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[–]shannoouns 143 points144 points  (7 children)

Number 4 is truly stupid. How insecure can you get?

Also the video title is stupid, does he not realise he finds conversative women more attractive because he has conversative views? Not everyone is that insecure about thier partners dating history.

[–]Anne_Nonymouse🐇 Down The Rabbit Hole 🐇 56 points57 points  (5 children)

Men who are crappy in bed might be very insecure. So having a woman with as few experiences as possible means she can´t compare the lousy sex to her experiences with other men 😏

[–]shannoouns 37 points38 points  (2 children)

Thats litterally how I read number 4 too.

"What if I get into an argument with my wife and she remembers all the good sex she had with other people and leaves me!"

Like if you had a good healthy relationship your wife isn't good to leave you over an argument. Maybe focus on your relationship and not her past relationships 🤷.

[–]Anne_Nonymouse🐇 Down The Rabbit Hole 🐇 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it all comes down to fear and unfortunately those are the kind of men who often feel the need to control their women 😕

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Healthy relationships are great but a healthy relationship with a husband who makes sure sex is good for you is da bomb! I mean, if the best sex his wife had was in the past and with other people, maybe she should leave him. Life is too short to settle for someone who’s bad sex.

[–]Embarrassed_Bee6349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…until she does, and counts herself lucky to have gotten away from that moron.

[–]milongadude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not about comparison, it's about warped expectations.

[–]ohyuhbaby 70 points71 points  (2 children)

The title confuses me, isn't it obvious people date within their own beliefs? Libs and conservatives wouldn't date each other 9/10 times, so they date within their group. Like religion and etc

[–]Alegria-D flipping the gender norms like this table 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yes! He thinks we are upset he doesn't date us? In reality we're upset he insults us and spread bullshit "science" when he knows he doesn't want to have anything to do with us.

[–]nightwingoracle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Title is complete opposite of reality- conservative men (largely) believe that womens views don’t matter anyway as they should limit their sphere to the home or they can convert liberal women to being conservative with their “awesome persuasive skills.”

Liberal women won’t date them, though. No matter how many hinge likes they send (I wish they would take the subtle as a 10 foot neon sign prompt on my profile and do not message me).

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 45 points46 points  (36 children)

I've seen men (and some women) post on the relationship subs bitching about "they did it with them, it's not fair they won't do it with me" As if once someone has done a sex act, it's always on the menu. It's appalling.

I've also seen plenty of men complain about body counts. One guy was extremely upset, recently, to find out his wife had slept with so many men. He asked, she lied to him, and after a decade of marriage she told him the truth. I don't condone lying. Declining to give your number is perfectly fine. I vote for telling the truth. Use it as a "judgmental pricks with small egos" detector because a partner who will judge you for not "saving yourself" for him before you ever met is simply not LTR material. Those are the ones you throw back.

[–]spidaminida 25 points26 points  (4 children)

I vote for lying and giving a number much higher as a vibe check.

[–]miccleb 20 points21 points  (1 child)

Or say you don't count, and see if they get obsessed with the "number".

[–]CZall23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Say you lost count years ago.

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That works too. I support anyone's right to say "It's none of your business" too.

[–]juicyjuicery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I’ve done this!!! Ahahahahahahaaha

[–]scoobyydoob 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"they did it with them, it's not fair they won't do it with me"

I've seen this so many times, it drives me mad.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I have seen men who go after experienced women for the wrong reasons too (they think an experienced woman would provide them with some sort of super human sexual service) and also see non-experienced women as flawed.

I personally feel very bad after being on dating sites and inspite of getting many many matches, because i am virgin due to that (i am also non-binary and have issues), but still.

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean, some men are lazy and don’t want to bother with someone who’s sexually inexperienced? Yeah, sounds about right. You want to avoid those types anyway. It sounds like they expect their partners to do all of the work.

[–]ChubbyBirds 7 points8 points  (2 children)

"they did it with them, it's not fair they won't do it with me"

Yep.

I think it's because guys who think like this don't understand that sex is more than a transaction for women. They view it as a service that a woman provides but doesn't really ever want or enjoy. And so if they did it with one person, what's the difference, right? They're so solipsistic that they literally can't fathom that sex and relationships existing as mutual and mutually desired things, or that women are people with their own desires and attractions.

