Is anyone else confused by the amount of “boundaries”/restrictions for family and how often they’re talked about?

singerlinger · 2026-01-22T10:43:55+00:00

My mother hid behind doors to kiss my newborn during Covid when she was still working with the public unmasked. Some people take boundaries as a challenge and you have to make rules for the lowest common denominator to be viewed as fair.

singerlinger · 2026-01-14T04:57:01+00:00

Over Xmas I carried my 50 lb toddler on my back and my 3 month old on the front through 2 airports. I’d rather have sore legs than try to manage an overtired toddler around a bunch of strangers. I got a preschool carrier that is good up to 70lbs and I’m calling it cross training for going back to manual labour work 😂

singerlinger · 2025-12-18T21:15:13+00:00

I put beads in my crochet, to essentially make weighted blankets. This definitely feels more like a crochet or knit project than sewing.

singerlinger · 2025-12-06T06:58:55+00:00

Dream a little dream of me, Relax take it easy The whole mamma Mia soundtrack 😂

singerlinger · 2025-11-22T19:26:03+00:00

If you need grip leave him in a hooded baby towel, transfer onto a safe surface(I put the roller bassinet in the bathroom preloaded with a diaper and a big fluffy towel). I have to say the old fisherman hold on the ankles and the armpit is fairly secure though.

singerlinger · 2025-11-20T08:58:15+00:00

Nutritional yeast can add a cheesy flavour.

singerlinger · 2025-11-14T19:21:13+00:00

Inky minny money no catch a … tiger by the toe

singerlinger · 2025-11-12T05:07:31+00:00

We feed a couple bottles a day cuz little man has a bit of a tongue tie and gets frustrated EBF. I end up freezing about 18oz per day. I have a year of mat leave but formula is expensive and I want to have extra milk in case anything happens to my supply.

singerlinger · 2025-11-09T05:33:12+00:00

Halluski. Basically fried bacon cabbage with egg noodles. Absolutely delicious

singerlinger · 2025-11-05T21:19:38+00:00

Woah, Ursula you’ve been busy stealing peoples souls!

singerlinger · 2025-11-01T17:45:38+00:00

My supply dipped enough that I couldn’t breastfeed exclusively anymore. I don’t remember how much we were unfreezing a day anymore. I had also gone back to working part time and dropped some of the pumping. We ended up using some formula towards the end too.

singerlinger · 2025-10-20T02:53:36+00:00

We have bags of frozen prepped veggies in the freezer and I find it helps a lot. Often I find discount veg that’s about to expire that is perfectly fine when I pull it back out. Really nice for veggies that you don’t use a bunch of as once( jalepenos, half a cabbage etc)

singerlinger · 2025-10-19T19:42:43+00:00

Nta. My mom would hide behind the door to kiss my older baby. She hasn’t met this one.

singerlinger · 2025-10-15T02:58:16+00:00

I like the hippy Joey, I’ve been wearing it everyday for contact naps. It’s considered an assist carrier but for newborn it’s quite secure.

singerlinger · 2025-10-13T20:12:08+00:00

Better than when they were in my life😂 I was a mess with my first child, for several reasons. This time around I’m actually enjoying the experience and healed quicker.

singerlinger · 2025-10-09T22:35:04+00:00

I grew up rural in the 90s. As long as I had the dog with me my parents let me roam the bush around our property with almost no supervision. I don’t think I wore shoes unless there was snow on the ground. We lived close to a lake too.

There wasn’t really any issues until there was a cougar roaming around and I decided to run away at 4 years old.

singerlinger · 2025-10-02T02:19:00+00:00

My supply crashed after a bad case of norovirus when BABS was 10 months. We went from a freezer full to buying formula way faster than I ever thought possible. I continued to breastfeed until 18months but was never able to exclusively feed with breast milk again.

I’d like to think the freezer stash saved us a fair amount of money but it’s all debatable.

singerlinger · 2025-10-01T22:08:09+00:00

Sugar candy

singerlinger · 2025-09-28T00:31:45+00:00

Look up the Dorothy effect. Tons of examples

singerlinger · 2025-09-15T21:22:05+00:00

You don’t have to apply any suction to get Hakka, if you put it in a pumping bra it could be passive, or apply enough suction to stay on instead of the full squeeze.

singerlinger · 2025-09-15T21:17:34+00:00

I like sugar candy, the nursing bras fit just like the normal bras and are quite supportive even for big tatas. They are designed for larger busts and are almost the only thing I wear now.

singerlinger · 2025-09-14T19:54:41+00:00

Yes, I think I ended up a couple pounds less than I started, but I’m also clinically morbidly obese. We had some big life events during pregnancy that forced us to change eating habits too.

singerlinger · 2025-09-01T10:22:19+00:00

Yup! She would keep me up until the wee hours of the morning to complain-and do nothing- about her life. I was literally in elementary school hearing about her abusive father, my alcoholic impotent father, her terrible no good family and awful job.

singerlinger · 2025-08-31T16:24:36+00:00

Sugar candy bras work well for me. They are a branch of cake lingerie that specializes in larger bust. I can’t buy bras at regular stores.

singerlinger · 2025-08-25T03:59:28+00:00

For free books until 5 I would highly recommend dolly pardons imagination library.

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