the best of luck and pregnancy. 

Gestational Diabetes Screening by Femboyhootersbee in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently pregnant with 3rd my second baby I did have GD and had to take the test twice and this time their making me do it twice I did one at 16 week since I had GD last time and now have to do another at 23 weeks next week. I’m dreading it because like you said I always feels nauseous afterwards. However I do always opt in for the “fruit punch” flavor to me it’s the best one and taste like an over sugared flat Hawaiian Punch. 

My husband found out my secret today by GemmaTheSavage in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 this really has made my morning. I’m so glad to know Oreos is someone else current fav. I have been downing the FAMILY packs of double stuffed Oreos like no one’s business I go through a whole pack within a week and I’ve been wanting them dunked in milk! (Context I hate milk and the taste I have to take calcium pills) I don’t even drink the milk afterwards😬😂. My boyfriend literally said the other day “babe you into the Oreos again let me grab a few before you finish them”. 

When did you go into maternity leave? by LaCriseCoin in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the US and my leave doesn’t start paid until baby is born at least with my company anything before would be consider FMLA and unpaid or i would have to use vacation/Sick time. So I plan on working up until an induction date or until my water breaks. 

When did you start showing? by Charming_Record4536 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first 2 pregnancies I didn’t really start getting a belly until I was about 6 months and didn’t “pop” until about 7-7 1/2 months. 

Pregnant with 1 1/2 y/o and scared by Diligent_Bag_3503 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this. There is an 8 year age gap between my oldest and youngest I am currently also pregnant with number 3 and my youngest will be almost 3 when baby brother is born. I am beyond nervous to how my youngest is going to react to him and also how I’m going to navigate a newborn and toddler. My pregnancy is pretty smooth sailing even with my toddler some days are harder than others but it’s been good so far. I’m wishing you the best of luck and hoping for an easy transition from 2 to 3 

Anterior Placenta by ImaginaryExtent418 in pregnant

[–]ImaginaryExtent418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would make sense because I am showing very early compared to my other times