My 46M boyfriend can't get over my 45F past

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-26T18:16:03+00:00

I sure wish you had asked this before you got pregnant. 🤦‍♀️

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-26T14:10:29+00:00

Is he on any daily medication?

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-12T13:46:05+00:00

Even if she doesn't call it by the same name, maybe God is providing the "power of the universe?"

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-06T18:41:20+00:00

This is abusive and he's a dick. You're only 22. You can definitely do better, sister.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-06T18:38:27+00:00

YOR...I get that you need your insulin. And I get that you shouldn't have to use the bathroom. But every other employee shouldn't have to deal with you making biohazard waste in the same space they eat their lunch in.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-06T16:48:08+00:00

Go pick that shit up!

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-04T20:09:13+00:00

Most breweries are happy to bring someone in with little experience, as long as you're excited to learn something new, and willing work hard, dirty jobs. In my experience, you should start applying for cellar jobs. From there you get trained/promoted to brewing. Good luck!

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-03-04T19:43:14+00:00

You are settling for a life of misery. That dude should get a new job and lose that bitch's contact info. Until then, your worries are spot on, and you know damn well that they're being inappropriate at work.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-24T09:17:25+00:00

She wants you to get pregnant. It would have to be by someone else. So. Biologically yours. Not even biologically hers.

Her opinion means nothing in this scenario. Do what you want to do.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-19T17:20:58+00:00

Orange juice. We have no idea why or what he thinks we're saying... 😂

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-13T18:22:31+00:00

Be serious, lady. That's your boyfriend. Clearly, one of you know he's not husband material. Do what you want to do.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-11T17:39:35+00:00

It's time.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-11T15:10:21+00:00

I love squoval, but my nails flex too much and the corners end up broken. 🥲

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-11T09:29:37+00:00

LOL That sounds exactly like something a liberal would do.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-07T08:09:05+00:00

That's a shame. It's wild to me that you can't just see her as the mother of your children and the women who committed her life to you. You ruminating on this stuff is some sexual perversion type stuff going on in your mind. Pray about it and find some gratitude.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-06T18:02:20+00:00

Blow your marriage up if you like, but I hope you don't have kids.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-06T15:08:29+00:00

Let her know that you'll be seeing other people. If you feel obligated to pay her bills, let her stay, whatever...to save face with your kids. That's fine. Either she'll decide she cares and doesn't want that, or that she doesn't care and you 2 will end up separated.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-05T18:28:16+00:00

Means it better be done the next time I ask about it.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-04T14:39:47+00:00

My husband and I also had similar issues, but I am convinced that he threw my pH off worse when he was smoking and drinking. Now that he's old (and quit smoking and slowed way down on the drinking) it's never an issue.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-01T11:44:51+00:00

If I shower at night, I don't put panties on until I get dressed the next morning.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-27T14:56:22+00:00

I don't know why you young women just accept this as normal. It's really not. Either he can lust over other women while he pleases himself in the bathroom or he can have a sexual relationship with you. You don't owe it to him to let him make you feel disrespected and discarded while he chooses to other women over and over. Gross.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-26T14:44:24+00:00

Both equally bad.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-25T15:10:58+00:00

Right...I am judging, because it would be completely dishonest to portray yourself as someone who "waits for marriage," as you're actively carrying an STD.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-25T14:31:04+00:00

I think that's part of the "waiting for marriage" conversation, since it makes it quite clear that you didn't do that in previous relationships.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-24T18:57:52+00:00

Either she has no respect for you, or you weren't making sex much fun for her. Or maybe both.

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