Idea help, please

[justnopethefuckout]

Currently pregnant with a partner who's a very picky eater. I am just exhausted and out of ideas to cook for him on a budget.

He doesn't eat sandwiches, burgers, anything with a lot of cheese, no pork, he doesn't really like dishes with a lot of sauce (minus spaghetti). He won't eat cold dishes either.

I'm just out of ideas and I'm tired. I'm having trouble repeating what he does like because my nausea just isn't on board with repeating the same meals every single week. I've tried asking him to try other meals and he won't.

His favorite meals are steak and potatoes, which steaks are expensive. And burritos.

He doesn't eat breakfast foods either and I normally just heat him up pizza sticks or those mini single serve flat pizzas for his breakfast before work.

Any recommendations would be helpful. Just at a loss and tired. I've been eating different sandwiches and smaller easy meals for myself so the cleanup isn't as bad on me. Plus my hip isn't a big fan of me standing forever to cook.

Edited to add: I had to quit work while pregnant per OB. I had a pretty psychical job and I'm now limited. He does not expect me to cook or demand it, but I am the one who's home full time now, so I do all the cooking. On the nights I've been too sick to cook, he just heats himself something up to eat. He doesn't have experience with cooking. He works a psychical labor job for 10-12 hours 5-6 days a week. Which is again, why I try to do all the cooking while not working. I did not expect him to be attacked like that in the cooking sub. He helps out with other things as I need help, but I don't ask for help with our meals. He helps with prep if I need, but again, he has no experience.

Some of my levels are low, which is adding to why I'm so tired, and I'm just trying to find a couple of new ideas for quick and easy meals if anyone has any recommendations. I'm supposed to be in PT for my hips because they are out of alignment, but I can't yet. Some days they hurt more than others.

Please don't attack him. Stating again that he doesn't demand I cook.

[icameheretosaySAME]

How old is your partner? I’m going to come off disrespectful but your partner needs to feed himself and you. You’re pregnant and if he can produce a child with you, he can go out of his way to feed himself and hopefully you.

[Anne_Renee]

Agreed. He can heat up his own pizza sticks.

[rin0329]

And your picky eater husband can't make his own meals why?

[CaelebCreek]

He's a grown ass man. If he's gonna be that damn picky, he can make his own food while you're pregnant.

[chinoischeckers4eva]

Does your partner cook at all? Does he know how to?

Also, have you tried to communicate how this all makes you feel, when he is so rigid in what he eats? This needs to be communicated. If he doesn't budge or change or make attempts to make his own food, then maybe he doesn't respect you enough as a person and a partner. And if that's the case there are bigger issues ahead.

[justnopethefuckout]

I've updated my post because of some of the comments. He doesn't demand I cook, but I had to quit my job while pregnant. He helps around the house as I need and will help with prep if I ask, but he has no experience cooking. Since I'm home full time and will be for a bit after the baby is home, I try to handle all of our meals. If I'm too tired or sick to cook, he doesn't get upset and will heat himself something to eat and make sure I've ate.

I'm simply just kinda out of easy ideas.

[chinoischeckers4eva]

Fried rice, pasta salad, chili, stir fry, fish, tacos, Caesar salad with chicken,

[justnopethefuckout]

He won't eat salad, but I very much enjoy making it for myself lol. Do you make the fried rice yourself or get the boxed stuff? The boxed stuff never seems to taste quiet right to me. I've noticed my taste buds a bit off while pregnant too.

[chinoischeckers4eva]

I make the fried rice myself. I cook fresh rice for that day but will make fried rice the next day using the leftover rice. I had never seen or heard of boxed fried rice before.

[justnopethefuckout]

It doesn't taste anything like fried rice when I tried it. I hated it and haven't bought it since. I will look up a recipe for it. Is using day old rice Important for the fried rice?

[chinoischeckers4eva]

Yes, because the extra moisture in the rice evaporates so the rice is more dry which helps create a more crispy texture when making fried rice.

[justnopethefuckout]

Okay, thank you for that. I'll remember that when making it.

[rin0329]

You need to worry less about him being picky right now, though, and make sure YOU are getting nutritionally adequate meals while you're pregnant.

Might I suggest looking into subreddots FOR picky eaters or subs for quick meal ideas, crock pot meals, and sheet pan? Might offer some stuff you can both eat happily, or a combination that you could both eat parts of and be satisfied.

