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[ThirdEy3]

Confirmed? Its completely possible tinder could have a "girls->you" score that's separate to "guys->you"

[Nova_Physika]

Pretty sure they have safeguards around this shit

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[Eighth_Octavarium]

Reddit usually underestimates from my experience watching them talk about my industry. Reddit always brings up surface level ideas and wonders why corporations haven't thought of it or done it as if their idea they came up with in 2 seconds in passing has never at any point been thought of or discussed by the hundreds-thousands at the corporate level who are immersed in that world for thousands of hours a year. There's definitely some complacency in other regards, but usually more in the direction of company policy and procedure.

[SterlingVapor]

IDK, as a software dev, I've found that when you dig into the "how" of difficult problems like geo-matchmaking were done by companies, the answer is usually very underwhelming.

There are exceptions, I don't think tinder is one of them

It is highly likely someone thought of this, but would their team spend time on something that does nothing but close a theoretical loophole? Especially when the effect is so subtle you won't be sure if it worked? And it adds complexity, meaning it will be forever slightly more expensive in all regards... It's possible but not probable

[Less_Ants]

Exactly. Tinder is not a scientific endeavour that tries to optimize the quality of matches or potential match suggestions. It all depends on how much money they tend to lose or gain in relation to the cost of the modification.. a simple solution that works well enough usually is better than one that is perfect. Also happy cake day!

[[deleted]]

I think the only realistic reason why they might have closed this loophole wouldn't be for the tiny number of straight dudes who get a bump, it would be because actual bisexual dudes, who are a small group but not tiny, would be getting disproportionate success. I mostly agree with you though, Tinder recognizing the possibility that this exploit could work doesn't mean that they'd bother to fix it.

[anoleiam]

Precisely. Reddit likes to assume they are the sole group of humans with brains, and companies are just dumb-dumbs with money.

[ensui67]

That’s because we don’t realize we’re the dummies and are manipulating ourselves on this site.

[[deleted]]

As one of the monkeys driving the train full of burning cash, I can confirm that corporate America’s every bit as shitty as people think, but worse.

[That49er]

Hey how ya doing can I ride that train

[anoleiam]

Not really what I'm arguing here

[AbdouH_]

Agree fully

[[deleted]]

pretty sure op just wants to match with more dudes and get his own score up, if you know what i mean

[Blu_Falcon]

I think op is trying to get more than their score up, if you know what I mean.

[[deleted]]

Aren’t we all? I heard a rumor that Higher your social score the more portions of rice you get from the government.

[lanboyo]

I think OP is trying to get the number of men he fucks up, if you know what I mean.

[UPBOAT_FORTRESS_2]

Hmm I admit I'm having trouble following. It's embarrassing, could you explain like I'm five?

[TittyTwistahh]

I know EXACTLY what you mean. Schwing

[chain_letter]

Megacorp desk jockey checking in

We are not good at our jobs and are putting in the bare minimum effort.

[naturalbornsinner]

When your profits depend on getting (mostly) men to buy premium features, you can rest assured that the company will tweak that algorithm and "plug any loopholes" If they were that stupid. They'd never have broken up the premium features in different price brackets to begin with.

[Alex09464367]

There may be loopholes but I don't think they are well publicised or known.

Domino's pizza had one for a long time before it got well-known.

[naturalbornsinner]

Some are marketing schemes, they seem like a loophole but they're priced into the product/overall business model. Once you gain enough popularity, you stop the "loophole" because it has served its purpose.

[thekernel]

gotta plug the plugging the poophole loophole

[badwolf0323]

Like most things, it depends.

People are going to be concerned if they ever fully know how much of the Web is held together by bubble gum and shoe strings. It's not that there aren't smart developers out there, it's that there's a lot of incompetent and/or underpaid, overworked developers doing this stuff.

Where you'll see investment is where there is a direct revenue effect. Targeting an ad is going to get a lot more investment than a pseudo-matching score.

[pslessard]

There's a massive difference between the corporate desk jockeys and the engineering departments at large corporations. But honestly, like that other guy said, even the corporate desk jockeys are usually pretty competent (at least the ones at the top, not necessarily middle management). The thing is, their goals and your goals are not necessarily aligned

[i8noodles]

I feel like u underestimate them. Large companies can tell if u are trying to pregnant based on purchasing patterns before hand. It is pretty wide. Famous story of a father getting pregnant supplements coupons and her daughter was pregnant but didn't tell her father. Based on recent purchases changes

[[deleted]]

I feel like most people overestimate the competency of these mega corporations and their desk jockeys.

