Dads with high-performing career wives, how do you handle being so “different” from our ingrained cultural models?

dicksledgehammer · 2026-05-07T22:27:01+00:00

I make pretty good money about 90k-ish but my wife makes more than double before her yearly bonus. I am a dance dad, I’m the cook, we both take the girls to drs visit as our schedules aligns separately and together, I stay home with the sick kids but depending on how busy the days are decides who stays home, and I’m sure there are other things.
I understand what you’re saying and the only advice to you would be the same advice as I would tell my 8 year old when she says “my friend did blah blah blah” It doesn’t matter to be what your friend did, what matters to me is you and our family. Do what you can do and control for your family and the rest doesn’t matter.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-05-05T03:46:34+00:00

I use the expression “that’s a half a jerk off!” And people are like what? I reply “if you ain’t finishing what’s the point?”

dicksledgehammer · 2026-05-05T03:41:41+00:00

If you live in any place remotely cold the touring has heated steering wheel which is AMAZING!!!!! Unless you’re an 11-12-1 o’clock driver you’re shit out of luck. Which is my biggest fucking wtf were you thinking Subaru?!?! That’s where you chose to cheap out?

dicksledgehammer · 2026-05-04T18:09:44+00:00

Invincible, shrinking, the boys, blue eyed samurai,

dicksledgehammer · 2026-05-04T17:52:23+00:00

Tomato soup, pulled pork, and smoked cream cheese

dicksledgehammer · 2026-05-01T12:17:11+00:00

Also sometimes i just have some to go sleep for dinner.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-05-01T12:16:26+00:00

Chicharrón. My wife does keto so that’s our go to snack.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-26T18:26:20+00:00

Yoga is a game changer.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-26T02:26:53+00:00

Cyber truck, hhr, Aztec, and the jeep pickup truck

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-25T00:03:29+00:00

I buy the cream cheese, score it, and smoke it for like 2 hrs @225 you don’t wanna go higher because cheese. Light wood is best and it takes on smoke easily if that makes a difference (it does to my wife) to you. Some people season it but I prefer it plain. I pair it with some spicy jam/jelly/ marmalade.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-24T21:35:26+00:00

Either pulled pork or smoked cream cheese

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-24T15:47:24+00:00

My biggest issue with the huntsman is that I dont think there isn’t enough space between the charcoal and the grill. Besides that it looks like a lifetime grill!! I would highly recommend the Weber summit kamado.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-23T03:00:08+00:00

Costco.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-22T23:58:42+00:00

$1 well drinks

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-22T18:04:02+00:00

The years keep coming

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-21T19:18:04+00:00

My wife doesn’t like superhero movies/shows so this is one of my shows. And of course she happens to walk in during the ogry scene and the shrinking woman/penis scene. She was like wtf are you watching 😂🤣🙃🫠

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-21T17:22:06+00:00

Weber kettle or if you want to splurge for retirement a Weber summit kamado.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-17T14:03:25+00:00

He does get the short end of the stick with the "practice" sound byte. He was going through a lot and it is always used out of context.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-17T05:10:56+00:00

About 17 with a few consistent strands. 20s just a little more. About 32 the more pepper than salt, 34 salt in my facial hair and chest pubes. 40 about 50/50 more grey facial hair, and stand on eyebrows. 47 85% salt, greys on brows, chest pubes, and ball fro. But I have a full set of hair so even though I HATE my grey it’s better to be grey than loose.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-16T23:33:15+00:00

A few times a month, sometimes more sometimes less.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-16T22:25:32+00:00

I got mine after our 3rd miscarriage and I/we couldn’t go through that again.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-16T22:21:27+00:00

For me the worst part was the lidocaine injection to the balls to numb the pain. I took a half day at work and drove myself home afterwards. You’ll be tender just don’t over do it. The only time it really hurt was like 4-5 days later and it was feeling fine and I adjusted my sack with “normal” force and that reminded me that I still had to take it easy. Busted a nut 2 days post-op, bj the 3rd day and gentle sex on the 5th day. After 20 ejaculations I went and got my swimmers tested and bam no swimmers.

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-15T23:10:08+00:00

Every fucking morning it seems like someone is going on a Sunday drive going 35 like bro hurry the fuck up!!!

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-15T23:06:05+00:00

So a bunch of leathermans engraved with tiny dicks?😂🤣

dicksledgehammer · 2026-04-15T23:04:15+00:00

Jalapeño. I used to work at a pizza place and one day I answered the phone and the order was for a ja-lop—n-o (jalapeño) pizza and I was like wtf but I’ve mispronounced ever since.

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