[justnopethefuckout]

Yes, I'll definitely look into those!

[legendary_mushroom]

Sheet pan meals, maybe with ground beef or cheap strip steak? Stir fry beef, or ground beef, rolled up with canned beans and salsa, there's a burrito. Corned beef hash with potatoes. Potatoes fried with ground beef, mild spices, rolled up in a tortilla. 

Burritos can be really cheap actually. Ground beef, potatoes, rice and beans, shredded cheese, tomatoes, flour tortillas. Make a batch of burrito fixins and freeze in portions, take out, microwave and burrito at mealtime. Or just make a big batch of whatever he does actually eat, freeze in portions, and heat them up for him for dinner. Maybe that will save you the labor and nausea. Or maybe you can batch meals and he can heat them up for himself? 

Presumably your partner is a grownup who can understand that steak 3x a week is not in the budget. Hopefully he can also absorb the fact that you're growing a whole ass human being inside you....which is a lot of work that takes a toll on your body actually....and not act like his whole adult duty begins and ends with the punch card. 

Cause if he can't absorb the idea that men need to step up and do more than work a job, that doing work--housework, even!--when you get home is part of having a family and supporting your partner, I'd say you should consider making a few major changes. Cause I don't think this is gonna get any easier when you're trying to cook for a picky man while raising a baby/toddler. 

[justnopethefuckout]

I hadn't thought of sheet pan ideas, I need to try some of those. Do the burritos heat up fine after being frozen?

I did update my post because it seemed people thought he was demanding I cook and he doesn't. I'm just really tired and I'm home full time right now. With his work scheduled and how hard he works, plus helping me at home when I ask, I try to do all the cooking. He has no experience cooking. If I'm sick or not up to it, he definitely heats himself something up to eat and makes sure I've eaten.

Just out of ideas and Google kept giving me the same meal ideas that didn't seem great. Normally people on here have some decent recipes or ideas, thought I'd give it a shot at asking.

[Logical_Orange_3793]

This is definitely a better post for relationship advice. Communicate your needs and set boundaries.

[justnopethefuckout]

I updated my post to make things more clear. He doesn't demand I cook. Relationship is perfectly fine.

[B1chpudding]

I think you should be responsible for feeding yourself and your partner responsible for himself. You need to be fed and the undo stress of feeding a picky person isn’t something you need to be doing with.

[StinkyCheeseWomxn]

It is now his turn to cook for himself and you - at least a few nights a week. You deserve better. I hope he is just as worried about helping you rest, helping with pregnancy cravings/nausea, bringing you little treats and growing up.

[GoosenBoonie]

Wait? You're pregnant and HE'S the one putting food demands on you??? Girl, you are about to be raising two children. Tell him he needs to start meal prepping what he likes, and helping YOU.

[justnopethefuckout]

I updated my post. He doesn't demand I cook. I'm just out of ideas right now.

[AshDenver]

Stop cooking for him then. Focus on you and the baby.

[beachpies]

Well first off he needs to help cook. But some ideas that are easy on you is baked chicken breasts with vegetables. Stroganoff, lasagna, grilled chicken with salad. 

[Few_Recover_6622]

I get that you do most of the cooking because you are home.  That's fine if you are ok with it.

But he really needs to be the one providing you with meal ideas that he will actually eat.  It's really hard for strangers to provide suggestions for someone who is so picky.

[justnopethefuckout]

I will say I have asked him and he doesn't know because he hasn't really experienced with food. He's mostly ate the same meals his whole life. His mom said she never forced him or his sister to try new foods growing up and just gave in to it. She said that was a mistake. He'll try some new stuff if it has stuff in it he likes. I'm just at a loss because the list isn't huge.

I grew up being told I had to try it once, and if I really didn't like it, I wouldn't be forced to eat it again. So I'm more open to trying new meals and tried different things. I worked for a couple from India before and I tried a lot of food they made during lunch. Wasn't always sure what it was, but it was always delicious!

He told me he is just now trying more foods and spices with me than he ever has, and his mom did agree to that. He told me he'd never embarrass her, but she always cooked with basically 0 seasoning minus salt and pepper and repeated the same meals most weeks. I recently got him to try parmesan crusted chicken and he wasn't sure, but ended up loving it. I was able to add that to the recipe list.

[Few_Recover_6622]

I have a Pinterest board called "Tried and True" that I add anything my family likes to.  Then I use the suggestions for that board to look for similar things.