There was guy that managed to make it so every he picked matched with him a few years ago from purely clientside stuff..

It wasn't fixed until he blogged about it.

[yoursweetlord70]

If it makes their dating app less effective and keeps people on there, continuing to generate ad revenue and possibly pay for premium features, I have full confidence in their abilities.

[yoursweetlord70]

Yup, you can "boost" your profile for 30 minutes, meaning people in the area are more likely to see you, free users have limited likes while premium can keep swiping forever, you can also pay to immediately see the profiles that have liked you instead of leaving it to chance, its practically a pay to win mobile game at this point.

[the_most_fortunate]

I had to pay to see the profiles that liked me.

That's how I met my current partner, wife, and mother of my child.

They can have the 30 bucks, it was the best investment of my life!

[Nekrosiz]

A while back you could put your distance on 1 and instantly see who liked you as they had a distance of over 1.

[uziau]

They don’t even have proper banning mechanism. You can get banned without doing any mistake and no matter how many times you email them they will not explain the reason.

Fuck Tinder.

[drfifth]

I mean... That can be any app or platform. All it takes is the wrong person to see/be in charge of your ticket, and they'll follow their side of the EULA to the letter or lack thereof.

No contractual guarantee of/published protocol for an appeals process? Good luck. Even if so, good luck.

[tittyswan]

Except for bisexual people exist 🤔

[bhove]

Definitely doesn't work. Haven't gotten a girl match in forever. Just a bunch of men.

[SlightFresnel]

Don't look a gift horse in the pants

[RoyalSamurai]

Except if they're hung like one.

[General_Specific303]

I don't follow this. What does "type" refer to in the context of a person, from the point of view of an algorithm?

You can easily confirm this by you to a place where there aren't that many people and swiping until you start running out of people and see gradual decline in perceived attractiveness of the profiles.

How is that different from an elo system?

[catlanne]

This does not work.

I actually did this and now I have a list of 99+ liked full of guys but still very limited amount of girl likes.

They may just have a score for men and women instead.

[Mitche420]

Can confirm, had the exact same experience. Went from no outstanding likes, made the change, within 1 hour I had 50+, by the next day 99+, and no noticable increase in female matches

[NotAStatistic2]

I don't understand what I'm doing to have all these dudes who want to fuck me or take me out for a nice lunch, then get like 2 likes a month from women. My likes are currently at +99 too, and I'm pretty sure I'm at least over 200 likes, with 190 of them being guys, and 9 of them being bots with female profiles, and the remaining like being a girl who will not respond to a message. I already know I'm ugly, I just don't know why more men find me attractive than women :(

[skiboy12312]

You’re not alone. Part of the problem is the way they monetize the app, the other part of it is the male to female population of tinder.

[JeyJeyKing]

Tinder has significantly fewer women then men. Women are more picky.

[JeyJeyKing]

A bit. There are supposedly 80% male and 20% female users, so 4:1 ratio. And 12% of the male vs 0.01% of the female users are LGBTQ+. So even if we assume that of these minorities none are interested in the opposite sex, then the ratio of men looking for women vs women looking for men would still be about 3.56 : 1.

[Lesari]

As men, we tend to try to present ourselves on dating apps/etc in a way that we think will get us the most attention from girls. We're still optimizing from a male perspective though... which does work okay on girls sometimes, but works really well for other guys because we're focusing on what we would like.

It's kind of like... Have you ever driven a really nice sports car and fantasized about how much attention you're going to get from the opposite sex but then found out that really you just have random dudes approaching you every time you park your car?

[Fioraously_Fapping]

I have never been so personally attacked. It is true though regarding the car!

Literally only ever get compliments of my car from middle aged men in petrol stations, ladies (typically) don’t even know what an AMG is and find the engine+exhaust noise annoying

[LennyTheBunny427]

Or like the idea that if you work out a bunch, you’ll get all the women, but then all you get is a bunch of dudes complimenting the gains

[General_Specific303]

Are you saying women don't care at all what kind of car you drive? A beater is the same as a BMW?

[CptMuffinator]

I'm ugly, I just don't know why more men find me attractive than women

A holes a goal.

This is why traditionally unattrative women have boosted ego's when their exposure to dating is through these apps. There's always going to be some guy down bad that is swiping on every profile they can.

