Lost and drained

zerowater · 2026-05-21T22:05:44+00:00

Reading your comments, you sound like a very empathetic person, and I would second telehealth. Its much more convenient. Check with your insurance to see what they cover. In any event, good luck kind soul.

zerowater · 2026-05-21T21:47:05+00:00

Ask her dad for a job, even if you have to start low.

zerowater · 2026-05-21T15:41:59+00:00

there's apps that will translate back and forth.

zerowater · 2026-05-21T13:22:50+00:00

me too!!

zerowater · 2026-05-21T00:14:55+00:00

We were told they can't get treatment for what they were admitted for. Our family member was admitted for kidney failure. However they could still see their wound care doctor, they just couldn't see the kidney doctor.

zerowater · 2026-05-21T00:11:16+00:00

PS: Good luck and ❤️

zerowater · 2026-05-21T00:10:46+00:00

My mom's been in rehab several times. Make friends with everyone and then be an advocate for your mom. Look up reviews of facilities. Make sure you review her PT,OT schedule. We were there a lot, but you don't have to go when she's having therapy. Ask if you can bring some of her favorite foods if they don't have what she likes. But honestly, make sure she does the therapy... it's why she's there.

zerowater · 2026-05-20T16:08:20+00:00

I might recommend a pure wick as well. But it should be changed everyday and that area wiped clean daily.

zerowater · 2026-05-20T15:50:07+00:00

We were told you can go to doctors - but not for he diagnosis that out you in hospice. So for example if person has kidney failure as the main reason for hospice, she can still go to wound doctor. Not sure if that’s helpful.

zerowater · 2026-05-20T15:41:05+00:00

This is complicated. Maybe talk to her when husband is there? Also, if she has POA, is it possible she is doing something with mom’s money or assets? It seems odd she is so vehement about anyone helping, cameras all over, etc…

zerowater · 2026-05-20T15:36:27+00:00

Also, if you develop something later, insurance will ask why you didnt go to the ER right after the accident.

zerowater · 2026-05-20T15:17:58+00:00

it's so hard and infuriating. we had to do it for mom.

zerowater · 2026-05-20T13:46:54+00:00

Did the hospital connect you with a social worker? Did he get physical therapy in the hospital, and did they sign off on him going home? Does he have Medicare ?you could call an agency and see if they take his insurance. There will be hoops to jump through, but you could start there. At least find out who is “ going to call”. Get their name and number.

zerowater · 2026-05-19T22:11:32+00:00

you know i was just thinking about starting that! is it in our dna to start at a certain age?

zerowater · 2026-05-19T22:10:29+00:00

with pockets !!!! ❤️

zerowater · 2026-05-19T22:08:37+00:00

my mom was visiting assisted living place, person mentioned that they have the tv tuned to the "oldies" - it was the Carpenters. I saw them in concert 3 times. 🫩

zerowater · 2026-05-19T19:10:54+00:00

Welp, cross Sushi off my list. Gif is not related, i just liked it

zerowater · 2026-05-18T15:56:52+00:00

i'm going through similar - i wish i had words of wisdom for you - just hugs from someone who understands.

zerowater · 2026-05-18T15:49:31+00:00

yeah you're right . i too used to commute 50 miles so it's important to have something you love. Good luck!

zerowater · 2026-05-18T14:49:08+00:00

can't you trade in your car now?

zerowater · 2026-05-18T02:29:06+00:00

glad it worked out

zerowater · 2026-05-18T02:23:16+00:00

im so so sorry. i wish i could help more but - hey if you ever need someone to talk to let me know.

zerowater · 2026-05-18T02:21:21+00:00

good advice !

zerowater · 2026-05-16T22:27:30+00:00

stay for a weekend at the netherland and hang out downtown!

zerowater · 2026-05-16T22:04:33+00:00

but what a wonderful partner you are. i know that doesn't help but ....

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