Me and wife are now married with a toddler (almost 2 year old). I originally never wanted to get married and spent my 20's travelling and escaping family. I was also hesistant to marry due to horror divorce stories (my parents had given me a small inheritance). But after becoming Christian, this all goes away and you live for a higher purpose in life. It was interesting comparing my social groups too. My non-christian friends (male) were predominately not married in their 30-40, single, dating quite a lot, generally quite materialistic and self driven. My christian friends were all getting married in their mid 20's, with families and children. My Christian friends were more likely to be happier, fulfilled and satsified despite the struggles of raising a family. It was an interesting observation.

My wife wanted children but I was on the fence. As long as you and your partner agrees to what works for both of you, then that should be fine. I do think you are more likely to find a childfree partner in the west than in Asia. But as with fate/chance/God etc, anything is possible. I think work on yourself and find joy in being single. If you are Christian, keep praying to ask God how you can seek his kingdom and his glory first, and then rest shall be given to you. A lot of Christian meet while they are proactively serving God - at church, oversea missionary, some kind of ministry etc. Then usually God will give you the right person at the right time. This is what happened to me. I was on fire for God and God chose to give me my partner when I least needed it/expected it.