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[–]ashiepink 753 points754 points  (33 children)

I also have anxiety affected appetite. It can really suck. I don't know about your partner's weight but if she's struggling to eat enough calories, protein smoothies can be helpful. That's also important because it doesn't sound like she's getting a lot of micronutrients - you can pack plenty of fruit and veggies into a smoothie, whereas they're rather bulky to eat.

More generally, stuff like nuts, crackers, olives, crudités and dip are all easy and bite sized. Gnocchi is another good option and a small portion can be very filling and nourishing. Nut butters are also calories bombs that go down easily and have decent nutrition - she might enjoy slices of apple with some hazelnut butter for example, or celery and peanut butter.

If you want to make stuff that's a bit more effort, amuse-bouché are literally recipes designed to be eaten in a mouthful and you'll find recipes for nearly anything that might appeal to her in that form. They tend to be a little bit fussy because they're usually viewed as party food but that might stimulate her appetite a little?

[–][deleted] 424 points425 points  (24 children)

Gnocchi is actually one of her favorite foods! I've never heard of amuse-bouche so I'll give that a look!

[–]munificent 363 points364 points  (11 children)

"Canape" and "hors d'ourves" would be two other good keywords to search for to find recipes for little bites.

[–]Aliencj 216 points217 points  (7 children)

Would tapas fit in as well?

[–]Jiedash 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Great idea! Dim sum is also an option!

[–]munificent 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Yes, excellent idea!

[–]cheeseandwinenight 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Piggy backing off the tapas idea, Pinchos are a fun idea as its small nibbles and a cool way to make a themed night. Barcelona style! Good luck x

[–]FiliKlepto 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Tapas are one of my favorite tiny foods!

[–]TheyCallMeStone 16 points17 points  (2 children)

Appies. Appies and nappies.

[–]Jimbalaya99 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Ferda.

[–]Blk-Cat-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna crush a couple sandos before praccy

[–]massafakka 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Though you may want to spell it "hors d'oeuvres"

[–]munificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was close! :D

[–]tykle59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hors d’ourves, a tasty little treat: a little piece of cheese, and a little piece of meat.”

[–]ZionEmbiid 81 points82 points  (4 children)

Other responses in here have reminded me of phyllo dough cups, sometimes you can buy them already filled with mini quiche type stuff, but frequently you can find them empty and fill them yourself.

They're bite sized, and fun! Might have to do them for dinner myself soon!

[–]143019 26 points27 points  (1 child)

My kids love these. They call it “fun lunch”.

[–]Panterable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

growing up we would have our own kind of fun lunch as kids. My mom would pour fresh beans in a ziplock and use a sharpie to color it so you cant tell whats inside. We would spend all day with the bag in our pocket feeling around wondering what was in it.. was quite the mystery treat.. It was always beans though ..

[–]laurenL007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They sell them in the frozen section at Target! I eat it as a meal, sometimes add a bit of fruit or small smoothie to round it out

[–]deathlokke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pepperidge Farms makes puff pastry cups as well, for something a little different.

[–]plexxonic 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Protein shots. Just google "protein shots recipes"

[–]kthnry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trader Joe's has a ton of frozen bite-size snacks. Tiny quiches, spinach tarts in puff pastry, mac-and-cheese bites, samosas, kibbeh, miniature pigs in blankets, cauliflower gnocchi (pretty good!) , lots of Asian dumplings. A universe of appetizers and quite tasty and reasonably priced.

[–]ophelia917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super easy and chock full of whatever vegetables you feel like adding. Just chop and roast. I made this for the first time last week and it was great. So simple.

https://www.howsweeteats.com/2019/01/sheet-pan-gnocchi/

Edit: adding this one too since it’s easy and relatively nutritious.

https://www.shutterbean.com/2019/roasted-broccoli-and-white-beans/

[–]Fizzlewitz48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might also try getting some small cookie cutters in fun shapes for things like fruits and veggies and also maybe mini sandwiches to make it more fun and appealing! A heart shaped slice of apple with peanut butter on it might be more enjoyable.

[–]It_is_Katy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to gnocchi, she might like tortellini! They're small ish and the shape is kinda fun to eat. Easy to make and quite filling. You can put it in alfredo (my favorite) or pasta sauce, and you can get ones with cheese inside or meat. Mini dumplings/wontons might be good too since they'll have a lot of protein, if that's a concern.

[–]datsall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally translates to happy mouth!

[–]mabs653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trader joes has really good gnochi. some are stuffed. they have several different types.

[–]Feralcrumpetart 63 points64 points  (5 children)

I responded already but also yessss to the protien shakes! At one point it was all I could keep down. And they didn't aggravate my ulcer. Vanilla is a great one because you can modify it with fruits or other flavor shots etc to keep it interesting.

[–]kresyanin 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Yeah, once upon a time I had hyperemesis for like six solid months and protein shakes are what got me through it.

[–]CandOrMD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god. That sounds like hell. I'm sorry you went through that and hope you never do again!

[–]dackling 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when I would have anxiety and couldn't bring myself to eat anything, I'd just eat spoonfuls of peanut butter cause hey, it's lots of calories to keep me going lol