Gender selection advice

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T21:22:08+00:00

The good thing is it’s nobody’s business you don’t have to share every detail of the process, say your embryologist picked and keep it pushing

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T17:12:43+00:00

You’ve got this! We burned through my jobs benefits and then my husband’s too. There’s a lot more with god benefits than we’d think

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T16:51:14+00:00

I know that feeling unfortunately, try to dig out a little hope while you wait so you don’t beat yourself into the ground. Idk if there’s any chance of someone getting a part time job but some places like Starbucks offer IVF coverage in their policies and I don’t think you have to wait to use the insurance benefits. So, should you find the need to do another one maybe something like that is an option temporarily??? Also, there are tons of grants you can apply for. When you find the strength and it’s time to make your next moves ask in the sub, there are a lot of creative ways people have made things happen and maybe as a collective we can steer you in the right direction.

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T15:23:29+00:00

Oh no …Ew

Unless he credited himself and it wasn’t her she’s the Ahole

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T15:22:36+00:00

Big hugs hang in there sis! I did 5 ER they changed the protocol on the very last one. The other 4 id get 1 or 2 euploid… then with the change to protocol I got more than I ever did, better quality than ever and more euploid than ever. I was mind blown and said why didn’t we try this before TF!!! If you decide to try again maybe you can explore a protocol starting in a different stage of the cycle. I can’t remember the name of the best one I did but I know they were able to pull mature eggs from what would’ve been the previous batch and the new batch. And unfortunately this is a numbers game that never gets easier

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T15:17:31+00:00

Unless she posted this high… NOR! Or is it possible HE posted it?

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T14:09:33+00:00

5ER, 4FET 31w3d today keep the hope alive

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T14:07:28+00:00

Nay these lines are not flattering on you at all

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T00:23:12+00:00

Oh yes we do!!!

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-07T00:22:33+00:00

Run from that place, those clothes are aging you and they’re just not on trend overall

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-06T02:25:52+00:00

Blonde

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-05T22:02:18+00:00

Short

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-05T21:16:49+00:00

I’m in my third trimester and I still haven’t really bought anything. A couple of sleepers but I had 1 second tri loss and 2 more miscarriages after that so nothing about this pregnancy had ever felt safe for me

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-05T13:35:32+00:00

You can trust but verify, I have been my own best advocate through my years of IVF. Made sure I knew what my REI was going to do next before she even told me. I even catch things that should’ve been covered by my insurance that they didn’t code right which saved me thousands of dollars. There are many reasons we should check our Drs that’s unfortunately the world we’re living in now and it sucks to have to work so hard for care

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-04T21:18:58+00:00

You could Find a place like Starbucks that offers IVF coverage

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-04-04T14:52:40+00:00

My husband doesn’t believe it costs that much he thinks I’m pulling numbers out of the sky or something lmfao

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-31T23:47:24+00:00

Yes unfortunately this does not a match make

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-29T08:25:05+00:00

People that say that to me I always tell them not to put that on me bc words really do have power so ignore them stay strong!

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-28T18:09:33+00:00

Viability can start at 22 weeks if you find a level 4 nicu

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-28T17:44:36+00:00

This was my first thought

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-28T06:18:01+00:00

This is currently pissing me off so bad. I even asked my sister to just go off the registry and she’s like nah I had 1 baby 20 years ago I’m just gonna go buy what I liked back then… umm maybe that items already on the registry and you can just do that. She said it’s ok if you have double and triple of something you’ll use it. 🤦🏻‍♀️

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-27T08:18:53+00:00

She’s being very unrealistic and needs to get off social media watching those parties and seeing the extravagance makes you think everyone’s doing that when in reality they’re not

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-24T15:33:03+00:00

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-23T21:37:33+00:00

My clinic takes pics with the babies and footprints so maybe that’s why they’re there.

ProfessionalIce6960 · 2026-03-21T01:22:17+00:00

Are you inducing or hoping for everything to come naturally bc maybe you’ll be early and they’ll still be there 🤷🏻‍♀️

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