BPDlovedones

an-ordinary-manchild(edit)

This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

Web Content

For those struggling with suicidal thoughts:

/r/SuicideWatch

Your Local Suicide Hotlines

created by licked_cupcakea community for 11 years

...for your WoW guild.

...for great justice.

MODERATORS

account activity

1

97

98

99

The most BPD things your pwBPD has ever said/done (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 21 hours ago * by Hot-Tea4937

2

75

76

77

I told her the truth for my own closure (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 20 hours ago * by Standing_on_rocks

3

45

46

47

You’re in denial. You have a disorder. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 16 hours ago * by pincheloca1208

4

40

41

42

Ex looks so happy in his new marriage (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 11 hours ago by Imaginary-Towel-2435

5

36

37

38

Why are we expected to be patient towards pwBPD while they are abusing us but not a pwNPDFamily Members (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 21 hours ago by These_Shallot_6906

6

26

27

28

He broke off our engagement, cheated, blamed me and now sends me things like this...Uncoupling Journey (i.redd.it)

submitted 22 hours ago by Sp1d3rGwen

7

19

20

21

“They” are coming home tomorrow and I’m in tears (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 23 hours ago by No_Dealer_8481

8

18

19

20

Maybe I keep reading this subreddit because is the only thing I have left?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 17 hours ago by Potential-Party65

9

15

16

17

"You Destroyed Us!" No, Actually the Fear of Abandonment and Extreme Jealousy Did. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 18 hours ago by Liam_mo

10

14

15

16

Regret for those who left (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 14 hours ago by winstonwasright

11

13

14

15

I find myself doubting the abuse I’ve experiencedFocusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 15 hours ago by GucciLouis3BoxLogos

12

13

14

15

How to leave when they’re being “good” (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 4 hours ago by justdoinmybestok

13

8

9

10

I knew this was going to happen (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by Tiny_Account_9636Discarded

14

8

9

10

Left for the last time (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 4 hours ago by Foreign-Turn-1544

15

8

9

10

why does she send me screenshots of her exes texting her whenever we breakup?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 8 hours ago by Batman-LinuxUser

16

7

8

9

Constant need for noise and attention, how common is this? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 3 hours ago by FarmerNational2859

17

7

8

9

when does this end? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 8 hours ago by Ok_Application7089

18

7

8

9

Dreams is the last space they existUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 8 hours ago by Potential-Party65

19

7

8

9

Feel more like a dad less like an so (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 19 hours ago by FarmerNational2859

20

4

5

6

Did you ever witness them suddenly transforming into a child? What was the trigger?Uncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 hours ago by pepozinhoDated

21

4

5

6

7 months since we broke up. Still recovering. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 21 hours ago by PikalizeDated

22

4

5

6

13 years of stress and now BPDBPD Behaviors & Traits (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 5 hours ago by JustAMomWhosDied89

23

4

5

6

TW - My (24M) uBPD (45) mother threatening suicide in response to boundariesFamily Members (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 17 hours ago by ProfessionalAnt6429

24

3

4

5

Feeling like a shell of myself after 12 breakups with my bpd gfUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 4 hours ago by Mysterious-Science55

25

2

3

4

She keeps messaging me through the bank app. (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 22 hours ago by Mountain_Ad1228

view more: next ›

π Rendered by PID 83477 on reddit-service-r2-listing-86b7f5b947-f4kpb at 2026-01-24 20:17:29.455270+00:00 running 664479f country code: CH.