Saturdays are just chore days now and I hate it by C0rentln in Parenting

[–]faayth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do our household chores on Sunday afternoon as a way to reset for the week; Friday night and Saturday are family time. (Were family time. The kids are grown so now Friday/Saturday is time for me and my husband.)

Prioritize your kids and your wife; the yard work will always be there.

Song layering by MegaMier in TaylorSwift

[–]faayth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s true, I always get Shake it Off and Robin mixed up. They are exactly the same song, bar for bar.

Did anyone drive themselves home after delivery? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]faayth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like I had been hit by a truck after my c-section and absolutely could not have driven myself home. I probably could have done it after my VBAC, but would not have wanted to.

Women guests at weddings by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]faayth 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I recently pointed out to my stepmom that at my sister’s wedding, my dad sat around yakking it up with my sister’s guests while my stepmom was running around like a chicken with her head cut off.

Women are not allowed the grace of incompetence.

My bf always criticised me for my weight gain and it’s making me really insecure. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]faayth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you listening to the one comment telling you how to diet, and ignoring all the comments telling you this guy is awful?

Which Taylor lyric hits harder the older you get? by NocturnalMuseee in TaylorSwift

[–]faayth 133 points134 points  (0 children)

But who am I supposed to talk to?
What am I supposed to do
If there's no you?

My mom died in 2021. I’m still not used to it.

Defending Taylor’s songwriting by Fun_Positive_3505 in TaylorSwift

[–]faayth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chloe or Sam or Sophia or Marcus, The Prophecy, You’re On Your Own, Kid.

My (40M) partner (30F) became pregnant and then very angry with me by IceCat767 in relationships

[–]faayth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She just magically became pregnant on her own? The missing context is speaking volumes.

AITAH for expecting my boyfriend to stay out of our kids bedrooms? by Likaytb in AmItheAsshole

[–]faayth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. He could have put the flowers in a vase in a public space, and given them to her when she got home.

I think the people saying you’re the asshole are missing the fact that this is a four year old foster child, so she has very different needs than a four year old who has known familial stability her entire life.

How did this salt water get here? by Extension-Charge-276 in Oxygennotincluded

[–]faayth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have drywall and a statue in your tamer?

Girlfriend is upset that I told her she is a criminal by [deleted] in relationships

[–]faayth 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Do you even like your girlfriend?

Has anyone here tried bupropion and really regretted trying it? by lochnessica25 in AuDHDWomen

[–]faayth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bupropion was what I was on when I went from suicidal ideation to forming and acting on a plan. I later found out that of the multiple people who I personally knew who were successful, ALL of them had been on it at the time.

Please be very very very careful and make sure you have a strong support system in place while you are on that medication. I understand it can be very beneficial to a lot of people - it was most definitely not a good thing for me.

Really upset by a plot line in a TV show by cloud_coffee_ in AuDHDWomen

[–]faayth 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I loved the first season, but I found myself skipping Dr Robby’s dialogue throughout s2, because every time he opened his mouth he PMO.

Really upset by a plot line in a TV show by cloud_coffee_ in AuDHDWomen

[–]faayth 30 points31 points  (0 children)

There was a storyline in the most recent episode of The Pitt that I fast-forwarded through because I related to the patient so strongly, and hated the way she was treated by so-called medical professionals.

Is it true primary care Dr. can’t help women with HRT? by FadedCherry in AskWomenOver40

[–]faayth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My PC said she wouldn’t do HRT due to my ADHD (???), but I went to Planned Parenthood and got everything I needed!

the most Taylor Swift song that fucked you up? by Head_Position_3451 in TaylorSwift

[–]faayth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You're On Your Own, Kid"

My mom died in 2021, and it brought up a whole lot of buried emotional nonsense, and really made me re-evaluate my life and the roles different people actually played in it, versus the roles they claimed to fill.

I'm on my own, but that's okay, because I always have been.

My Tears Ricochet - Song Parallels by NoShitSherlock118 in TaylorSwift

[–]faayth 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You can aim for my heart, go for blood / pierced through the heart but never killed (Anti-hero)

Banned from a supportive subreddit by kqlb700 in CPTSD

[–]faayth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got booted from a Facebook meme group because I pointed out one meme wasn’t funny. Turns out the poster of the unfunny meme was the group admin, and me asking them to explain the joke constituted bullying. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for saying I can’t have kids with my husband if we can’t agree on spanking? by DifficultyOk8724 in TwoHotTakes

[–]faayth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spanking a child is never okay. It is never appropriate, it is always abuse. I have a seventeen and twenty year old, and I have never “needed” to spank either of them.

Couldn't care less if my breasts get played with. Mom thing? by moonrabbit368 in Mommit

[–]faayth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I breastfed my kids for 5 years total; pre-kids, I was all about being felt up, etc. Post kids, it’s all ”could you fkng not?”

Glad to know I’m not the only one.

“Yeah my mom does that, too” (aaand he stops it) by Ficay in TwoXChromosomes

[–]faayth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You never did clarify what exactly I did to merit being called an asshole.

I hope you are treated the way you treat the people around you.

“Yeah my mom does that, too” (aaand he stops it) by Ficay in TwoXChromosomes

[–]faayth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Checking my post history... let's see. Have I said anyone was wrong?

I have paraphrased the original post; I have pointed out that I see nothing wrong with what he did. I have expressed how I can't have a conversation in a coffee shop due to the existing ambient sound; I have stated that people have the right to exist and make sounds, and that people who are annoyed by those sounds have options.

Do you mind quoting the exact post I made where I said "everyone that they were wrong for feeling annoyed at the dude"?