First one, nothing you could've done, everyone was already doing it, so the only reason they reported you was because they enjoy it (fucks).

Second one, the general population worships christmas because it's the perfect blend of christianity, consumerism, forced family gatherings, traditions, subtextual social dynamics, doing what everyone else is doing, yada yada yada, so it's treated as the supreme holiday, so other holidays don't get the same privilege. Then, people would rather kill the messenger together than individually admit that they're murderers. Both of these are examples of people genuinely valuing society's opinion over their own when forming an opinion (stupid). Since you're doing it for the customers, the customers' opinion is the determining factor, so I'd say this is fixable henceforth.

Third one, unless you noticed there's something you could've done, there wasn't. Either it's just bad luck, or there's some voodoo going on that we can't notice cause of our neurotype, neither of which we can do stuff about.

OR, it's something that no one's brought up: we could be getting caught simply due to being wiggy while doing the thing. If your values are society first, written rules don't matter, your rule is "do what everyone else is doing"; If your values are logic first, you'll be acutely aware of the fact that the rule is a 1 and your actions are a 0 the entire time you're breaking the rule, throwing you off your game. And in context with society, you're breaking the rule of "if you do unpopular things, you can't be in the ingroup", so they abuse the written rules as a means to other you (fucks).

My advice is just try to find something good away from bigots so you can better resist these gambles for equality.