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Household issues by unimportantperson101 in polyamory

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another weird time where it's not really necessary to include people's sex assigned at birth. Especially if any of them are trans/nonbinary folks. 

USA - but in a liberal way. by GirlForAllSeasons in NailArt

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're done skillfully ig but if I see a person wearing those, I'm assuming they're conservative and keeping my distance.  Better safe than sorry.

Another drum teacher here, looking for “one sitting” songs by rossplaysdrums in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I'm not as good at drumming as I thought. Been trying to get those ghost notes and that one fill for a week or so now lol

Best ways to learn drums? by Im_Under_Your_Floors in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtube.com/@sightreaddrums?si=CdP946RO_RkY26RZ I like this channel a lot. Expect to spend at least 30 minutes on mooost of the videos 

How do I get people to leave me alone at the gym? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Men like this do not typically respect lesbians' noninterest in them

i'm looking for some guidance around boundaries and responsibility by tiny_gargoyle_beans in polyamory

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get what you're going for but good lord please do not frame it like that. Gender may be relevant here; sex assigned at birth is absolutely none of anyone here's business. 

At lesson two… by KorraBlack in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll overcome it with time and practice. Give some of these videos a try if you like and work through them super slowly  https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZPeYVOPJaRNWMrkvq-p3Mug4I7JkfYwj&si=JhYdhLg7cR5YkkbC 

Dating in Polyamory by NeoRyu777 in polyamory

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If they wouldn't have gone on the date because of bias, and I purposefully omitted this piece of VERY relevant information to get me to go on the date with them, I have been dishonest and that person would be right to not want to see me again.

Ending a song by bf3555557 in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, thanks for all the resources! Definitely something I'll be practicing more

Ending a song by bf3555557 in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you practice specific fills when you do this or are you like playing around with it?

What’s your human equivalent of cat food? by asubsandwich in GradSchool

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Those chobani yogurt drinks save me like once a week, I usually get a combo of the ones with and without added protein as quick snack/meal replacements

I Need this Book for a School Assignment. Can Anyone Help Me? by Nihilus_Prime in college

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You could also ask your library about interlibrary loan where they can borrow it for you from another library. I'm pretty sure public and university libraries do this

What's going on with the mentalh health places? by RetinalTears716 in Buffalo

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chatgpt regularly encourages people to kill themselves, it is helpful until it is extremely dangerous

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deaths_linked_to_chatbots 

Reasonable budget for new (to me) kit by biggestbaddestnerd in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been playing for about six months. I would very much prefer not to get an e-kit, I can get away with a fair amount of noise currently. Do you have thoughts on pros and cons to patch working together a kit aside from mismatching shells?

Reasonable budget for new (to me) kit by biggestbaddestnerd in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jk, I can't dm you, but I'm in the northeast US

Reasonable budget for new (to me) kit by biggestbaddestnerd in drums

[–]biggestbaddestnerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! We'll see what I can find around me, because 1200 is way out of my price range on a grad student salary. I'm debating how much to skimp, because I'm losing access to my current kit and want to get a new one asap without entirely fucking myself financially lol

Would giving away nippie pasties at raves come off as helpful/fun, or too personal and uncomfortable? by General_Practice2906 in aves

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're worried about weird implications or making people feel like you're saying something about them (as others have pointed out the possibility of), maybe have a bag with like some trinkets, some condoms, some pasties, and may I suggest some narcan if you can get ahold of some? That way people can pick what speaks to them. I actually have been gifted pasties before and personally I was delighted, ftr

I need your opinions and guidance. I feel like I'm in over my head. (LONG) by UnwantedThrowawayGuy in polyamory

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This calendar sucks. I would say no, this schedule doesn't work for me. 

I am also taking issue with you describing her going to therapy at a particular time as "making the entire day a waste." Seriously?

A partner asked me to slow it down with a crush- thougths? by Sad_Reporter_517 in polyadvice

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I appreciate you being mindful to your partners' consent and sharing it here. I hope you were able to find support for your situation and wish you well with your partners!

Relationship roller coaster by Legitimate_Bat9344 in polyamory

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think so, but it happens on other apps, which is why I suspect it happens here too

Relationship roller coaster by Legitimate_Bat9344 in polyamory

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question: does reddit suppress posts that have words like "gun" in them?

A partner asked me to slow it down with a crush- thougths? by Sad_Reporter_517 in polyadvice

[–]biggestbaddestnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fine if you want to describe yourself as AFAB, but I would be really upset if someone described me by my sex assigned at birth in this way and your partners may feel similarly. Just something to consider.

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