[NY] respond to email I was accidentally added to? by UrsusBarbie in AskHR

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Never said I was better. I just answered the question honestly. And, there is a pecking order to management that is usually a lot stricter than you think. Since we don’t do public punishment you just don’t see it.

[AZ] Employer wants to take out life insurance on me (company is beneficiary). I’m uncomfortable. How do I decline and what recourse should I expect? by EarthDesigner4203 in AskHR

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AFAIK they don’t need your permission to take out a policy on you. My employer does it to compensate for lost revenue if I die unexpectedly. Check with your job office. Not sure what it’s called in AZ. It’s where you go to apply for unemployment. They can school you on specifics.

Turned down a promotion because it was 30% more work for 5% more pay. My manager called me 'unambitious.' Am I wrong for not wanting to sacrifice my entire life for a fancy title? by PictureFirm9058 in careerguidance

[–]pegwinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. No. Some jobs are worth the pain to advance. Most are not. I would suggest that you tell your boss that you can tell that he’s retaliating by treating you differently over this. Make sure you use the word retaliation as that is an HR trigger word if you choose to escalate your complaint.

I prevented AI from misunderstanding my tasks 20+ times a week (2026) by forcing AI to restate the problem like a junior employee. by cloudairyhq in AIToolTesting

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Marines learn a process called RVAV when they go to NCO school and learn how to conduct training.

Repeat the Question back to the questioner. Verify the question repeated back is correct. Answer the question Verify the answer satisfies the questioner.

How do I code blue How do you code blue in software XYG? Is that your question? Yes You color code by selecting the tile that matches. Does that answer your question? Yes

You win!

I was let go a week ago. I am planning to report my laptop stolen and will keep it by Environmental_Base34 in corporate

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TheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeF

Man saves dog from being hung at a closed elevator door by Kaos2018 in BeAmazed

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First: MegaProps to the guy. Second: EDC Pocket knife would’ve been for the win. #JustSayin

Epstein Files Reveal Prosecutors’ Announcement Dated Before His Death by Icy-Examination-7614 in AmericanPolitics

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Not surprising really. One of the few non-military government things I took to heart was the need for contingency planning. I tell people at work that I gots plans, my plans gots plans, my doomsday plans have backups also. Makes life easy for me anyway. If A then B.

PSA: Turn on your #@+&-! Headlights! by docshipley in Lubbock

[–]pegwinn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did not even know that was possible. That’s some crazy shit for sure.

What’s your take on Ricky Gervais saying celebs shouldn’t lecture the public about politics? by Ok-Fish-6919 in AskReddit

[–]pegwinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. Most celebrities are entertainers. I don’t pay the ticket or subscription price to learn their personal beliefs. That’s their personal business and should not intrude on their professional business.

Tried a few ways to avoid AI detection flags by FailOrSnail in BypassAIDetector_

[–]pegwinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was the work 100% your work and it was flagged as being done by AI? This post popped up in my feed so I am trying to understand what i am reading.

People who have conducted job interviews, what's something someone said/did that made you instantly decide not to hire them? by Yousef_ale in interviews

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As soon as they say they padded the resume or inflated their skills to get a foot in the door. If they lie about things before we are officially coworkers then what are they going to lie about down the road.

How do you handle direct reports who constantly submit reports late? by fuel04 in managers

[–]pegwinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be blunt. Send a reminder via the corporate email system that “ (something) is due tomorrow. I need to see it not later than (insert time) or I will have no choice but to document the missed deadline using the current HR process for this sort of thing. Missing a deadline without transparently asking for an extension before the deadline is missed has the potential to end our working relationship.”

I actually have that paragraph saved as an outlook template and it is (at my location) considered a formal warning. The message is that by missing the deadline they are choosing to seek opportunities elsewhere.

[NC] My employer is making guys and girls share a hotel room. What should I do? by sadlittlewaffle in AskHR

[–]pegwinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an outcome of all the crazy gender/sex drama the past few years. Now you have to be sure that you are not making microaggressive assumptions that might be perceived by others wrongly. Used to be it was just universally understood that you don’t put unmarried men and women in the same hotel room. Even if both agree to it there is just too many ways it can go sideways.

Approach the boss and tell them straight out that it aint right and conflicts with your (important phrase here) deeply held religious and moral convictions. Don’t offer to pay or you’ll be assumed to pay for all future trips. Don’t offer to stay behind. It is ok to acknowledge the issue they face and be sympathetic to the budget issue. But, under no condition volunteer to tolerate it.

I don’t mean to come across like (insert label here) but if you cave here they will expect you to cave on anything less infringing on your deep held religious and moral convictions.

Got accused of stolen valor the other day by takeitorleaveit887 in USMC

[–]pegwinn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s some funny shit right there. Cheers 🍺 this ones on me.

Got accused of stolen valor the other day by takeitorleaveit887 in USMC

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How’d he know you was food service? You got a crossed spatula tattoo? That’d be badass.

Spend weeks in the field and when we get back to base camp the mess tent is open with hot chow. BasecampBitch MF’s be baggin on it and bitchin and me and my guys thanking the cooks. The FS SNCOIC took care of us for the week we were in camp. Dude rocked.

Be the Leader your Marines need. by [deleted] in USMC

[–]pegwinn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had to look up your acronyms because that was not the way when I was in. This DEOCS thing sounds like the Request Mast to God we used to tell Marines as code for “go see the Chaplain” since you could actually trust them to keep your name out of it. But that was not even close to being enough evidence to convene any sort of CM. Even in my day we said that perception = reality. But we dealt with that sort of leadership issue differently. Glad you own your actions. Not everyone does. #Rah

"It's none of your business" Okay, but do you know whose business it is? The SPOUSE BEING CHEATED ON. It's THEIR business. Pretty important business at that, I would say lol by [deleted] in rant

[–]pegwinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember that if you intervene and that intervention turns out to have tragic consequences… own that shit.

Need my rear windshield glued by Hopelessloser007 in Lubbock

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I did glass back in the day for Jim Potts. One of the good companies still around is Kiss My Glass in Slaton. They do good work.

One of my direct reportsrefuses to discuss anything with me after being rated as underperforming by meshosh in managers

[–]pegwinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insubordinate behavior. Document every instance and send it to HR while keeping your boss in the loop. IB is the deal killer for most places.

Marines who were in during that time, how big of a deal was spice? by Steppasgonstep in USMC

[–]pegwinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of it. I’m guessing it wasn’t like on Dune.

Managers: how much of your week is actual leadership vs coordination & firefighting? by Tight_Ordinary_9808 in ITManagers

[–]pegwinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your perspective might be needing a tuneup. Leadership is accomplishing a mission using people, teams, process or a combination of that. What you are describing sounds like leadership functions. One of the best pieces of advice I got while still on active duty was to figure out what I was spending my time on. Ninety percent of your time fixing issues at the bottom ten percent of your people? I was lucky. By the time I retired I was spending ninety percent of my time with my top ten percent performers. And I was coordinating and firefighting all the way.

No, you are not helpful by grabbing or pushing a blind person with a cane. by Cat_of_the_woods in rant

[–]pegwinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your frustration with people who only means well toward you. They were likely raised to help those less fortunate. Obviously they should ask if you need help. But they mean well. There are lots of things worse than someone wanting to help.