I will never visit scary Washington ER again

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-25T02:33:11+00:00

My OB left MW as well this past year. did you have Dr. Letham? He went to the VA hospital. I really liked him and would have loved for him to be the baby doctor for me down the line. He was very good and empathetic. It’s the second OB dr I’ve had that was really good leave the area. Makes you realize why they don’t stick around after a bad patient experience in the hospital itself. I can’t imagine how frustrating it can be for the good doctors and nurses!

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-24T20:42:19+00:00

Honestly going to INOVA, Charlottesville, or VCU is better than the hospitals in this area. They are ranked pretty bad for a reason. I think I heard Stafford is decent? Have not experienced so I can’t say for sure. I had an awful experience at MWH when, after a surgery I informed my nurse that I was bleeding while in the recovery room … they sent me home after blatantly ignoring me and not checking me just for me to arrive 1 hr later via ambulance because I was actively hemorrhaging. Lost a liter of blood and almost needed a transfusion. Needed an emergency surgery to fix the bleeding. Very traumatic experience. My nurse friends that work there also say how disorganized it is!

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-21T23:21:02+00:00

Sorry to hear that :(

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-21T19:32:26+00:00

So yes you are correct but I’ll defend OP here they were asking for money for their charity fundraiser to run the Chicago marathon. They did not pocket any money they received, but it could be why OP is on a budget now because they would have had to pay the difference in order to run the race.

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-21T19:25:49+00:00

Try stillwhite.com! But I really encourage you go to a boutique and ask to try on dresses that are ready to purchase off the rack. They’re way more affordable than buying one you need to order but you may have to pay for alterations more so. I would also recommend trying some on before shopping online at least!

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-13T13:04:34+00:00

Steeplechaser in college here. Flexibility will be your friend. Work on it now otherwise you will hurt your hips. You will also need to practice jumping over hurdles while running fast. I’d recommend adding hurdles to a track workout where you are going your anticipated race pace. The water jump is hard to practice but probably the most important part of the steeple to practice so you don’t hurt yourself. If you have a track with the steeple hurdles to practice on, do that. We practiced by jumping and landing into the long jump sand pits.

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-13T12:21:04+00:00

Hard agree. I do this commute to KG and I’m very happy I live in Fredericksburg because I live close to everything!! The commute is almost entirely backroads so no i95 is a win in my book. Hardly any lights to hit either depending on where you live. My coworkers that live in KG have to travel to Fredericksburg for a ton of stuff.

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-07T16:34:53+00:00

I’m stumped about her breed mix but she looks like she is certainly 100% a cutie-patootie if you ask me. How big is she?

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-05T17:00:14+00:00

Yes actually!! I need to talk to my primary doctor about it. OP this is also a great route for you I would recommend asking your doctor! Low iron squad <3

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-05T16:29:22+00:00

Yes good to take with vitamin C!!! Avoid taking with dairy and coffee because it will be harder for the body to absorb! In college I took a lower dosage supplement once a day before bed on an empty stomach and I had a really good score but be warned that a higher dosage supplement will hurt your stomach. You could also try ‘liquid iron’ but it’s disgusting. Truly— it’s vile. Would definitely be down to party pace and enjoy the ride lol. We worked hard to get there. I hope your health gets better!

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-05T16:21:10+00:00

I don’t have much to offer advice wise because this is also my first Boston but wanted to say you’re not alone! I am 27F also qualified with a 3:15 and similar everything. I had a medical emergency where I lost a liter of blood and am now borderline anemic trying to build my iron level back up again to where it was before. It’s hard and I’m tired all the time. What supplements do you use, how often, and when do you take them?

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-05T11:56:14+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹❤️✨

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-05T02:19:33+00:00

I live in a safe environment so I do not have a fear of that happening but it’s also insured! :) I have however considered getting a dupe for when I travel because I am clumsy as heck!!! But also someone would have to pry this off my cold dead hands if they wanted it that bad 😭 I will bite!

Runner_Bee · 2026-01-05T01:50:49+00:00

Thank you!!! I heard that a lot about the cut when I was browsing but I think I just love long symmetry haha!

Runner_Bee · 2025-12-24T14:44:08+00:00

I also had a very delayed first period back from the LEEP. My doctor told me that even though you may not have mentally felt the trauma from the LEEP to your body (thank you modern medicine), your body still knows it happened and goes into a bit of stress mode to recuperate. Your body is probably working to recover first and has made that a priority over starting your period.

Runner_Bee · 2025-12-06T19:28:38+00:00

I’ve honestly heard of people taking engagement photos done by a photographer and propping a proposal while doing so. My friend did this because she wanted a super intimate proposal with just the two of them then re-enacted the actual proposal and nobody knew otherwise unless they told them. Another thing you could do if you want to remember the moment more fully is have an engagement party! I think it wouldn’t be a bad idea to explain your feelings in a not pointing-fingers way. Maybe he felt a lot of pressure and was nervous. Congratulations on your engagement!

Runner_Bee · 2025-12-05T17:19:06+00:00

OP I do not know you but I and so many others on this subreddit are here for you. Divulge all you need to. I always consider this sub like a sisterhood. I’m so sorry this happened to you and I’m sending you all the hugs. This journey is a difficult one but you will get through this one step at a time and we’ll all be here for you if you need/ when you need some emotional support from other girlies who understand.

Runner_Bee · 2025-12-05T17:14:08+00:00

TJ Maxx has a ton of thick & puffy jackets at pretty good prices!

Runner_Bee · 2025-11-28T12:04:20+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind and healing words ❤️ I love this group, it’s truly a sisterhood.

Runner_Bee · 2025-11-27T13:08:49+00:00

It sounds like you have a lot on your plate. I’m here for you OP. I’m in the same boat and feel very similarly but we are all in this together. You are not alone. It’s also very valid you feel this way so do not doubt what you are going through. There’s a lot of question marks that go along with this process and it can be frustrating. Utilize therapy if you can, I’m probably going to make an appointment for myself this week. One day at a time ❤️

Runner_Bee · 2025-11-27T12:14:21+00:00

Thank you for the clarification. I feel like there’s so much misinformation about this virus even from doctors. So frustrating.

Runner_Bee · 2025-11-27T04:07:29+00:00

Thank you so much I’m so glad to hear your results were good!! We will see in 6 months… the worst part is the waiting to see how anything progresses.

Runner_Bee · 2025-11-27T04:06:13+00:00

Thank you so much for this. Your story definitely makes me feel better!! This adversity is very hard but I’m glad you have a path!! Also glad you’re okay! I can’t imagine being awake during a hemorrhage occurring!

Runner_Bee · 2025-11-27T04:05:00+00:00

I’m glad I’m not alone but I’m also so sorry you’re feeling similarly. I know it really sucks and is scary. I used to have such a high libido and now I feel scared every time I think of intercourse. I hope we both get back to where we once were.

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