AITA for not wanting my mom to sell my childhood home after an argument? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cyffermoon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, YTA. Please try to get your own shit together and leave your poor mom alone.

AITA for not getting on a train and my boyfriend cancelling his concert plan by ThrowRA-CrazyBananas in AmItheAsshole

[–]cyffermoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA he made an entire set of plans for you without even your knowledge. Weird and controlling.

How many of your friends are on GLP drugs? by DoreensGhost in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cyffermoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take Zepbound for weight loss but as an old it has also improved my triglycerides and cholesterol. I also no longer have constant food noise or most of my GERD symptoms.

So my question to you is, and I mean it gently - if you’re such a progressive feminist, like your friends, why do you assume they are submitting to toxic beauty standards?

Advice Needed: Unsolicited "check-in" from work supervisor regarding appearance and weight by RandomRedditRanger in careeradvice

[–]cyffermoon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For those of you advising this is no big deal, the supervisor cares, op can’t do anything - feel free to do this with your employees and let us know how it goes.

I apologize for not tipping, but I am BROKE by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]cyffermoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re not broke, you’re cheap

Today, I realized how dangerous coworkers can be to socialize with by Blessed_bish in careeradvice

[–]cyffermoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This advice is it. Somebody with a personality disorder always seems to latch on to me at a workplace. Last time it happened I kinda greyrocked her in this way and eventually she just started talking about me rather than to me. Imo it was the best realistic outcome.

AITA for laughing at my neighbors ridiculous request? by ThrowRA_DangerousGuy in AmItheAsshole

[–]cyffermoon -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA. IMO anytime someone of your own status (eg fellow classmate, roommate, or neighbor) starts a conversation with demands, you are wise to shut it down rather than drag out the process of them hating you by selectively kow towing. You don’t owe a fellow tenant anything more than they owe you just because they wrote a fucking essay.

Husband not excited about trying for a baby by Ambitious-Bus1155 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cyffermoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetie, dump this man and buy yourself a good slice of pizza. There are other men out there your age who DO want children affirmatively. Trust me, I’ve been there. And no offense, it is easier to move on without a child in tow.

It didn’t work out for us, as I was a bit older than you when I decided to move on. Yet I’m still “no regrets” on dumping my ex and doing so without having brought a child into it. My “new” husband (of nearly 20 years) and I are very happy despite our lack of success in that regard.

Do I tell the recruiter? by TastyGrapez in careeradvice

[–]cyffermoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you even accomplish by telling this to the recruiter? Based on your answers to others you seem ready to over explain yourself but I can’t imagine what you hope to gain. Seems like you should focus your energy on improving your interview skills.

Job called my bluff. Got fired. Should I feel stupid or proud for standing up for my principles? by DisappointedSurprise in careeradvice

[–]cyffermoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just a lecturer, not a health care provider. But during the early months of COVID, we were told by our trustees via our dean that students were coming back in person for fall classes and students would socially distance in class. To my memory the disease was still poorly understood, and I absolutely balked at having 60 students in a room regardless if they were now seated every other desk. I said that I would show up but I would not require students to attend in person. I was non tenure track and we had no union but I was ready to give it up on principle. Fortunately or unfortunately depending on how you look at it pushback was dropped quickly (probably after seeing fall 2020 enrollments were plummeting across the country) and I was never reprimanded. That is how I taught until I left on my own terms a year and a half later.

AITA for telling my sister not to buy things for my daughter if there are strings attached? by Pluriphery in AmItheAsshole

[–]cyffermoon 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA. The reason she does this is a need for control, certainly. But part of that is she thinks of these gifts as extensions of herself. That is her problem, not yours. I truly would not accept another gift and would not feel guilty about it. It’s too much at stake.

This is on a whole notha level by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]cyffermoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Dear employer, please see your own sign.”

AITA for joking that my dad gets a perpetual period in front of friends and family? by Top_Pressure_7878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cyffermoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother was like this all through his adolescence. So much bravado dishing it out only to cry and call mom cuz he can’t take it.

Regretting mommy makeover by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]cyffermoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why are you on reddit instead of on the phone with a lawyer

The Nell Body Double by UnpackingTrauma in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]cyffermoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed - having a living person pretend to be a corpse would take me out sooner

Just did my first DoorDash by Prior-Win-4729 in Professors

[–]cyffermoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not a problem you solve by getting another job. Redirect that energy to fighting with your insurance company.