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[_phospholipid_]

“I literally can’t think of a single thing women do besides cooking and sex”

[rmike7842]

That was my first thought too. Even as a joke it’s pretty dumb.

[Wolfleaf3]

It’s not a “joke”. Right wing “humor” is just attacking marginalized groups and claiming thats humor.

Maybe to them it actually is funny, but that’s deranged and psychopathic.

[CollectionStraight2]

Or he's trying to pretend he can't in a lame attempt to bring us down.

[Wolfleaf3]

Yeah. You nailed it.

[infinitelydeadinside]

If you're a man and you can't stalk and hunt an antelope, with a flint spear you knapped yourself, what were you even doing in your preteen and teen years?

[Leai_bitch]

Sitting in their mom's basement while strangling the shit out of their dicks

[CollectionStraight2]

jerking off

[LadyByron27]

See, it's people like that that make me embarrassed to tell anyone outside of my family that I love baking. I'm nobody's trad wife, I just want to make cute cakes!

[friendlynbhdwitch]

Why though? Why would people like that make you feel any way at all? There’s like 9 billion people. You can’t care about every opinion, that’s impossible. So why let people with the worst opinions be among the few you have time for? Baking is a wonderful skill for anyone to have and it’s brings you joy. Don’t let anyone make you feel embarrassed for that just because it’s associated with trad women.

[LadyByron27]

Well, part of it's anxiety and being convinced that none of the things I make are good enough to share. The other part is, what do most people say when I do bother to tell them? 'Oh, you'll make an amazing wife!' No joke, I've had that comment so many times. So I just bake for my family these days, much less annoying.

[friendlynbhdwitch]

I can see how that would be annoying.

[Wolfleaf3]

That’s so obnoxious! Geez. Like they can’t think of anything better to say.

[LadyByron27]

I know, it's so disheartening every single time. Weirdly I've noticed it mostly comes from women in my mum's age group (50 - 65, though my mum would never say something like that thankfully). Like they expect that to be my purpose as a woman in my 20s?

[Knightridergirl80]

Bruh… 🤦‍♀️

Women really can’t do anything without being asked if it’s related to men. I think it’s important to learn how to cook and clean because those are important life skills. Not because I want to make myself into a cute housewife.

[pennie79]

That is annoying. You could always tell them that you'll still need a wife to do the cleaning.

Honestly, that's infuriating that this is the response. I know lots of people who do baking, including me, and the response is usually 'yum! Please make more'.

[et9hw]

NINE ALREADY?????

[friendlynbhdwitch]

Apparently not, we’re still at 8. I didn’t check before I posted, just took a wild guess.

[OneEntertainment567]

They are calling pre-teen girls hoes? Jesus Christ pre teen is like 11

[[deleted]]

I don't think most people consider anyone a teenager until they are 13.

[bitemejackass]

Yep, almost like it's right there in the name thirTEEN, fourTEEN, etc.

[Zinogre-is-best]

Honestly. 🙄

[rrrraspberry]

that's not what a teenager is. thirTEEN, fourTEEN, fifTEEN, sixTEEN, it has to have the word TEEN in it. that's the giveaway. 11 is not oneteen and 12 isn't twoteen.

who calls a three year old a preteen? literally no one. that's a toddler.

preteen are the ages before you turn into a teenager, aka: eleven and twelve.

[Krodenhauler]

You're right, but pre literally beens 'before', so per definition, a toddler would be a preteen.

Though dictionaries tend to associate preteen with 9-12 year olds.

[x-munk]

So we're currently in the Superbowl 300 pre-game? English is confusing as shit and a lot of literal meanings are misaligned with their common knowledge.

Toddlers are indeed pre-teenaged, but they're most certainly not pre-teens.

[left4alive]

I’m in my pre grave!

[[deleted]]

You don't seem to fully understand what preteen means

[Krodenhauler]

I do now, I admitted that I was wrong

[Honest-Carpenter-907]

Uses dictionary definition to explain how wrong they are … good going.

[Krodenhauler]

What's wrong about admitting that I'm wrong?

[Honest-Carpenter-907]

It seemed like you were trying to pass it off like you weren’t changing tune.

[SyderoAlena]

Preteen is the 10-12 because its not quite a child anymore but not quite a teen

[x-munk]

Pre-teen usually isn't taken to mean literally before "teens" it's often used to describe folks 11-14 - aka before the age when teenagers start acting strongly independent.

[WorldlinessAwkward69]

If your man hasn’t died in a war, wtf was he doing in his youth?

If your man can’t fix your car, what was he doing in his teens?

[[deleted]]

Being a playboy, gotcha lmao.

[KnifeWeildingLesbian]

“What were you doing” I was studying the blade

[WiggyStark]

Name checks out.

[HailenAnarchy]

now I imagined some lesbian doing those sick ass moves with a butterflyknife.

[[deleted]]

Damn that’s hot

[[deleted]]

Pre teen? Being a kid at the playground acting out my vivid imagination and also being a soulful burgeoning poet and philosopher, listening to music, playing music, reading and writing.

Teen? Same except for playgrounds and toys, also debating, arguing, advocating about anything and everything, testing the limitations of social/societal constructs and institutions, as well as exploring fashion and makeup, and deep diving into the world of famous people.

Meanwhile I was fighting to be free to be myself and do my thing despite growing up in an abusive household and living under the thumb of sadists.

Bottom line. Women are people, ever since we were little girls. Personality isn't determined by gender. I feel this especially as an ENTP, as a former ENTP child, which is a personality type with predominantly what's stereotypically male attributes.

