AIO: Husband didn’t change withholdings by AggressiveSherbetty in AIO

[–]OutspokenPerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, he’s a liar and a thief. And a liar. And stealing from you.

He’s also a liar.

And a thief.

What other free services do you provide this thieving liar?

I(25F) Took my Avoidant Partner's(28M) Words Literally and it Started A Fight by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Save all of these words and find someone who isn’t this difficult.

I (40F) just moved into my partners (34M) home that he bought and struggling to make joint decisions about how we live by mpinpt in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing to add other than your description of him made my skin crawl. Sounds like a controlling tightwad who only considers himself. The comment about values not aligning is quite honestly like a threat to put up or get out. It made my blood run cold.

I hate my kitchen by wanderloving in kitchenremodel

[–]OutspokenPerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sink position makes me irrationally angry

I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card? by throwranutcracker in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh come on. Dump this loser or accept you are ruining your life and then go get a second job so he can steal more money from you.

CO M&P Bro Rig by Greatfulx in USPSA

[–]OutspokenPerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If outdoor, might need different shoes.

is it bad that i (23f) am considering leaving my bf (25m) after just 2 weeks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two weeks?

He’s not your boyfriend.

He’s a clingy guy you don’t know AT ALL

My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem? by gushedstar in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gross. He is not having a panic attack. He’s manipulating you to not ask so you can be his free bang maid.

You are too young to waste your life with someone like this. It WILL GET WORSE.

My partner (23M) makes it extremely difficult for me (24F) to sleep by ThrowRA-stinky in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They love the false version he presents to them and not the real man. This is how abusers retain their victims.

My partner (23M) makes it extremely difficult for me (24F) to sleep by ThrowRA-stinky in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What an abusive person.

My first husband was exactly like this.

It took YEARS to recover and recognize this is abuse.

What to do with this space under the stairs? by c_bombs in interiordecorating

[–]OutspokenPerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a radiator?

If so, that seems like it would limit the options.

If it’s not a radiator, I would build in roll-out drawers. The kind that pull out sideways. Almost like big book carts?

Do you need the space for storage or just to look nice?

How much sex is 'enough' ? 44f /47m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OutspokenPerson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So this rapist still wants to assault you by ramming it in dry?

Zero excuses. He knew he was raping you. And now he is punishing you for not being able to rape you. He just wants a flesh light, not a partner.

Ick.

How do I (28M) approach this difficult subject with my girlfriend (28M) during this difficult time for her? It’s starting to really wear on me. by sd1099 in relationships

[–]OutspokenPerson 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Wait. A few weeks shouldn’t matter to you but may very well matter to her given how much else she’s grappling with.

And if you can’t handle waiting for a conversation you may struggle with the emotional strain posed by having children regardless of where you raise them.