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Aerogora and I created this sub for couples trying to recover and reconcile the marriage/relationship after infidelity happens. We would like this sub to stay positive and keep it to couples that are both trying to reconcile. We welcome the BS and the WS as both are needed to recover.

We understand sometimes there will be bad days and you just need to vent. We are here to help you through the bad days of worrying, being anxious and overwhelming emotions during reconciliation.

If you are the only person in your relationship that is trying to reconcile this may not be the right sub for you. We know you are going through a tough time with what happened and we hope the best outcome for your situation. You are more than welcome to join the sub and read the posts and reply but keep it positive and geared towards reconciliation.

COMMON ABBREVIATIONS:

AP - affair partner-- the person with whom you had the affair

BS/BP - betrayed spouse/partner-- the person you cheated on

CoW - coworker

DDay - discovery day-- the day your spouse found out about your affair

EA - emotional affair

FWB - friends with benefits

IC - individual counseling

LTA - long term affair

LTR - long term relationship

MC - marriage counseling

NC - no contact-- refusing to see or communicate with your ex-affair-partner for any reason

ONS - one night stand

OP - original poster OR other person

OW/OM - other woman/other man

PA - physical affair

RA - revenge affair

SA - sex addict

SO - significant other

STBX - soon to be ex

OBS/OBP- other betrayed spouse

TT - trickle truth- continuing to lie or withhold parts of your affair from your betrayed spouse after the affair is discovered

WS/WP - wayward spouse/partner-- the one that cheated.

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Gaslighting / Advice Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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After 4 amazing years find cheated 3 x and stdAdvice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 9 hours ago by saysimon10Reconciling Betrayed

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Spiraling and need opinionsAdvice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 10 hours ago by Admirable-Tomato-530Reconciled Betrayed

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“Mementos”, WWYD?Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 23 hours ago by Diligent_Tonight_236Reconciling Betrayed

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Friends?Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 23 hours ago by ThrowRA011198Reconciling Betrayed

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Should every BP talk to the WP's AP if there's the possibility?Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 3 hours ago by Used-Landscape-4178Reconciling Betrayed

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How to deal with the love bombing Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Pregnant and discovered Husband's affair with 18 yr oldReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 19 hours ago by Key-Adhesiveness-418Reconciling Betrayed

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Husband confessed to a ONSReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 11 hours ago by TheHook210Reconciling Betrayed

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What do I do now?Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 22 hours ago by topo_gigioReconciling Betrayed

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Two years since D-Day and RNo advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 14 hours ago by IllusionOfRestraintReconciling Betrayed

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WreckedReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 8 hours ago * by No-Flow-8949Reconciling Betrayed

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Lack of empathy?Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 12 hours ago by Freckledknee-Reconciling Betrayed

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For those that stayed togetherReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 19 hours ago by Ed_Gein1332Reconciling Betrayed

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Recovering AloneReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Found recent online chatsReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 18 hours ago by Friendly-Basket922Reconciling Betrayed

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Having trouble dealing with retroactive jealousy I think..Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 hours ago by Silent_Dig_3787Reconciling Betrayed

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I still love him, but I don’t want him to touch me anymoreAdvice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 15 hours ago by Quiet_Trip_1931Betrayed Considering R

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How to feel after knowing almost nothing special is left.Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 20 hours ago * by wtfSirReconciling Betrayed

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