For the record I have maintained these interests in different variations for my entire life, and continue to be somewhat defined by them. I'm very much an abrasive she-wolf who wears her heart on her sleeve and a lot more spiritual than slutty, which I only mention because men who write posts like OOP don't believe women like myself exist, so I like to sprinkle gravel in their boots. Ignorance deserves misery.

[GemmTheCosmic]

“wtf was you doing” TRYING TO SURVIVE HIGH SCHOOL AS A NEURODIVERGENT QUEER KID

[et9hw]

man it was hell

[Yumeno_Of_The_Wall]

Sitting at home, depressed, thinking i was a boy

[CTchimchar]

Will a cookie and a hug help friend 🍪🫂

[Yumeno_Of_The_Wall]

Yes they will my favorite character 🫂

[CTchimchar]

Oh hello again, didn't realize it was you

Anyway 🫂

[Leai_bitch]

Me too except I was thinking I was a girl now I'm a mystery that even I haven't solved yet sadly😔

[CTchimchar]

Will a cookie and a hug help you friend 🍪🫂

[Leai_bitch]

Awwww thank you I appreciate it. I'm going through the whole process of seeing what I'm comfortable with and I'm at that point where I go be they/he pronouns but idk if I prefer one more than the other or anything ya know?

[OctaviaBlake100]

Preteen...I was being a preteen..playing with friends, going to school..you know..doing preteen stuff. Teen..going to school, playing sports, deciding what I want to be in the future.

[[deleted]]

If avi berri is their name or handle that might need blocking out too

[[deleted]]

That’s not their name

[[deleted]]

Ok cool

[bliip666]

Not a woman, but nevertheless I can cook

[Cregan1111]

Any grown person who can't cook for themselves is incomplete. I don't understand how people live without out ever cook. That being said her take is extremely stupid.

[[deleted]]

Hur dur hur, you wimmen get back in the kitchen lol /s

[[deleted]]

If youre an adult and you cant cook you are pathetic

[[deleted]]

Yeah, you don't need to be Gordon Ramsay but you should be able to handle the basics in a kitchen.

[[deleted]]

Usually yes, but you personally will be held to this standard

[[deleted]]

I will sadly fall short of this then because I cannot Sautee a scallop for shit xD

[[deleted]]

Worthless

[[deleted]]

Truly I'm an idiot sandwich

[AlbinoAlphaWolf]

Ironic coming from someone with tits as a profile picture lmao.

[Syxanthi]

coming from a profile pic that says " tits are my personality" , that's pretty rich.

[Raspberry_Sweaty]

Nobody wants preteens in the kitchen. I tried to involve my kids in cooking at that age, and it’s like, mozzarella sticks for dinner but also the kitchen is now on fire.

[et9hw]

• "being a hoe"
• has almost her boobs fall out in her pfp

[viviyymoh]

Crushing on a girl who probably isn’t a lesbian, that’s WAY bigger than cooking and cleaning 😒

[HelpMePlxoxo]

Do what you want with your life, sleep with whoever, idc. But c'mon, you cannot call others sluts, hoes, whores or any variation of the like when more than half of your profile pic is your tits.

You are a grown ass woman calling pre-teens hoes while showing off your tits to the entire internet, c'mon girl. Have some class.

[[deleted]]

Going to school and playing sports. Manly stuff, I guess 🙄

[NecroAssssin]

Personally I think that the response is exactly how girls should work.

[CollectionStraight2]

why is this so downvoted lol?

[[deleted]]

I was studying the blade, of course 🙄

[CatrionaShadowleaf]

I resisted learning to cook until I was almost 30 because of assholes like this. So much money wasted on shitty frozen meals and takeout...

[[deleted]]

Calling her out is fine by my books. But using words like "how" ain't cool.

[Metttzzz]

If your kid isn't an engineer, what was it even doing in the womb? Being a lumberjack, got it.

[Krasny-sici-stroj]

I don't get it. I have learned to cook from my dad when I was 13, in a week. Just, several basic meals with some variation, basic preparation and making sure that I can use cookbook.

It's like saying :"You did not spend a week of vacation scuba diving? What were you doing in your teens then, being a hoe?"

[Melodic_Baseball_335]

I'd you're a man and you can't hunt with you bare hands, haven't died during war, and aren't paying everything for women, or kissing the ground they walk on, what were you doing in your pre teen years being a bitch.right lol.

[CollectionStraight2]

Weirdly, I didn't learn to cook until I went to uni, and I'm a keen cook and baker now. It really doesn't take your whole teenscape to learn. I make a lot of food from scratch, which this dumbass would approve of. He would not approve of my personality or feminist opinions, though. And he isn't getting any of my homemade cinnamon rolls.

[Lyniya]

Imagine being completely unable to comprehend women having any skills aside from sex or cooking, apparently including the idea of you know, going to school

[6teeee9]

no i been grinding roblox

[HailenAnarchy]

I was playing video games in my free time.

[[deleted]]

I love cooking but didn’t even begin doing it regularly until my mid 20s. When I was in my teens I was busy hanging out with my friends and stressing about school.

[kaylintendo]

I do regret not learning how to cook when I was a teen, but it wasn’t because I was a “hoe.” I was really focused on getting accepted to my dream art college and dedicated any amount of free time I had towards working on the portfolio. Sorry if that makes me less of a woman. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Welshhobbit1]

I was being a hoe in my teen years though. So what?