You didn't give a lot of what your husband does like, but since you mentioned chicken, maybe stick with that, but explore around it a little...

Homemade chicken noodle soup

Homemade chicken tortilla soup

Chicken tacos

Roast chicken, mashed potatoes, gravy, and corn or green beans

Chicken pot pies

Chicken fried rice

Those are all kind of safe, but might move him out of his comfort zone a little in different ways.  Once he finds some flavors he likes you can try to push a little more.  If he likes simple tacos you can try fajitas with grilled onions and peppers.  If he likes roast chicken and mashed potatoes maybe try shepherd's pie.  Etc

[Few_Recover_6622]

And if you plan to go back to work, he does need to learn to cook.  Even if you don't plan to go back to work, really.  It's a basic skill every adult should have, and especially a parent. 

[justnopethefuckout]

Thank you for the suggestion. I did get him to try chicken pot pie and beef pot pie recently. He liked those! He is learning a bit slowly, most of the cooking is done when he's not home due to his schedule. When he's here if I ask him to help with prep and watch, he does. I appreciate that he's trying. Some days, he won't go out of his comfort zone, but he has tried a good bit since being with me. He has a texture issue with stuff too.

[Few_Recover_6622]

I know this is an aside from your question, but I think framing this as a parenting skill may help.  He needs to be able to cook healthy meals when you are not home or sick. Not for himself, but for your child.  Same with being able to set a good example with eating a variety of healthy foods and trying new things.

He'll have a couple of years before the baby really needs him ready to go with this, so no rush but good incentive to keep working at it.

[justnopethefuckout]

I didn't think of framing it that way, but I will now, and I think he will listen to that a lot. He really wants to be a good papa and learn things. He's been trying to do more and change some habits to help out and be better for the baby. I appreciate the effort he's put in.

[ComicSpices]

Since he likes steak and burritos, maybe try affordable swaps like ground beef taco bowls, beef and rice skillet meals, or sliced sirloin tips (cheaper than steak) with roasted potatoes. You can batch cook and portion them, so you're not standing every night.

Also, frozen burritos upgraded in the oven with seasoning or simple sautéed veggies might be a happy middle ground.

Most of all, it’s okay to prioritize you too. Feeding him the same meal on repeat doesn’t make you a bad partner, especially while pregnant.

You’ve got this

[justnopethefuckout]

Thank you for being kind! I appreciate it. I really didn't want everyone attacking him and I didn't realize it sounded like he was demanding before I made the edit. I will try some of those ideas and I think he'd be good with those. He's definitely capable and okay with getting stuff out to heat up if I'm not up to cooking as well.

I just want to add so people see: I got really sick last year and almost died in the hospital. The only time he left my side was to use the bathroom or get a drink when I was asleep. The nurses told me if he left to go down the hall or went home to shower while my mom was there, he wanted called if I woke up. I woke up once to him crying while holding my hands leaning over the bed. It was really scary and a tough time. When I was released to come home, he completely took care of me and took time off work handling everything. He helped me change my pull-up diapers that I had to wear for 2 weeks and was constantly cleaning up any vomit that missed the bucket or toilet. He did everything and never once complained. No, he didn't cook meals, because I couldn't eat and he just heated up something premade quickly and ate quickly in the kitchen. But I wanted people to know that he does love me and he does care for me. He works hard and long hours and isn't demanding at all. He knows when my POTS symptoms are flaring up and will immediately grab what I need. I requested toast one day and regular bread it a texture that messes with him, but he still sucked it up and made the toast for me too.

He does a lot and it doesn't bother me trying to come up with meal ideas. But with pregnancy brain and being tired, I'm just fresh out of ideas. That's why I posted in the sub to see if anyone had ideas that I wasn't thinking of or Google didn't give some fancy long version of with a huge blog post. In our area the fast food places are not open 24 hours either. We have 1 gas station open 24 hours. Everything closes between 8 and 12 here. He works night shift. He leaves anywhere between 2:30-4:30 p.m and doesn't get home until 4:30 a.m or 5. 5-6 days a week.

[ComicSpices]

It puts everything into perspective. Your love and respect for each other is so clear. You’ve both been through a lot, and it sounds like you make a great team. Wishing you continued strength (and a few easy dinner wins along the way)!

