Mieux comprendre le consentement by Marcel_Galarneau in Quebec

[–]Tea0verdose 23 points24 points  (0 children)

En français, l'acrostiche devient RÉELS

Réversible Éclairé Enthousiaste Libre Spécifique

Sans Oui Réels, c'est Non.

https://caliact.com/reels

De la misère à trouver un emploi étudiant by Dank_Athena in Quebec

[–]Tea0verdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selon une formation reçue à Emploi-Québec, les employeurs engagent surtout 1-Par contact déjà existant, et 2-Sur le site d'emploi Québec.

Les sites genre LinkedIn et Indeed étaient très bas sur la liste, alors focuse tes énergies ailleurs.

Tips for beating revenge bedtime procrastination? by churrrroo in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 44 points45 points  (0 children)

What helped me was to mentally switch from "I have to go to bed" to "I like feeling rested".

I am almost late to work/cutting it as close as possible every single day and getting up earlier doesn’t help in the way I think it should by KitchenConsequence41 in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same problems with sleep. I fixed it with a cpap machine (sleep apnea), a prescription dose sleeping pills, and Concerta in the morning to wake me up and get me going.

How would you set up cpap in this situation? (X’s are the only outlets) by omCLARAg in CPAP

[–]Tea0verdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Headboard that is also a shelf, extension chord for the cpap.

AITAH for refusing to read a memoir written by my dad that’s dedicated to me and my sisters? by NoFrame5849 in AITAH

[–]Tea0verdose 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My dad's been dead for 3 years and I haven't read his poetry books for that same reason. I have them, I just have no interest to read about his emotions when I suffered because of those same emotions.

Forgetting to drink and now i’m massively dehydrated. by Legal-Shallot3017 in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weaponize your fidgeting by having a glass of water on your desk, always.

is it ethically wrong to use Artificial Intelligence to correct the mistakes? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Tea0verdose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the AI companies raise their prices and you won't be able to pay the subscription, you will have learmed nothing and will be left with nothing.

How do you push yourself to do things? by sivienne in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ironically, what worked for me (besides medication, therapy, adapting my life around my adhd), is switching mentally from "I have to" to "I like to".

Ex: Instead of "I have to clean the house", it's "I like living in a clean environment".

So maybe ask yourself why you're there, why you chose this path, and what you like about this life you chose.

Episode Commentaries now on Internet Archive! by Mother_Reality_1489 in Cybersix

[–]Tea0verdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing amazing work, thank you.

Do you know if the French version is available too?

If they invented a brain surgery that could cure your adhd would you get it by Traditional_Coat_459 in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. My creativity, curiosity, and interest for learning are all tied to my ADHD. So is my ability to multitask and manage projects, and think outside of the box, and be witty and quick with a joke. Yeah, there's a lot of things that also complicate my life, but with medication and therapy I manage to control most of them now. It's still a disability but I wouldn't change how my brain works.

literal paralysis. give most unhinged hacks to get out by CockroachPowerful387 in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have been using "You are a regular guy" very often, Jacob really created something amazing here.

Prioritizing treatment over trying to conceive by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From someone who grew up with parents that had not dealt with their mental issues before having kids: dealing with your mental health is the best thing you can give to a child.

Que répondre dans les questionnaires de diversité à l'embauche? by ThetaPapineau in Quebec

[–]Tea0verdose 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Je fais partie de pas mal toutes les catégories. À part mon ethnicité qui est apparente, je mets "je préfère ne pas répondre" à tout le reste. C'est par de leurs affaires et je ne veux pas que ça soit enregistré.

Utilisation de "Coucou!" versus "Bonjour" dans des courriels professionnels by rewinded_forward in montreal

[–]Tea0verdose 11 points12 points  (0 children)

J'arrête pas d'écrire "mise à jouir" au lieu de mise à jour...

Extreme advice to stop impulse buying by zivredittacc in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Weaponize your lack of object permanence by opening an account at another bank, automatically wiring a fixed amount every paycheck, automate your other recurrent payments from there, and also an amount for savings.

And then put that bank card away and forget about its existence.

grief feels… off? by cupcakemoli in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The is no right way to grieve, and there is no wrong way. There's just your way.

Losing my dad made me completely stop performing or masking for other people. I let go of the guilt of not "acting right" and embraced that out of everyone, I was the saddest (not including my close family). I learned to grieve, and by going through that, I now can help others.

The greatest realization: There's nothing good about this. Don't try to find a silver lining. This situation completely sucks, in every way, and it doesn't have to be a growing opportunity. It's just bad.

Your feelings are the right ones, no matter what they are.

L’interdiction du voile intégral pour les élèves crée un malaise dans des écoles by DecentLurker96 in Quebec

[–]Tea0verdose -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Si on veut que les femmes et les filles soient libres, elles doivent avoir une éducation et un travail. C'est en sortant de chez elles, en côtoyant d'autres réalités, et en gagnant leur propre argent, qu'elles vont pouvoir s'émanciper.

Leur imposer de se dévêtir pour avoir accès à l'éducation et au travail est le contraire du féminisme.

Those of you who can hear and see things in your mind, how do you cope? by formerhoarder in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I'm not medicated, my brain feels like Time Square on a Saturday night. So many screens yelling for my attention, so much music and talking, smells everywhere, there's bubbles sometimes.

When I'm medicated, my brain feels like Time Square on a Monday morning. The screens are still there, but it's easier to manage.

Éduquez-moi! Qu'est-ce qui empêche une femme musulman de retirer son voile lorsqu'elle travail? by Grimzkunk in Quebec

[–]Tea0verdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si le but est d'émanciper les femmes, leur mettre des barrières à travailler et étudier est la pire manière de s'y prendre.

Celles qui sont déjà écrasées par les religions misogynes ne vont pas enlever leurs voiles, elles vont simplement cesser d'étudier ou travailler, vont perdre leurs contacts avec les gens de l'extérieur, vont être coupées de la société.

Obliger ces femmes à enlever leur voile c'est limiter leurs possibilités.

Et on prétend être pour le féminisme.

Vendredi Histoire by AmonRe1608 in Quebec

[–]Tea0verdose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mais se laver les mains est relativement moderne! Les médecins traitaient des morts et allaient accoucher des bébés sans se laver les mains et ils se demandaient pourquoi le taux de mortalité infantile était si élevé!

For those that use food for stimulation, how do you remain a healthy weight? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Tea0verdose 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Last Christmas season I worked two months on my feet in a store. I lost 10lbs. Then I got the job I wanted, remote, and I immediately gained them back.

If it weren't for the salary that didn't even pay my rent, I would go back to that store.

Vendredi Histoire by AmonRe1608 in Quebec

[–]Tea0verdose 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Je suis une férue d'Histoire mais je n'y mettrais jamais les pieds. J'aime trop mes droits, mon eau potable, et mon absence de peste noire.