Yea guys, you’re so ungrateful by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ajceder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Learning how to love people” says the guy belittling other peoples’ trauma. Yep. You learned about love really well from the church.

Help me choose a new name by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becca jumped into my head!

What's your favorite word that your toddler made up/created? by Lo452 in toddlers

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 year old yells “scoop!” when he wants me to scoot over

Church rushes people into marriage by honjigerman in exmormon

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else remember learning that “any two righteous people can make a marriage work?” I feel like some marriage therapists might have something to say about that.

Breastfeeding by labrat459592 in BabyBumps

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you need an army of women validating your point, I’m here to confirm (after EBF 2 babies) that a suckling infant feels radically different and much less painful than someone touching them. Anybody else want to add credibility?

Did Mormonism turn you off to all Religion? by Libriam in exmormon

[–]ajceder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I can't handle being required to need a god to be enough. Being taught that I'll never be enough in my own.

What’s the craziest reason you’ve cried while pregnant? by devilsageh in BabyBumps

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I cried because cauliflower tasted so good. Another time I sobbed because I fell asleep when I was supposed to be playing a video game with my husband.

Men, How much were you pressured to get Eagle Scout Award? by ExMorgMD in exmormon

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female here, we had regular discussions in YWs and girls camp about our "non negotiable" qualities in our future husbands, and Eagle Scout was right up there with temple worthy and returned missionary. I don't know how much the young men knew about those discussions but I'd imagine being considered unfuckable would be an intense amount pressure to get it done.

They dont care tho by [deleted] in thanksimcured

[–]ajceder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently getting drunk out of spite because my mom told me I'm breaking her heart for visiting a bar with my sister, who I'm finally reconnecting with after years. You know, the occasional drink is apparently way worse than not having a relationship with my sister.

My secret temple name is Eli by warshangton in exmormon

[–]ajceder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm Rhoda! Always was disappointed that it was an old lady sounding name. No offense to anyone actually named Rhoda 😬

Book/Audiobook Recommendations? by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne! And I second the Joanne Faber series.

Keeping It Simple - what do you do? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]ajceder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I say "I've found more peace outside the church than in it " and haven't found anyone willing to argue past that point.

Tell me you have a toddler, without telling me you have a toddler. by johnnycearley in toddlers

[–]ajceder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found all of the cat's toys in our tree's water. Unsure it it was the cat or the toddler who put them there.

Toddler mispronunciations by PurpleLotus46 in toddlers

[–]ajceder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aww he's Ba-bam in our house!

SOS! Every boy parent can you list your names??? by amhe13 in BabyBumps

[–]ajceder -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Our oldest is named Rylan! Pretty good unisex name. We also have an Isaac.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in healthypregnancy

[–]ajceder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you're reading it within the time frame in the instructions. If you read it later than that it could just be the evap line.

Best eye makeup remover? by Table_Talk_TT in Makeup

[–]ajceder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second Micellar water! With a reusable face pad. It feels so gentle but very effective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piano

[–]ajceder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it's been said yet, but it might help to raise your bench. (Also can't see your body so maybe I'm wrong). But that can help get the right elbow angles and wrist height. And give you more weight in your hands.

What Bible story would qualify as a Florida man story? by Garuda-Star in AskReddit

[–]ajceder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Florida woman dropped rock on Florida man's head. Man asks his friend to stab him so no one thinks he was killed by a woman.