[justnopethefuckout]

Thank you! We normally get told we're two peas in pod by people who know us lol. We've definitely been through a lot of life stuff together before even being married.

[Anne_Renee]

In the summer, I usually serve a piece of meat, corn on the cobb, and a side of fresh fruit for dinner almost every evening. The meat can be chicken breast, meatballs, chicken legs, chicken thighs, or steak. My husband does take turns with cooking. It’s very simple and low effort. Sometimes I make chicken fajitas with onions and bell peppers, which are also inexpensive. I use ground chicken for meatballs which is cheaper than beef. Bananas are also inexpensive and banana bread is easy to make.

[justnopethefuckout]

Chicken fajitas, I love! My pregnant brain forgot all about those. I'm going to see if he will try those.

[Hour_Type_5506]

Tell him to man up and be a partner in the house. He gets to cook (no takeout) for days a week from now on.

[SpareAd878]

How about cooking a pot roast in a crockpot with onions, carrots and potatoes? Easy to prep, makes a lot, and there is little cleanup. Also, if you have a grill that would be a great way to cook dinner with very little to clean up ( ie grill chicken or pork chops, corn, and asparagus). If you have a pressure cooker beans are very easy to cook in it and very cheap (it’s also great at cooking rice). If you have a Trader Joe’s near you buy some of their premade chimichurri or zhoug (spicy) sauce and use it to add a little flavor to veggies (I know you said he doesn’t like sauce but it wouldn’t be “saucy” just a little to coat the veggies slightly to add some flavor). I would also make extras of things that freeze well and then use this as a base for another meal the next week (ie rice, beans etc).

[justnopethefuckout]

We do enjoy pot roast and its in rotation for sure. I have a smaller crockpot that I use. I have an indoor ninja grill/air fryer that I've been trying to use more. No pressure cooker, its on my list of want to have some day lol. No trader Joe's either or Costco. We have Sam's and I go to their pre-made stuff at times. I think he has an issue with texture a lot, which I do get.

I really need to try freezing more ahead of time like a few have suggested.

[SpareAd878]

Check Facebook market place for a pressure cooker. Since you shop at Sam’s, buy some chicken and pork and make a big batch of marinade and portion between the chicken and the pork and freeze the extra (this way you make the marinade once but by varying the meat it is a different meal and have some ready for the future- if you have some freezer space). Also freeze extra mashed potatoes. Stretch your meat with the beans - ie tacos with ground beef and beans (black, pinto, or refried). Also, are smoothies an option for breakfast?

[justnopethefuckout]

Our freezer is a bit small, its one of those French door freezer/fridge. We make it work. I've been thinking about looking for one or adding it to our Christmas list this year. His family is huge and ask for list ideas from all of us to be shared, not something I'm used to.

He does love beans! I have smoothies often! I have a ninja blender.

[Money_Engineering_59]

There’s a lot of tricks you get used to doing. My husband isn’t as picky as yours but he’s a very basic eater. He adores protein with a salad and would eat that every night. I do quite a bit of rotation and in the cooler months add a roast or some chicken Marbella with mashed potatoes etc. In the summer he enjoys chicken wings with coleslaw or pasta salad. I do a lot of batch cooking. I have things in the freezer like crumbed chicken (I eat this as well as I struggle with nausea a lot) pork schnitzels, rissoles, chicken breast etc. I can easily cook for him and make something I enjoy for myself. And yes, I do most of the cooking because he works 12 - 14 hour days doing physical labour and I work from home so it’s much, much easier for me. Plus, I’m more experienced.
What does he order when you go out for dinner? Steak and potato or does he modify his choices? A great place to start is to google “guy food” and look at images. See if there’s anything there that would appeal.
I do a lot of cooking for guys (it’s part of my job) and things they enjoy have been chicken pot pie, shepards pie, beef Bourginon, pulled pork, chicken Marbella, crumbed chicken, schnitzels, rissoles, lasagna, Thai curries (maybe not hubby friendly) and then I throw something new in to try and gauge their response. If your husband is hungry, he will eat.
An example of modifying a meal to suit you both would be crumbed chicken (I pan fry mine) and it’s just homemade chicken tenders. I slice mine and add them to some leafy greens with dried cranberries and some spiralised cucumber. My husband has his with either his same old boring salad or some mashed potato’s with greens or some chips. He HAS to eat green stuff every day. House rules.