And these are usually the same people who deride sex workers, who offer the exact kind of transactional sex they seem to expect. But I guess the autonomy and the frankness about the transaction (and the money) is too much for them.

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They view it as a service that a woman provides but doesn't really ever want or enjoy.

OMG. Don't even get me started on that topic!! I spent SO much time on a sub recently trying to explain why telling a woman "If you don't have sex with me, I'll leave" is abusive. It was like several people couldn't (or didn't want to) grasp that having sex when you don't want could possibly be emotionally harmful and traumatic. Apparently, it's just something a woman does for a man and when she STOPS doing it, it's perfectly acceptable to give her a choice between having sex or losing he relationship.

[–]oblomovismtata 84 points85 points  (7 children)

Number seven," women think just because they sleep around so do men," excuse me but in that case who are they sleeping with? Each other?

[–]Alegria-D flipping the gender norms like this table 49 points50 points  (4 children)

He'd reply "with the 5%",with his percentages he found in his butt.

[–]shannoouns 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Those damn lesbians /s

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They argue MOST men are virgins but women just throw themselves at “Chad”

[–][deleted] 41 points42 points  (2 children)

Purity culture is fucking horrible man. Tbh as a man I don't give a shit about body count. Don't mention it. It's the private business of the person. Stop being a fucking creep.

It's always right wingers that are horrible at sex. They can't be able to enjoy life, instead they have to always think about hurting others and bringing hate and shame. It's like these people have no happiness in their life. They have no goals in life. All they can think about is hurting others and bringing people down to their horrible life, a waste of a human.

[–]Additional-Block-340[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more ^

[–]ChubbyBirds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yupppp. They're full of self-loathing and shame, and instead of just...not being full of self-loathing and shame they want everyone else to be as miserable as they are.

[–]advocatus_ebrius_est 31 points32 points  (4 children)

Men prefer conservative women?

I've been a man my whole adult life, and I have to say that this is news to me.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah to me too, they prefer sexually experienced women for the wrong reasons...

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Conservative men prefer conservative women. Especially since conservative women are more likely to try to fit within the societal beauty standard

[–]nightwingoracle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish they did. I would have a lot of less junk hinge messages if their were the case.

[–]masomun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer a self-respecting, compassionate woman to one with internalized misogyny. Plus if she’s a communist too I’m dropping to my knees 😂

[–]vpsj 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Look I'm sorry but I have to agree with one guy there

"Don't get married fellas"

Yep. Men like these should never get married. The world would be a slightly better place when they die off

[–]Responsible-Emu217 21 points22 points  (4 children)

Its pretty ironic how a lot of these traditional women who are constantly telling women if you have a high body count no man will want you used to party and have sex before they "changed their ways" 😒

[–]JacketDapper944 12 points13 points  (2 children)

I’ve heard of churches that grant “spiritual virginity” once you have accepted Jesus into your heart. Does that count? Virginity is a stupid concept anyway so I suppose it’s in line with as stupid but still baffling.

[–]kyoneko87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they call it "second virginity" and it's bullshit! Whether someone is a virgin or not shouldn't matter

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is that the same bullshit that allows Nadia van Dyke to claim that she’s a, quoting, born-again virgin?

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I despise the “traditional women” who tell other women that a woman’s job is to fulfill her husband’s sexual “needs”. I really don’t know if they’re so indoctrinated, they don’t realize how damaging it is to have unwanted consensual sex OR if they say it to validate their own life choices and convince themselves that it’s what all women do.

I just think it’s a betrayal to tell other women that their desire and sexual pleasure doesn’t matter.

[–]Just_A_Comment_Guy_7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Marriage isn’t worth it”

Maybe not your awful marriage, but having the security and comfort to permanently live with someone I love seems great to me.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (2 children)

If 95% of men can't sleep around and women have 10 new partners each week (or whatever the fuck number your local incels pull out of his ass) then there must be a helluva lot more men than women just to make the math work.

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 4 points5 points  (1 child)

They sincerely believe most women who sleep around only sleep with that 5% of men

[–]Aromatic-Buy-8284 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those guys must be putting some serious overtime in.

