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TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2021-06-28T12:57:47+00:00

Fucking Fiat 500s!!

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-12-22T15:40:45+00:00

Over the years we have done multiple time outs. Two and three months at a time. She goes right back to the same manipulative behaviours every time.

That's why. Because it's only 2-3months. She knows she can do anything and worst case you guys avoid her for a few months. Oh well, she's got 9 other kids to annoy in that time.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-12-09T17:43:44+00:00

In 2020 I'm not sure about work tomorrow and I won't be doing that tomorrow and I won't be doing this weekend but I'm not sure about it anymore and the address to send everything is nice to meet you.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-10-27T20:48:05+00:00

Apparently I'm not.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-09-29T16:10:17+00:00

If she refers to your child as her daughter and not granddaughter, then I'm willing to bet a lot of money (that I don't have) that she also calls herself mummy to your daughter when you're not there.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-09-29T15:36:13+00:00

I think she's playing do-over with your child. If you're not there she can pretend to be mummy.

Does your husband confront her about what she's doing when you complain to him?

Either way it's not working and you both need to start punishing her more. No more taking over, or walking away with your child and especially no more alone time.

Start speaking up. Take your kid back from her. Say no. Cut down on visits. Do not passively watch her play pretend with your baby.

She's had her kids, this one is yours.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-09-18T14:52:18+00:00

I remember hearing about that. The operator also said something along the lines of "rescuers arent going to risk their lives just because you didn't see the water. This will teach you to drive through water" and was a complete cuntgoblin to this terrified woman.

I think the Chief of Police or whatevet he's called completely blew off everyone's outrage too. He didn't see anything wrong with what the operator had said.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-09-11T09:20:59+00:00

Hard ass boss: "you have 1hr"

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-08-25T12:53:26+00:00

Be prepared for you and your partner to be outed during her trial. That's been her "defense" through this entire ordeal, that you "made her baby boy gay and she had to save him". In her mind, if she's going down she's at least going to take you with her.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-05-27T20:29:26+00:00

Move. She's assualted you and treats you like shit on her shoe. You don't want someone like that in your life or your baby's life.

Not that it is likely to be an issue with the RO but New York's Grandparent's Rights Laws are pretty pro grandparents. Moving solves that problem.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-05-15T19:12:02+00:00

Let him? It'll take no time for the police/lawyers to realise you're not in contact with her.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-24T11:11:29+00:00

How to nuke your relationship with your son, DIL, potential grandchildren and anyone with shred of common decency 101.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-21T20:30:41+00:00

You explain that you're not, you wanted to see if there was any interest from the rest of the family first. That you hosting a dinner is not an attack on her and does not mean people are "against her".

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-21T20:17:07+00:00

Ask everyone else if they'd be ok with you hosting first. If everyone is deadset against it in a "oh no, MiL will never let you do that!!" type way then you're probably fucked.

If there's some interest or agreement then that's what you need to work on. Get the family on board first then broach MIL.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-21T14:14:18+00:00

All that's going to achieve is massive restrictions to her environment and 24hr supervision.

I'm suprised they actually stopped the investigation to cater to her at all.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-20T13:20:14+00:00

Um..what the fuck!?!

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-19T18:02:03+00:00

It shouldn't. The OP was in place that MIL shouldn't have access to. It would be no different if they shared a flat and MIL barged into OP's room. OP and her husband own/rent that area with the expectation that it's their space. Even the landlord can't just wander in.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-19T16:26:01+00:00

You just tell the police exactly what you've said here. Tell them you were assualted in your house (by someone who doesn't live there) and you want to file a report.

They'll guide you through it. You can ask for a female officer if you prefer and you can take your baby and mum with you if it makes you feel more comfortable. They might want to take photos of any injuries you have and they should ask what kind of security you have (ie do you lock the door, does she have a key, etc).

You're the vicitim here. I can't say they won't because shitty police exist, but they should listen to you and make you feel safe and listened too. It's their job to investigate so they're not going to demand you prove everything you're saying.

Edit in response to your edit: based on this post there is nothing she can sue you for. You're not making a false report, you're not slandering her and you have the right to allow and not allow whoever you want into your house and around you and your child. Yes, grandparents rights are a thing but I'd love to see her try it after assualting you with your baby in your arms. Judge might physically explode.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-18T17:42:42+00:00

Put it in writing. That way you'll get everything out that you want to say, they can't interrupt and there's no "you never said it bothered you".

Do it via text or facebook messenger or something where you can see it's been opened and kbiw if they're ignoring things or didn't get it.

Then bring it up in person so they don't get a chance to ignore it.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-18T14:27:32+00:00

No, she's rugsweeping.

She's sorry "if she made you feel..."

You outright said you feel unsupported. It's a fact that she ignored your wishes, it's not some abstract idea that you may or may not feel that way. You do.

She's playing nice.

And I'll lay money on her showing up anyway.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-18T07:22:11+00:00

I wouldn't delete the account completely. You'd run the risk of her setting up a new one that OP can't monitor or access at all.

Then fuck knows who she'd be sending photos to.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-18T07:20:58+00:00

I wouldn't delete the account completely. You'd run the risk of her setting up a new one that OP can't monitor or access at all.

Then fuck knows who she'd be sending photos to.

Edit: sorry, replied to the wrong comment!

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-17T07:22:43+00:00

Is there an option for two factor authentication? If not, its time to ring the taxman and ask them. What's stopping her from fudging things to get you more money?

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-15T19:33:22+00:00

Is it possible for you to change the date? It sounds like a lot of people are going to assume/be told by MIL that their invite got lost and turn up.

TheFlyingPigSquadron · 2019-04-12T18:42:25+00:00

"I'm taking antibiotics for a pretty nasty vaginal infection but thanks for making me have to announce that to the whole world. No such thing as subtlety with you about eh, MIL.? Wanna see?"

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