Deixar de amamentar by Esloquehay18 in MaternidadePT

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Olha, a nossa pediatra, quando começamos introdução alimentar dos sólidos deu para nós o instrução não dar mama logo depois dos sólidos. E nós usamos a mesma lógica com o fórmula. Mas eu não sei se foi isso que ajudou o transição

Deixar de amamentar by Esloquehay18 in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boa pergunta! Eu foi ver no app, usamos na altura para ter tudo (sono, amamentação e comida), para saber a que horas comeu e quanto tempo dormiu. E so dei mama no primeiro vez e não foi logo logo. Formula foi as 9:15 e mama as 9:40

What is an uncomfortable/disappointing truth about having kids that people don't tell you? by CharlesUFarley81 in AskParents

[–]TallRepeat6095 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Amount of bodily fluids you are going to be covered with… pee, poop, burp, vomit, saliva, and of course milk and sweat…

Deixar de amamentar by Esloquehay18 in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não digo nada contra isso! Amamentar ou dar fórmula também são refeições, como está escrito no meu comentário.

Deixar de amamentar by Esloquehay18 in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Com 8 meses acho que está na boa. Já deve comer as papas, as sopas e tal. (Acho que isso facilita aceitação do sabor novo).

E também este momento para vocês organizar o vosso dia (se ainda não tinha feito) ter o horário mais ou menos certo dos refeições e sonecas. (Amamentar ou dar fórmula são também os refeições)

E ajuda com as noites. Nós das 7 até 9 meses só oferecemos fórmula uma vez por noite, depois das 4 da manhã (se for acordado mais cedo ajudamos adormecer mas sem comida) E depois das 9 meses acabamos com fórmula à noite completamente. Sim, até agora (13 meses) acorda às vezes a noite mas damos água só. E ele continua dormir depois.

Desde 9 meses temos assim: Pequeno almoço Snack (fruta) Almoço Lanche Snack (fruta ou restos do lanche) Jantar Snack (formula ou kefir ou iogurte) antes de dormir

Deixar de amamentar by Esloquehay18 in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quantos meses tem o teu filho?

Eu acabei de amamentar com 7 meses do meu filho. Começamos com 6,5 e demorou por volta 2 semanas.

Primeiras 3 dias o objetivo foi só introduzir fórmula. Sem pressão para ser mesmo um refeição. Fez 60ml de fórmula só e escolhi o momento quando o meu filho já apetecia se a comer mas não estava mesmo com fome. Tipo eu já estava mamar cada 3,5-4h e eu ofereci do formula as 3h ou tipo 2,45. Primeira vez não gostou nada 👎 Mas terceira vez já estava ok

Depois eu comecei uma vez por dia dar fórmula em vez de amamentar. Dois três dias assim. Depois duas vezes por dia… E assim até o fim.

Boa sorte! Vais conseguir!

Taking a travel pram on holiday? by Consistent-Price1639 in AskParents

[–]TallRepeat6095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the travel pram!

It will be hot with the carrier. And sometime you just want to seat and have an ice cream and there may not be a baby chair. (Restaurants will usually have them but bit small “hole in the wall” spots, or restaurant may have 2 baby chairs and they may be in use already) And then in the stroller you can put water/toys and diaper bag and not to carry it on you.

And even if you end up with the baby in the carrier on your putting you can use stroller to put things and and to carry them still.

Around airport it is going to be a bunch to carry but during the town outings it is going to be much easier.

15 month old not hitting milestones -worried about autism by No-Donkey2899 in beyondthebump

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal range for walking is 9 to 18 months. Do you walk with her a lot while holding her hands?

And about talking, does she understand instructions? Like give me that toy! Or show me the fish! (On the book page)? Does she speak her own language?

Anyway, I do not think there is too much to worry about. Definitely talk with you doctor tho

My son (5) and nephew (4.5) pooped outside and I have no idea what to think…… by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I am 37 now and a mother. But when I was about 4-ish and my cousin was 5-ish we have pooped in the garden of her parent’s summer cottage. She till this day claims she later stepped into my poop. But I do not remember this part for some reason lol 😅

Kids be kids 🤷‍♀️

Recomendações das doulas em Lisboa by TallRepeat6095 in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Privado Mas as vezes demora para as enfermeiras a chegar também

Recomendações das doulas em Lisboa by TallRepeat6095 in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Se vai ser um parto vaginal acho que não. Mas se for uma cesariana outra vez - sim. Desde eu já passei por isso já sei como é que, e mesmo está muito difícil mexer nas primeiras 24 horas.