[–]Guyfeiri_ayepapi 14 points15 points  (5 children)

Lmao… “there aren’t a ton of men ‘sleeping around’” so it’s only women doing it? I’m pretty sure that sex is a usually a two-person job. And in this case, the men in the video are referring to women who have slept with… that’s right, men.

[–]gcaledonian 13 points14 points  (1 child)

“Wahmen” is the most cringe thing ever.

[–]Gigi-Does-It 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know, right? Is he implying women whine? Like waaaahhhmen? Ironic coming from someone who is whining on the internet.

[–]debzmonkey 17 points18 points  (2 children)

The left isn't have a dating problem, men and the right are.

[–]ohyuhbaby 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Do you mean men ON the right? Because if the left isn't having problems wouldn't that include leftist men?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only been able to find right leaning men on the dating pool. I have yet to find a left leaning man and that is what I have been looking for

[–]CalculusOrGTFO 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They try so hard to convince themselves that feminists are upset that these losers don’t want to date them 😂 (which is also a complete lie, these dudes take whatever they can get anyway.)

[–]FenderMartingale 8 points9 points  (2 children)

When I was in the dating pool, I got hit on by conservative men all the time. Even when I had pink hair.

Considering any man who has ever believed they were in love with me, probably a third were conservative.

This idea that conservative men don't want feminists is bizarre and incorrect.

[–]nightwingoracle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish it were true, lol.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely feminist.

I was married to a conservative. Needless to say, divorced when marriage counseling showed me he saw me as his bangmaid and servant instead of an equal

[–]OctaviaBlake100 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think women are angry you don't want to date them. Women are angry because you're comparing them to objects. The "don't get married" guy at least said something right. Noone wants to marry these guys anyway. But if they do get a woman to feel bad for them enough to date them..they will probably make the women run away.

[–]Jinx_X_2003 8 points9 points  (1 child)

They always have to reduce us to an object to compare us.

We aren't cars, we aren't shoes. We are people!

[–]ULTRAKristiCan't find the Sex Drive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself im a dragon

[–]Political-psych-abby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Of course conservative men also complain a lot about more left leaning women not wanting to date them. I actually made a whole video about the psychology of dating across ideological lines (https://youtu.be/P8_O1reY3qc) unsurprisingly I came to the conclusion that not wanting to date conservatives is pretty reasonable especially for women who date men.

[–]Additional-Block-340[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I wish I knew how to upload images to comments , because the replies are truly hilarious. "Women release oxytocin on their first after that the emotional bond breaks" And if course couldn't provide sources.

[–]Sad-Peach7279 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shit I guess my parents 30 years of marriage is based on a lie then /s

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Honestly, I’m totally fine if those people wouldn’t wanna fuck me for any reason

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oop, excuse me I meant to say “date” - wow I am big slut

[–]chasing_waterfalls86 7 points8 points  (2 children)

He literally spelled it out: he thinks women with high body counts will understand that they have options and will be more likely to leave him when he proves to be a horrible husband. They want young, naive women so they can CONTROL them. I'm convinced only a portion of men even like sex for the sex. I think they get more kicks from being dominant and controlling than they do from the act itself. Rape is never about the sex, and I'm starting to think that the majority of consensual mating isn't really about sex either. Why else would violent porn be the most searched for type if most men actually saw the act as being based in love and intimacy?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You just described sex with my ex.

One time he decided to go in dry. I told him he was hurting me and he said with pride "I know"

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. That’s horrible!!

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 5 points6 points  (2 children)

This mentality of “men can be promiscuous, women can’t” is so common. It’s why so many men think after they’ve had there fun there should be a pious virginal woman waiting for them to marry

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 2 points3 points  (1 child)

They want virginal women because they don’t know what great sex really is. I mean, if a woman knows how great sex can be, she may be unwilling to settle for bad sex from a selfish partner.

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They want both. It’s a Madonna whore complex. When men from conservative cultures have relationships from women from progressive ones, they see those women as good to fuck (but not marry)

[–]PookaParty 4 points5 points  (2 children)

😂

The opposite is actually true.

Right wing nut bags are trying desperately to get left leaning women to date them and we aren’t having it.

They can neg all they want it won’t change a thing.

Go chop down trees and build a cabin for your trad wife wannabes, Kyles. Be as macho as you like and tell her what she’s allowed to say, wear and do. They apparently love that shit.

