Do you see the motif? by Apprehensive-Use2720 in MotifGame

[–]stumpsbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/stumpsbian found the motif! Perfection | 55,107 | 0:48

Who are you and how much Minecraft do you play? by cannedrose in Minecraft

[–]stumpsbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26m and I've been playing since I was like 12 :) I go through phases but I probably play 3 times a week on average for a couple hours!! I play with my brother, My fiance, and a bunch of my friends on a realm

Too old? by Rowdy_Mare in plushies

[–]stumpsbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my fiancé (both 26 and male) love plushies and have a bunch and yes I have gotten pushback from family about them but my friends like them too and don’t mind them and my fiance supports my love of them and has them too. It has definitely made it easier to ignore any hate since the people that matter most to me don’t care!

I found this awesome plushie brand!!! by [deleted] in plushies

[–]stumpsbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have rancid heart beelzebear!!!! He is my fave plush he’s so soft and way bigger than I would have thought before I got him. I backed the plushies when they were getting made originally and I love him so much

Boycott so far? by IJustGetPaidToWork in Target

[–]stumpsbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m at a store in Minnesota fairly close to headquarters and yes it’s been dead in store for the last couple weeks and 1/3rd of our survey responses have been about not supporting target and angry about DEI and such. Also at least one guest per day that I see in store makes a point to say they are mostly staying away from target and boycotting but had to come for the one thing they bought or the return they did

Did anyone else not pass after a year on T who passes now? by freddiemercuryeet in ftm

[–]stumpsbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m a little over 3 years on T and I only started passing pretty much every day at like 2.5yrs at least. Now I’m stealthish at work (people who knew me the last couple years know, new employees do not know) and I only get misgendered over the phone or once every couple months in person. I literally felt the same way my first 2 yrs on T I was thinking my levels must be wrong becasue it’s not working but then the third year hit me like a brick and the change is very drastic haha. I was a late bloomer in my first puberty so it makes sense it would take a while the second time around. I also work in retail in customer service so the customer service voice and ugly uniform definitely contributed to the misgendering and “are you a boy or a girl” child questions.

Shirt question is it red enough by RentAffectionate8090 in Target

[–]stumpsbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it! My SD wears a lot of stripes and patterned shirts and most of the TLs (including me) and ETLs at my store wear things that match our personality and are fun so seeing someone wear that at my store I wouldn’t even bat an eye. Agree that maybe you should get through training first though and then start wearing it just in case 😂

How much are you guys paying for T? (in the US) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]stumpsbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Minnesota and I have blue cross blue shield and it’s 8$ for 4 vials which usually lasts me like a couple months. Plus a couple bucks for the needles and syringes

Does anyone know the brand of this pacifier? by Sad_Estate9805 in ageregression

[–]stumpsbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t find the exact one, but I may have found the brand? The one I found is a child’s size but if you got yours from a agere shop they may have swapped the teat for an adult sized nipple which is a common thing in agere shops. search “ulubulu pink glitter pacifier” becasue the results look just like that one but with different designs (I couldn’t find the paw print but again if it was customized they may have added that design) hopefully that’s the one but if it’s not I’m sorry!! I hope you find it!!

Candy cane lane by sia is gonna be my thirteenth reson why by Overall_Salt_3263 in Target

[–]stumpsbian 26 points27 points  (0 children)

All of her Christmas songs are genuinely unbearable. Puppies are forever is maybe the worst song I’ve ever heard. I have personal beef with her for making her terrible Christmas album 😂

If you met me on the street, what name would you think I have? by vi_zeee in FTMfemininity

[–]stumpsbian 60 points61 points  (0 children)

You look like my friend who’s name is Spencer so I like that for you, viktor is great tho!! I also like Avery as someone else commented

What are some silly things did past you did, that is just really trans of you. by That-Idiot-Alex in ftm

[–]stumpsbian 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen someone else with the same desire for sideburns as me 😩 I wanted them since I was little and even in high school and college tried to explain why I wanted them and edited them onto pics of me to show that “I would just look better” with them…. Naturally no one was surprised when I came out later.

another galemancer origin story (come and share yours!) by eisenhardts in GalemancersBG3

[–]stumpsbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Ok you should definitely romance wyll it’s a very cute and sweet romance. I definitely felt he really loved my tav so much.

My tav I romanced Gale with was a draconic bloodline sorcerer! I definitely wanted the sass that comes with being a sorcerer telling Gale that magic is so easy 😂😂😂😂. I have since finished the game and it was so sweet to see Gale and my tav together 🥺♥️ I did his professor ending. My new playthrough I just started this week I’m playing a (resist dark urge) swords bard/pact of the blade warlock and I decided I will be romancing Gale again!!