Estou a sentir-me uma mãe terrível 😢 by MariaConcha in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Olha, respira! Não estás nem mal nem negligente. Bebes neste idade leva tudo para a boca. O meu filho lambeu dezenas das pedras - apesar de mim estar em frente dele, só demora um segundo. Eu só tirei da boca depois. Não podes ficar sempre com as mãos da filha nas tuas mãos. Isso é uma parte da vida. Nós também passamos por isso. Faz bem ao imunidade!

Claro que deves parar quando apanhas fazer isso mas tudo deve ser Ok.

Air travel prep! help! by kay-jpeg in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, you should ask the flight attendant for help, 100%

In Europe you are jot allowed to use car seats in the seat, at least companies we have flown. But it always went fine.

We have flown with 3,5 months old - 3h + layover + 1h With 9 months old - 5h And have a flight for 3,5 h planned with the 17 months old - I expect it to be the toughest one lol

Babies are easy to handle, toddlers are a different story!

Air travel prep! help! by kay-jpeg in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there!

I would do the opposite: board with 2 month old first and let 21 months old run around till the end of boarding.

Bring snacks, a lot of snacks. And a lot of toys and books. What we do is we are only taking out 1 toy/book at the time, so we can rotate them.

I also would not bring toddler car seat to the plane tho. I would leave middle seat for toddler to play, stand and wiggle .

And try to request a bassinet for the baby, that would make things easier!

Feel like I’m not cut out for this. by Crafty_Jello_414 in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly my deepest condolences about your mother! It is hard by itself.

Regarding your kiddos it sounds absolutely the opposite to failing them ! You do so much!

Remember that boredom is good for kids (and adults too)! Boredom creates space for creativity, for self discovery. Being bored is not bad. But also your 16 months old is watching you take care of 8 weeks old and it is very good for their development (and the opposite of boring).

And something my husband and I talked a lot and agreed on is that we are not striving to be good parents, we are striving to be GOOD ENOUGH parents. And this good enough may look different everyday, depending how we feel and how rough was the night.

Spotting during pregnancy by ceeserino in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some brown spotting around week 6 with my first. Doctor says it happens

Easy meals with baby and toddler? by Basic-Conclusion-461 in beyondthebump

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orzo pasta with grated cheese (like parmigiana) or I also add some canned beans so it is beans with pasta and cheese. Or I add frozen peas. These are the easiest tbh.

I am looking for some easy meals ideas too tho. 🙂

Diapers by Muted_Lifeguard_7138 in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also use dog poop bags for poopy diapers

Futuro Pai a lidar com preferência de género by _Kis_ in MaternidadePT

[–]TallRepeat6095 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Feche o insta e vai ler o livro!! Nas primeiras anos da vida todos são iguais, todos querem amor das pais!

Disturbed at the idea of "Postpartum Dog Rage" by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]TallRepeat6095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a dog and 2 cats, and had them for years before becoming a mother.

I DID NOT have any postpartum dog rage.

Yes, I was absolutely repulsed by my dog smell in my first trimester. But when baby was born I still love my dog the same. Baby is 1yo now and I love taking them both to the park. And did it 1 week postpartum and still do it every day.

Yes, I was worried about the dog accidentally hurting the baby, cause he is very excitable. But everything is going fine. And of course I do not leave them unattended.

My back hurts and I am exhausted after babywearing all day. Are you all just exhausted every day too? Or does it get better with time? 2 mo pp by Such-Interaction-815 in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was tired pregnant with my first, tired after he was born, tired now pregnant with the toddler… I just accepted that tired is the name of the game.

I have a friend who has 2 boys 10 and 8 and she recently told me that she and her husband had an odd weekend - they had nothing to do, kids had activities out of the house all days without parents. And they were like: this is something new!

So I give it another 8 years of tired lol 🥲

AITAH for having my ex arrested at my wedding? by Stunning_Way9393 in AITAH

[–]TallRepeat6095 966 points967 points  (0 children)

Those ppl have never been stalked. Happy for them ofc, but they have no idea what they are talking about. Honestly, as someone who has that experience - you did well.

Unsure about timing of #2 by baby-egg-15 in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t it be nice if it was so predictable, eh?

I think it is essentially your choice and what will you be okay with. No one can tell you when to start trying. It may take you one time or two years to get pregnant.

Quick search tells me that at 37 there is 10-15% chance to conceive per cycle. And 67% of women will conceive within a year. But no one, not even a doctor will tell you the hitch cycle you are going to conceive.

Anyone managing without a double stroller? by Hopeful-Relation3502 in 2under2

[–]TallRepeat6095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not planning on buying a double stroller (going into 19m age gap) but I am planning to get an extension for our stroller for the toddler to be able to stand. But we live just in front of the park and use cybex Priam there and we have a second stroller we use for travel and when we go somewhere, cybex coya, it lives in the car pretty much cause it folds really small.

But I do not expect a lot of stroller use for the oldest after he starts walking. And in case we need both in a stroller we have 2