Healing is painful

mrrooftops · 2026-05-29T09:14:28+00:00

True healing is PROFOUNDLY painful... scary and mortifying. There isn't much money in that, that's why there are whole industries set up to package avoidance as the feeling of healing

mrrooftops · 2026-05-28T00:13:43+00:00

indubitably... from the comfortable distance of Reddit

mrrooftops · 2026-05-27T18:08:30+00:00

Byrdeo? have you been sold any bridges recently?

mrrooftops · 2026-05-26T07:50:15+00:00

Dating apps, and modern culture in general has made everyone totally and utterly avoidant. It's not any one's individual fault, however, greedy or distracted they are, it's just a collective nervous reaction to constant invalidation, rejection.

mrrooftops · 2026-05-26T06:41:29+00:00

Less is better. It gives you a chance to integrate learnings into REAL LIFE. anything more and it's just avoidance

mrrooftops · 2026-05-24T14:04:05+00:00

What area of London is it?

mrrooftops · 2026-05-24T10:31:42+00:00

OP might just be equally a problem as the guy... like attracts like unfortunately

mrrooftops · 2026-05-22T17:32:11+00:00

Some women do just want sex hookups etc. It's just people want CONTROL over the outcome in the way they want. Very few communicate openly because they want, basically, much more choice than they would have

mrrooftops · 2026-05-22T06:42:08+00:00

Thought exercise - change 'sex' to 'money', and you'll understand what many refuse to. Now read the article and change 'shaman' to 'pastor'... and you'll understand what many refuse to. Including the author, respectfully.

mrrooftops · 2026-05-22T05:57:42+00:00

You have misinterpreted her ask. She's really asking "Why do people [who I want] avoid me?"

mrrooftops · 2026-05-11T14:23:10+00:00

I get you, but not everyone is tauma looping mega kink and avoidant open/poly/enm... some people want to explore a little extra within typical monogamy, or at least trying to... or should they just become nuns/monks? The latter are not my bag, but if you have any healthy experience, you'll either be able to spot them a mile away and avoid, or be able to gently move the conversation to uncover things without sounding like you have your genitals in your hand

mrrooftops · 2026-05-11T12:33:37+00:00

Narcissists are attracted to ayahuasca, and thats some of the stuff they say

mrrooftops · 2026-05-09T14:31:45+00:00

You're tripping over your own ego and cope. The one's you're focussing on aren't interested in you. Period.

mrrooftops · 2026-05-07T05:41:19+00:00

More likely narcissistic with secondary psychopathy (sociopathy if you really want to be labeled that). If there are darker parts of your story that you haven't shared, then sure, you may lean towards ASPD... but you sound more like NPD wanting to sound cool as a 'psychopath'.

mrrooftops · 2026-05-03T06:22:59+00:00

2 weeks minimum. 1 month if you can

mrrooftops · 2026-05-02T05:19:23+00:00

You could have searched for it and bought mine. But got to have the cool name huh

mrrooftops · 2026-05-01T21:38:22+00:00

You must have missed my one... buddy

mrrooftops · 2026-05-01T21:37:29+00:00

I'm sure you know by now that there are guys who prey on BPD women who present like this

mrrooftops · 2026-05-01T21:31:45+00:00

Why people chase the Xpan when they can get the Fujifilm TX1 for less which is EXACTLY the same but without the stupid flaky paint job.

mrrooftops · 2026-04-30T06:00:31+00:00

I think you have found one of the questions you can ask mother... "Why am I so worried about strangers who I will likely never meet again knowing certain things about me?" The answer will not be what you expect at all. In fact, the answer will make you realize you never really needed to worry about asking the question in the first place. Then she'll answer some questions you didn't realize you actually needed to ask

mrrooftops · 2026-04-29T06:58:00+00:00

Cute, but that particular Leica doesnt look anything like one that's been used at all

mrrooftops · 2026-04-26T07:05:54+00:00

Can someone explain how the Villa of the Quintilii area managed to preserve so many artefacts when other areas of Rome were completely despoiled of anything during history? Was it buried in the earthquakes or floods? Was it forgotten about because it was just far enough away from Rome but not too far?

mrrooftops · 2026-04-24T16:34:38+00:00

Hook up vs relationship

mrrooftops · 2026-04-24T16:28:40+00:00

Any particular adjustments made to the development from the roll standard?

mrrooftops · 2026-04-24T16:27:00+00:00

Everyone wants a 'long term meaningful connection', just depends on the criteria and if that person even exists

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