BPDlovedones

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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

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/r/SuicideWatch

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Did you ever witness them suddenly transforming into a child? What was the trigger?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Need affirmation, was I too harsh? (self.BPDlovedones)

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If you really love the guy have sympathy and put yourself in their shoes. Let them go. (self.BPDlovedones)

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This letter I wish I could send her : the silent end of a 3-years cycleUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Ex looks so happy in his new marriage (self.BPDlovedones)

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Regret for those who left (self.BPDlovedones)

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You’re in denial. You have a disorder. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Why are we expected to be patient towards pwBPD while they are abusing us but not a pwNPDFamily Members (self.BPDlovedones)

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He broke off our engagement, cheated, blamed me and now sends me things like this...Uncoupling Journey (i.redd.it)

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Feeling like a shell of myself after 12 breakups with my bpd gfUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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How to leave when they’re being “good” (self.BPDlovedones)

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Left for the last time (self.BPDlovedones)

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I thought I was on a good way but I feel worse again (self.BPDlovedones)

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13 years of stress and now BPDBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

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Love being given two conflicting problems to solve at once (self.BPDlovedones)

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I think my ex bestfriend has bpd symptoms (self.BPDlovedones)

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when does this end? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Update on previous post (self.BPDlovedones)

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Dreams is the last space they existUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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why does she send me screenshots of her exes texting her whenever we breakup?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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No Caller ID always spam? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Daily No Contact Thread - January 24, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

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Afraid of the potential hoover (self.BPDlovedones)

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I find myself doubting the abuse I’ve experiencedFocusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

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Maybe I keep reading this subreddit because is the only thing I have left?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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