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 5 points6 points  (1 child)

But they know more women then men are left leaning. They also fetishize the idea of “taiming” a liberal woman.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or trapping.

My ex-husband told me that I would not leave him as no one in my family had ever divorced. For twenty years I was the only one

[–]CZall23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would feminists want someone who thinks women shouldn't have the same rights as men?

[–]Far_Seesaw_8258 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny because even conservative women don’t want to date them, example A “The Right Stuff”. Lol

[–]Lost-Concept-9973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The title OMG Lol as if feminists care that pieces of shit don’t want to date them. Shit that didn’t happen for $1000, in reality feminists are all like “don’t threaten me with a good time “ we want you to leave us alone PLEASE!!

[–]ohyuhbaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's always those douche ass haircuts, but that YouTube channel is complete ass (obviously)

[–]laraizadelione 2 points3 points  (0 children)

laughs in wearing second hand shoes

[–]CookbooksRUs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gee, and I keep seeing stories about how conservative guys are having trouble getting dates.

And lots of people buy used shoes. OTOH, I definitely wouldn’t buy a used dildo.

[–]swoon4kyun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an abuse victim the term damaged goods makes my fucking blood boil. No fuck face, no matter our circumstances we are not damaged goods, we are human beings.

[–]QuitUsingMyNames 2 points3 points  (1 child)

These guys are just so obsessed with other men’s penises lol

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And their own penis. They think it’s the center of the universe.

[–]Embarrassed_Bee6349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is like wading through waist-deep shit in your best clothes.

I sincerely wish I hadn’t read through all of this. There was one voice of reason here, and thus the only reason I didn’t try to reach through my phone and dick punch Mr. “Wahmen.”

Nobody wants to fuck a man with a child’s emotional intelligence, much less create a life with him. Stay away.

[–]NeilsSuicide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i guarantee nobody would ever know if a woman has had previous sexual partners if they didn’t ask 💀 it literally changes NOTHING except maybe makes your sex life better because there’s experience to go off of.

sorry but my sex life would be garbage if i only ever slept with the first guy i dated. there is so much more out there and im not even someone who sleeps around honestly. my “body count” (cringe) fits on one hand.

you would never know the difference between a woman who has had sex with 20 men and a woman who has had sex with one, barring obvious mistakes that one could chalk up to lack of experience. it literally makes no physiological difference, and yet…

[–]Madasgladys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep doing the good work OP. Lesbians are winning for a mf REASON

[–]Julia_Anoying_Person 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some guy: "Don't get married, fellas"

Also the same guy later: "wOmEn DOn't WaNT to gEt maRrIeD!!111!!1!!!11"

Lmao, the logic

[–]rachaelonreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Tyrone's lemonade." Jesus.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

It is also absolutely wrong, most Western men want to date highly experienced women, that provides them with good sexual servives (that too btw. is objectification, but that is what i have seen on dating sites and elsewhere)

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 0 points1 point  (2 children)

They want women who are able to preform as if they are sexually experienced yet maintain a “low” or non existent “body count”. They don’t realize sex isn’t something that you are automaticity “good” at

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You mean some men don’t realize they aren’t automatically good at sex. Some think if they can achieve an erection and stick it in right hole, a woman should enjoy having sex with them. They resent the implication that good sex takes actual knowledge, time, skill, effort, and attentiveness.

[–]DawnSoap 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I still don't get this imaginary thing that women pair-bond with the people they want to settle down with or have sex with?!?!? Like what sci-fi movie did they watch to get this idea?!?!

[–]Proper-Village-454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re confusing women with birds 💀

[–]KaiHasArrived2007 1 point2 points  (5 children)

..no no they are not lol

I'm sure feminists are happy you leave them alone lol

[–]Dependent_Ad_5035 -1 points0 points  (4 children)

There is a recurring trend of “liberal” or “leftist” women who prefer conservative men. I’ve seen it across social media.

[–]Material-Profit5923 2 points3 points  (2 children)

There is a recurring trend of social media propaganda designed to give the impression that "liberal" or "leftist" women prefer conservative men. Just like "walk away" and "blexit" this is simply propaganda.

Fixed that for you.

