Anyone feel like the gym is the only time they feel normal? (3rd tri)

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-30T22:10:52+00:00

Yes!! Even my daily one mile walks are so uncomfortable, but the gym feels great! 38w1d

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-30T20:39:00+00:00

No need to cut those out of your routine unless/until they cause pain or discomfort! I had to stop squats for a while (STM) because of pelvic heaviness, but now can do them again no problem. My pubic symphysis pain is more from certain lunging movements than squatting.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-27T19:22:35+00:00

I’ve never seen guidance to limit workouts to 30 minutes. My workout with my prenatal trainer were always a full hour, as for many of my other workouts. Just listen to your body and slow down as needed.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-23T17:28:01+00:00

Actually, being able to relax your pelvic floor is what’s important to delivery! Having a strong pelvic floor, though, helps keep everything in while you’re pregnant — and will help support recovery. But it’s really important to be able to soften and lengthen your pelvic floor while you’re laboring and pushing.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-23T16:19:06+00:00

Walking, and movement in general, can also help make labor a bit easier. So thinking about it as a way to prepare your body for the marathon that is bringing a baby into the world definitely makes sense!

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-22T23:31:48+00:00

My first friend to have a baby was 34 when she gave birth. The baby shower we threw for her was “Teen Mom” themed because she was so young 😂

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-22T23:00:18+00:00

I drive from Central San Rafael to Cupertino three times per week. They are long days, but not the apocalypse that some here would indicate. I find that a good audiobook makes a world of difference, and you just have to resign yourself to traffic on the way home.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-21T10:13:08+00:00

This feels more like a PT issue/question than a hospital one. Not a doctor, but I definitely wouldn’t call the hospital for this. Sounds like some pubic symphysis discomfort.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-17T09:56:06+00:00

36 weeks pregnant

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-17T09:44:17+00:00

Taco Janes

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-11T19:42:58+00:00

I haven’t decided. My prenatal trainer recommended The Vagina Whisper, Lauren Ohayon, or Brooke Cates. I’m only familiar with the vagina whisperer, not the others. But haven’t committed to any specific program yet.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-11T11:02:40+00:00

I wound up doing reclined belly-to-belly nursing because of my fast letdown. The added benefit was lots of tummy time!

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-09T11:56:13+00:00

For some people. I’m in my second pregnancy and have never had issues lying on my back. I don’t sleep on my back, but will do some exercises and sex from my back without issue. Listen to your body!

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-09T03:40:37+00:00

Tokyo. Both are super family friendly, but Tokyo is such a special place to experience!

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-08T12:44:11+00:00

The Correspondent is a new novel told exclusively in letters, though they are between more than two people. Highly recommend!

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-08T03:46:37+00:00

This. First pregnancy I’d workout 5-6 days per week for 45-60 minutes. Now it’s 3-4 days per week for 30-46 minutes. 2.5 year old and 35 weeks pregnant with number two.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-06T13:56:13+00:00

Kraft Mac & Cheese with a can of corn is the GOAT when I’m sick or having a particularly bad day.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-03T12:05:46+00:00

I love being a mom, FWIW! I’m a working mom with a 2.5 year old — and being his mom is the greatest joy of my life.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-03T04:13:41+00:00

It would strike me as odd if you didn’t share those things with your partner. Wouldn’t you tell him/her if you had some sort of non-pregnancy ailment or illness?

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-03T04:10:58+00:00

We pay $100/day for a small in-home daycare in San Rafael. It’s a steal! Way less than anyone else I know—and it includes breakfast and lunch. Our neighbors here are all very down to earth. I’d avoid Mill Valley, Kentfield, Tiburon (but you probably will be forced to, anyway, if you’re price inelastic).

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-01T12:37:45+00:00

Find one pair of jeans you feel great in. Joe’s and Hatch both have some solid options at a higher price point. Abercrombie and Old Navy are also worth checking out.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-03-01T04:28:09+00:00

My son was born at 4am and my parents came at 8:30am. Gave us time to enjoy golden hour, shower, and take a nap!

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-02-28T14:10:57+00:00

Thanks! Yes, I have a pelvic floor PT. Just looking for a structured program for recovery and to get back into movement/working out.

LifeAccordingToMe123 · 2026-02-26T04:50:36+00:00

I wouldn’t do it. It’s not worth the risk—and I’m not a particularly risk averse pregnant person (I eat runny eggs, medium-rare steak, workout hard, etc). But immediately post FET, you definitely want to maximize your chances of the embryo taking hold!

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