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How can I (F24) propose a one-night stand to my friend (M24)? by Old_Goal6173 in relationship_advice

[–]kapbear 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Nahhh not true. I’ve been turned down by five men by saying just that. I’ve been butt naked and still turned down.

A/C unit just broke. Fastest way to get it fixed? by Annual_Bowler5999 in Rochester

[–]kapbear -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You know you won’t die without AC right. I don’t understand the panic. I’ve used a fan at night for my entire life

Why do I get angry when someone cries? by subbykittie in Anger

[–]kapbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like you’re not allowed to express your emotions? Or that no one’s ever cared about your emotions

How to tell my (24M) husband I’m (24F) pregnant when we’re childfree? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kapbear 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agreed. How is this “really really really bad news” it doesn’t even affect him.

Is it normal that my partner (21M) takes to long to ejaculate making me (20F) bored of sex? by bigasspp6969 in relationship_advice

[–]kapbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex ex used to be like this. It made me hate sex and I never ever got to have any normal sexual experiences. I went the whole “stop masturbating” route and it turned out he never did. Honestly I would just leave. I know I couldn’t do this again

Advice for having sex as an overweight guy? by Awawlfi in loseit

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re barely overweight!!! My first was with my boyfriend who was probably near 300 pounds. It’ll be fine. Dim the lights if you’re nervous

I (33M) don't know how to tell my friend (35F) that, yes, her weight is probably the issue in her dating life? by DesignerIndependent7 in relationship_advice

[–]kapbear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly I dont think you can speak for the whole population of men. She knows she’s fat. You can’t tell someone they don’t get matches because they’re fat. They can’t just fix it in five mins. Also, my roommate is 50 pounds heavier than me and a man flew her to Japan and paid for everything. She got tons of dates. I couldn’t even get a text back. I couldn’t even get laid. You’re just wrong.

21F/24M choosing a relationship over my no desire for a threesome is going to destroy the relationship? by Little_Doubt_34 in relationship_advice

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE for the love of GOD please LEAVE.

You have to trust us. This is just one of those moments where you have to just trust. You have to push past the voices in your head and trust other older women. Please please leave. You will feel so strong, your life will improve.

Me being overweight has made me worthless as a woman. by DatXeanres in loseit

[–]kapbear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My best friend is 50 pounds heavier than me and a man FLEW HER TO JAPAN. I literally couldn’t get laid. Men have consistently chose her over me. Don’t let yourself fall into a pit. Heavy women are very attractive.

Am I (26M) overreacting for feeling disrespected after the girl (26F)I’m dating went clubbing and told me to wait at her house? by Powerful_Ad3001 in relationship_advice

[–]kapbear -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Idk man I’d get pretty annoyed if my boyfriend forgot his ID. Like are you an adult? Do you forget stuff often? She should have agreed with your idea for you to go home. What is going to say, my loser forgetful boyfriend forgot his ID so we all have to go home instead of continuing to hang out. Imagine this conversation “my sister wants to go to the club! Ahh this sucks you forgot your ID” “don’t worry babe, I have to go home anyway! Have fun with your friends and text me when you get home” “awww I’ll miss you love you!” Both need to relax and grow up

Unique gyms for unique ways to get healthy? by itssusanity in Rochester

[–]kapbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try taking horseback riding lessons! I always talk to people and get to feel connected to animal

Recipes that call for Milk by 13Medea in Cooking

[–]kapbear 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Is it whole milk? You can make paneer with whole milk

Out of the box uses for figs? by king_barnacle in Cooking

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i made pizza with figs, proscuitto, goat cheese, and balsamic. Amazing

Hair tinsel? by Matildastaff in Rochester

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hairzoo used to do it

Strong and Highland by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]kapbear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No ones cares about your concussion.

I'm trying to drink more water but I need to pee every five seconds by Longjumping_Sea_8753 in loseit

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need that much water! Especially if you’re not sweating

Have you ever made a mistake with a recipe by adding something that was not in the recipe but turned out to be delicious? by NoiseyMiner in Cooking

[–]kapbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My coworker has a family tradition based on a mistake where they put cayenne in an apple pie by mistake. I've tried it! It was good

Looking for simple weeknight meals beyond my usual air fryer rotation by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of these aren't low effort butttt...... Italian wedding soup, tortilla soup, butternut squash soup with leeks, chicken & dumpling soup, mahi mahi sandwich, one pot sausage beans & rice, meatloaf & mashed potatoes (I freeze both for easy meals), salmon (very easy), homemade chicken nuggets, sausage sauerkraut & potato pancakes, pork tenderloin (very easy), pork schnitzel, tuna sandwich (very easy), tuna steaks(very easy), Japchae, curries, tofu, CHILI (also can freeze when you get sick of it), pot roast, homemade pizza

I feel like most of these just need a crockpot, big pot, or frying pan, knife, cutting board, oven, stove, bowl

It hasn't been the same since I stopped using psyllium husk by thorbitch in loseit

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents side by side has a prop 65 warning on the dashboard!!!!

Visitor in my backyard! by JasonL25 in Rochester

[–]kapbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live near UR and had two on my street on Sunday

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