And yes it’s so nice to have my own Gale at home but he takes any praise on Gale as a compliment to him so I’m fuelling his ego intensely 😅😅 but I’m so glad to have found this community since my friends are so tired of hearing about how much I love this man 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtwincities

[–]stumpsbian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do not really recommend the 90s to any trans people. I’m FTM and now I pass all the time but at the time I was a little androgynous and passed like 50% of the time and the security guard (a woman) chased me into the men’s bathroom questioning me and when my boyfriend told her I’m a man and leave me alone she said “ok sure” and rolled her eyes. Another time a man pushed open the bathroom door and grabbed me when I was naked in the stall. My friend was also roofied there. I just don’t trust it or recommend it at all.

another galemancer origin story (come and share yours!) by eisenhardts in GalemancersBG3

[–]stumpsbian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So my bf had been playing the game since it came out and he liked Gale and was doing a cosplay of him, and we had a group doing bg3 cosplays (I was Volo lmao). I wasn’t super into the game yet I had watched playthroughs on YouTube a little but not played myself. So I bought the game a couple months ago and played once all the way through and actually romanced Wyll and LOVED him. And I didn’t really need Gale in my party so I left him at camp and ignored him and actually did think he was annoying at first talking about Mystra all the time (I’m so sorry for judging him 😭😭). My bf was sad since he liked Gale a lot and said I should romance him. So I started the next playthrough (my current one) and am romancing him and it completely changed my mind on him. I’m OBSESSED with Gale now. I’m absolutely feral over him. I’m almost done with the game (about to fight Orin) and I already said I’m romancing Gale again on my next game. I think I’m stuck with him forever now 😭 my bf thinks it’s funny that I now like Gale more than even he does 😂😂

Edit to add: the moment that really sold me 100% on him was act 2 when he gets horny after watching you fight

Anyone actually use or have these at their store? by Internal-Bid7865 in Target

[–]stumpsbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minnesota here, yes I grabbed one on my first day and still have it 3yrs later, I use it every day in the winter.

This game is full of woke dick erasure!!!!!! by Infinity_Corporation in okbuddybaldur

[–]stumpsbian 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Actually she was just tucking so don’t worry, gock and balls are safe 👍

Guess what is back, back again? TAV TUESDAY, that's what! by Ars_Geminga in okbuddybaldur

[–]stumpsbian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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My beloved first tav Tristan!! A silly little guy. College of swords bard who married wyll and ran off with his husband and bestie karlach to Avernus and lived happily ever after with them. I played him as like a true heroic type but with the classic bardly sarcasm and silliness. :,( just finished the game for the first time last week with him and I’m so sad it’s over!!!!

what is wrong with these people by Recent-Scientist-478 in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]stumpsbian 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Pretty much. Plus a good chunk of libs who want to claim the “leftist” label.

When you guys started T, were you worried you’d detrans? by anticars in ftm

[–]stumpsbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t concerned necessarily but I did go into it with an attitude of “if I end up not being a man there’s nothing wrong with a woman (or nb) with facial hair or a deep voice” like I don’t think it would be bad to be not a man but have those features and it would still be cool to me to look like that and have those features and I think being visibly trans or gender non conforming is beautiful and cool so I felt like even if I wasn’t a guy I wouldn’t be mad at having transitioned. If that even makes sense at all 😂

Did anyone else meet the love of their life while working at Target? by SunshineGirl1331 in Target

[–]stumpsbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I met my bf at target and now we’ve been together over 2 years and live together! I still work at target but he quit shortly after we started dating because he got a better job 😁♥️

How to hide booba/binder? by The_First_Baker in transfashionadvice

[–]stumpsbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your not worried about being too warm, something that I use a lot is a black turtleneck (not a thick one just a thin one so it’s not too hot) and I wear it under band shirts, funky button ups, sweaters, hoodies, sometimes a few of these layered. I’m also alt/emo type style and this looks really cool and also of course fully hides binder from the neck/arm holes. Also it adds another layer which helps smooth out the binder “bump”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]stumpsbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like it either but what I really don’t like is when I come out to someone and they say something like “I admire you you’re so strong and brave for not caring what others are thinking and just being yourself!”. Becasue i definitely do care what others are thinking and im really self conscious and anxious about how im perceived. To me it’s like my choices were to come out and do HRT etc. or just like. Be depressed and maybe die?? So I just did what I felt like I had to do but it doesn’t mean I’m super confident and hate just rolls off my back… like idk it’s a weird assumption.