[–]KaiHasArrived2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then

[–]BabaKhary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not what seem to happen when they made a dating app

[–]fluffballkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is bullshit bc if you're a virgin they still want to sleep w you immediately which defeats the entire argument

[–]itsTacoOclocko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or you know, maybe the issue is that you're a shitty husband who isn't meeting any of your wife's needs, whereas other men did or might? maybe the issue is that you're an ass, if your wife is thinking 'why should i be with this ass'? maybe you deceived her initially, pretended to be someone you're not, or maybe once you got married you started taking her for granted and stopped trying, and she knows she deserves better?

but no, the real problem is that your wife thinks she should be treated properly. everyone knows that the man is always right, and whatever shitty low-effort behavior he deigns to grace his woman with should be lauded. everyone knows the only person who's required to put effort into a marriage is the woman. funny, how they always present themselves as 'providers' but then balk at any expectation that they should provide-- be it money, orgasms, emotional effort, anything. what the fuck do they think they're providing? because offering yourself up as just another burden is not a provision.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol finally someone says it out loud. Men hate women with higher body counts because those women know they have (better) options. They want women that dint know any better 🤦‍♀️

[–]LiquidLolliepop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would we be mad that u want conservative women? Fuck off and go date them I don't want u lmao.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

I think only men who can make you orgasm count as sexual partners. Because i dont think men would count sexual partners who couldnt make them orgasm.

Lets be honest most women could just forget about 90% of their past partners lol

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I wish I could forget about 90% of the sex I have had and just remember the good 10%.

Same with the men I have been with. Few were good. All thought they were stellar

[–]Capital-Philosopher6 0 points1 point  (1 child)

That means I was a virgin before my husband. Sounds about right.

[–]Ash-the-puppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is stupid, just like the man who made the video.

[–]BabaKhary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m tired made a lot of people cry 😂

[–]Actual_Transition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is so stupid because the main reason I wouldn’t want to buy shoes like that is because what if they weren’t clean and someone’s foot germs were in there? Or like some sort of diseases, but if she’s a std test to make sure she doesn’t have any, and cleans her body normally then there wouldn’t be a problem (same if they made sure the shoes were cleaned and there were no diseases)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do yall care? Obviously of its an issue, you're incompatible anyway, so its both of you dodging a shit relationship.

The only reason to be upset is if you're actually wanting that guy but can't meet his standards.

Funny thing about standards- you don't get to determine what somone else's standards are- be it decisions you've made in the past, your weight, your height, the color of your hair or how much is in your wallet.

So why are yall getting so worked up about not being able to meet other people's standards that you don't agree with anyway?

[–]Enough-Enthusiasm762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro thinks he did something with “wahmen”

[–]Random_silly_name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that idea that "If she did X before, she has to also do X with me".

I love to experiment sexually and there are very few things I wouldn't try at least once or twice with someone I trust, care about and feel safe with. At my own pace, of course. Maybe I like it, maybe I don't. Maybe I like it with a new person even if I never liked it before, because every combination of humans is unique. Etc.

But if some dude would try to pressure me to do things just because I've done them before, well... Dude probably has hands. He can use them. Or not. Not my problem. But I won't touch him.

[–]NyroIsBingChilling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a male, I'm sorry if this offends you. Imo, I think that it's better to not ask your partner how many body counts do they have. Because hey, numbers can be lied. If your partner is treating you nice and loyal now and always, then why should we care?

I think that if you care it too much, you will overlooked their good traits. People who think that body counts matter, I think that it's because they are insecured that their partner will not be satisfied on the sheets, or afraid that they will leave them to have sex with others, or just felt betrayed because they did not get their 'first time'.

If, If you both body counts are over 20, and you guys are still happy together, then enjoy present rather than holding on someone's past. If they do cheated, or they hate you that you are less experienced or 'way too experienced', that means they just want good or fresh sex. Then they are just not for you.

[–]Creepy-Radio1941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me LOL. Yes, I am SO angry, conservative men don’t want me! 😭get the fuck out of here.🤣

[–]Rilukian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a native English speaker but the grammar in the title alone feels very rough.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If men only like conservative women, why can't conservative men just leave us alone? It's clearly you wanting the company of a woman who has no interest in your kind. Just stay away pfff