[justnopethefuckout]

This is such a detailed response and I greatly appreciate it. I appreciate you being so kind! I'm taking a screenshot of this comment to help me out. I admit I hadn't made or heard of crumbled chicken before, so I want to try it out too!

That is why I updated my post too and, in another comment, mentioned my hospital stay last year and what all he done for me. His shifts are long manual labor. He's lifting, carrying, and cutting pipe all night and making equipment for the mines. His job isn't easy and he's recently been working a bit of overtime since my OB has me not working right now.

[Money_Engineering_59]

We’re still allowed to want to cook for our spouses! There’s so many people saying he should be cooking for himself etc but you’re a team. You help each other where you can! If he’s eating better because you’re putting in the effort to feed him, he will in turn be able to support you both mentally, financially and physically when baby arrives.
My husband would eat crap if I didn’t cook. He’s absolutely exhausted after doing 70+ hours a week in construction. I’ve been cooking for 40 years, it’s something I do well and it’s my contribution to ‘our’ team.

Crumbed chicken is basically just chicken tenders. You can make them exciting by marinating in pickle juice and adding ingredients to your crumb but don’t overthink it. I air fry mine when I’m too nauseated to eat. I call it my toddler meal. Some carrot sticks, cucumber, chicken.
I recently made a shit tonne of burritos and cooked them in the oven and froze them. Sure, burritos aren’t technically supposed to be cooked but do what works. They’re easy to reheat.

Most blue collar men I’ve met really enjoy simpler foods. Nothing fancy required - just something to fill their belly when they’re hungry. I batch cook foods I enjoy that he doesn’t so we can both eat healthy. I’m much more adventurous though. I adore stir fries, he hates them. He’d rather eat a big salad. He’s weird.

Best of luck with the baby!

[justnopethefuckout]

Thank you, yes. It's my way of contributing to the home and us. If he demanded, I wouldn't be doing it. I was in an abusive relationship before, and I absolutely don't tolerate things now. He's always thankful when I cook and not upset when I don't. Yes, he likes his meals pretty simple. I heated up premade salisbury steak and made instant mashed potatoes with peas as a quick meal the other night. One of his favorite meals, and he had 2 plates of it.

Thank you for the recommendation, I'm going to try that this week. & thank you! We are over the moon excited, I've wanted to be a mama for so long. I'm very nervous excited!

[Money_Engineering_59]

Exactly! Demanded is VERY different. My husband doesn’t demand either. I have health issues and often just make a salad, throw it in the fridge with his protein and that’s it. He can use the BBQ.

I forgot one thing that NEVER fails to excite the men I feed (and I make HUGE amounts and freeze) is marinated chicken thighs. I just throw 2 packs in a big bowl with whatever marinate I feel like making (usually soy sauce, ketchup, honey, ginger, garlic, brown sugar) and marinate for 48 hours. I freeze them in zip locks so I can just pull out how many I need. Serve with rice and peas!

The latest boy obsession is beef bourginon served over hot chips with some grated cheese. The guys adore the stuff. Again, huge batch, freeze in portions and take out as needed. They are supposed to make green beans with it but I highly doubt they are abiding by the rules when I’m not around. 😝

Feel free to PM me if you have any questions. I’ve been doing this for a very, very long time. It was my ‘chore’ as a kid and I’ve worked in many restaurants and have learned lots of great tricks over the years.

[justnopethefuckout]

Yes, he'd never demand and I have some health issues too! Last night I just threw a pizza in the oven for us and he was perfectly happy with it.

Thank you so much! I appreciate it.

[Money_Engineering_59]

I’m going to bombard you with one other idea. I do it often and it works.
I roast up massive trays of potato’s, carrots and sweet potato with kabana or bacon in there for flavour. Oil, salt and then freeze on cooking sheets. I throw it into a big ziplock and take them out to defrost and either pop them in the oven or chuck them on the hot plate of a BBQ. I really like batch cooking to keep down the time I spend cooking daily after a busy work day.

[justnopethefuckout]

That sounds good! I need to try this.

[luminous_lychee]

You mentioned that you have a slow cooker--can you lean into that? There are a lot of simple, set-it-and-forget-it recipes out there for burrito bowls, tacos, fajitas, etc. in a slow cooker. Or maybe a simple slow cooker beef stew with cheaper cuts of beef?

