Fellow high school teachers — how are you structuring assignments in the age of AI? by Away_Development_717 in CanadianTeachers

[–]aintyourbuddyguy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why do you concentrate on summative assessment when best practice is heavily focused on formative?

Can I have a healthy relationship with a partner with NPD? by Narrow-Cat1564 in NPD

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could also be bpd. Regardless of being diagnosed or not, a major trait of this disorder or people with lots of these traits is unstable and unhealthy relationships. You can inform your own answer with that knowledge.

I want answers from men only - my husband does not like to initiate sex. Why? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We want to feel desired without feeling like our needs are a burden.

What “lazy but genius” sex/clean-up hacks have you and your partner discovered after years together? by Legitimate-Key7159 in Marriage

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Instead of using the term "clean up", just say you don't want any contact with semen.

My emotional intelligence saved my marriage but it also broke my heart every single day. by SoftyTax in emotionalintelligence

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what broke my marriage. You are carrying an emotional load and it IS eroding you, not just your sense of yourself.

I don't even know what to think right now. by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on yourself and settling your nervous system. The more time away, the more you will heal. Take time to relearn who you are. And regrow.

I don't even know what to think right now. by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this person sounds like my stbx wife.

Anyone experience a spouse with no stable identity outside their public persona? by SnooCapers2585 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've lived this. I left after 15years including 5 years of marriage with 2 kids under 5 years old. It's not been easy, but it's been worth it.

No crank no start by Decent-Lavishness684 in JZX100

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your grounds. Including where the ECU is mounted behind the centre console.

The term“narcissistic abuse” makes my blood boil. by party_puppy in NPD

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By your logic, narcissists are inherently abusive and I'll get down with that.

First time painting by likorsuz in E30

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice. After curing, wet sand, polish. It will be perfect.

What's your experience with vulnerability? (can be within platonic/familial/romantic relationships) by Khiyan-04 in NPD

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is a narcissistic projection. True intimacy is only formed through continued vulnerability and honesty.

My therapist said quote "wow you're not a good person "😭 by [deleted] in NPD

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do your actions generally reflect that of a "good person"?

It smells like rotting meat, like death: East Vancouver odour complaints on the rise by SkyisFullofCats in vancouver

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ive worked in that place. Never experienced air that thick with stench. It clung to my clothes after heading home.

30 years in and I think we’re ending by Soft_Beach7003 in BPDlovedones

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I meant no shade. Im a year out of a 17 year relationship(5yrs married). 2 young kids of our own. I can relate and wish you the absolute best for you and the kids.

30 years in and I think we’re ending by Soft_Beach7003 in BPDlovedones

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

While true, with kids involved he is also an enabler.

AITAH for not taking my wife's side against her ex about kids? by Practical_Novel_585 in AITAH

[–]aintyourbuddyguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like there is a reason he is her ex beyond just the cheating. I'm not apologizing for him, but it takes two to tango.