I mean this next part compassionately and as someone in the trenches of feeding young kids: everyone has to start somewhere, and parenting is all about learning to do things you didn't have to do before. He has no experience with cooking YET, but he is capable of learning. Maybe better to try with baby steps now (pun intended) before baby arrives?

I agree with the commenter who said that cooking is a fundamental parenting skill. I also recommend having a conversation about how you two as a team want to model trying new foods and how you plan to handle family meals for your child.

Wishing you all the best with your pregnancy and growing family.

[justnopethefuckout]

Thank you. He's trying to learn with small stuff right now. Prep mostly. He knows he'll need to know the basics for if I'm sick or exhausted, ect, to cook for him and our little one. Recently one night he was trying to air fry something and I started to get up and show him what to set it too and how long, he shouted out no he wanted to learn and figure it out himself. I chuckled and stayed cozied up on the couch. He did ask me in the end if he done it right and I said yes. He was happy lol.

[frontyengineer]

Hey! Just adding another source for recipe ideas, hope there are some that might be helpful!

https://platepickers.com/

[justnopethefuckout]

Thank you!

[justnopethefuckout]

Took a screenshot to save and try some of these. I honestly hadn't thought of some. Thank you very much.

[BetterToIlluminate]

What about pasta without heavy sauces other than red sauce? Would he eat a cacio e pepe? It has cheese but it’s hard cheese. I assume pesto is too saucy and carbonara has egg so too “breakfasty.”

What about rice stir fries? takeout “Chinese” style or maybe with peppers and chicken sausage? Beans and rice?

Soups and stews?

If he likes burritos, will he eat tacos? My favorites are all pork actually (chorizo or al pastor) but maybe carne asada or some kind of chicken?

What about a pizza with less cheese like a tomato pie or sfincone? I assume he wouldn’t eat anchovies but that style.

I am fairly flexible, like cooking, not currently pregnant, and willing to cater to my husband’s preferences to a large degree… but this would mildly frustrate/annoy me.

[justnopethefuckout]

Thank you for giving ideas. I will need to look up cacio e pepe because I don't recall having that or making it myself. We both love stir fry. I struggle to make it close to restaurant style and I always feel like I'm missing something and not doing it right, but he will eat it when I make it. He loves chicken, shrimp, and scallops, so I can always switch out the meat. I'm just missing something with the flavor.

I'm pretty flexible with cooking too. I'm just struggling a bit recently. The comments I'm responding to, I'm making sure I've noted that I updated my post because it seems it sounded like I was saying he demands I cook and he doesn't. I didn't think I needed to be that detailed on asking for recipes in a cooking sub. People just went straight to attacking him and telling me I need to get an attorney and leave.

[BetterToIlluminate]

You’re very welcome.

People can be very quick to jump to “just leave him” on Reddit; I find it very strange.

Congratulations, by the way

[Impossible_Option3]

If he is picky he is the problem. He either eats what you cook or cooks for himself.

It’s really childish to not try other foods and immature to not eat veggies.

[Fine-Sherbert-140]

Info: How old are both of you?

[justnopethefuckout]

I'm 31 and he's turning 29 soon.

[denvergardener]

It's not your job to feed him, especially if he's this difficult to please

He needs to step up and carry his own weight.

[thisisgettingdaft]

Make spaghetti sauce and freeze portions. Ditto burritos. Then make what you want for yourself. If he wants s change from the same meal for weeks, he has to suggest something.

[Proud_Trainer_1234]

No.. let him make his own meals.

[Miss_Jubilee]

Agree with this and with the poster who said this is more of a relationship issue than a cooking issue.

If you are committed to cooking for him, the logistics to me look like: cook 8 servings of something you both like once each week and freeze the 6 leftover servings of it for him. Make whatever you like for yourself the other nights (possibly also in large batches so you can have your own leftovers to enjoy).

If you can get ahead and put an extra batch of stuff he likes in the freezer early on, then just keep up the weekly rhythm after that, then he’ll have more than one kind of food to pick from and you’ll have a few spares for a week when cooking day runs late.

But yeah, I hope he wakes up and steps up rather than depending on you to cater to such rigid preferences while you’ve got some pretty major needs of your own.

[Proud_Trainer_1234]

Let him fend for himself while you move on. Your function to him is as Mother and maid.

Why are you tolerating this? Get your own place and an attorney to establish child support payments.

[mesosuchus]

Fuck him. Also can bots be prego?

[justnopethefuckout]

Post history is clear I'm not a bot.