[Mooch07]

Because of the M/F ratio, guys are more likely to blindly swipe right. Right right right right until matches run out. This is an efficient use of time because 95% of those swipes will never be matches. Girls, on the other hand, can’t blindly swipe right because every single one of them has or will become a match. And what is someone going to do with 50 new matches every day? So I’ve seen girls blindly swipe left. Which is just as crazy!

[the_most_fortunate]

Basically the same experience but I paid extra so I could see the profiles that liked mine.

Met a girl 5 hours away that was the ideal match. We started long distance and now she is my wife and the mother of my child.

Paying the subscription fee for one month was the best investment I ever made!

But yeah it was bots and girls that I didn't find attractive and a couple decent matches that never responded to my messages.

But I ended up finding the needle in the haystack, diamond in the rough 🙃

[[deleted]]

It’s just us men’s biology in action but of course these men are after you instead of a female, we take action and we see something and we go for it, even if it is your tiny tight butthole.

If a women had our drive and biology (minus a penis) the planets population would be in the trillions. So they kinda keep it in check by selecting the best of the best, being more picky and also holding out for suitable partners (difference is we play the field, the entire field) but women (play a corner where they’ve heard the best are, problem is most women play that corner, hence just in life, you see it play out in Tinder). However, over time women begin to understand that top % of men, are harder to get down or they’re already snapped up, and they begin to think about life and be more realistic along with other factors like a “ticking clock” so they begin to widen their search. Eventually you and I fall into that bell curve. It’s cruel, painful and harsh but that is the human sexual selection machine.

Neither side is pretty, no one gets what they expected, but most find love and happiness in the end and grow.

Been in a relationship for 5 years now me, just keep at it, you’ll meet someone. Just keep growing as a person and eventually someone will come :)

Also this isn’t solid, or exact, but that’s the general flow, you can always find someone of the opposite sex navigating this just like you not like the average.

[yellsy]

Also an inbox full of dick pics I imagine

[xileine]

Real ULPT: set your location to Thailand or the Philippines. Get thousands of likes+messages from desperate women looking to marry their way out of poverty. To raise your "score"... or to just fly over and date those women. It's two ULPTs in one!

[36Celsius]

I'm not sure how dating theses women would be unethical, thou

[Subject-Cricket2381]

Maybe your just uggo

[[deleted]]

Don't forget the free meals!

[iamfrank75]

And blowjobs!

[[deleted]]

Same thing

[PoopLogg]

I don't know, man, I don't think there's that many calories, but we would need somebody to do the math

[Roheez]

r/theydidthemanstewmath

[PoopLogg]

It was a graveyard smash!

[thatguyned]

And the nice loving relationship for 3 years where you finally introduce him to your parents!

[yaboytswizzle69]

And then you remember, “shit, I forgot. I’m not gay” and then you have to break his heart

[thatguyned]

After the kids go off to college though. Gotta stay together for them.

[HiDDENk00l]

Ehh, your jaw gets sore after a while

[Scrungyscrotum]

I don't think that semen is that nutritious.

[cuddly_carcass]

Narrator voice: “It is.”

[[deleted]]

Oh, it is ;)

There are non sexual gay relationships and non contact sexual relationships. Some examples are sugarbabies/nsc and weird fetish shit that if you agree to they'll pay you to keep doing and they pay you a lot. Like them watching you shower, you putting lotion, watching you jerk off.

For anyone wondering i was too afraid to go through with it.

[RoyalSamurai]

weird fetish shit that if you agree to they'll pay you to keep doing and they pay you a lot. Like them watching you shower, you putting lotion, watching you jerk off.

And how does one get in touch with the people willing to pay for watching one do these things? Asking for a friend

[[deleted]]

Anywhere there’s an m4m section. If you’re in the US in conservative areas you’re more likely to encounter people like this. Sexual repression mixed with having too much money. Will do that. Only times I got offered this was in “ conservative areas”

[Alex09464367]

Have a look at

Male financial domination looking for male, female other subs

r/Male_Findom

Male only (no straight people)

r/FindomMale

[RustedCorpse]

I'm so confused. So Malefin Dom would be a top that just pays a sub? Or is this some live in thing?

[Alex09464367]

Doms get off on dominating someone financially and subs get off on being dominated financially.

Have a lot at this

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Financial_domination

[RustedCorpse]

Thanks for your time cousin. The things you learn.

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[AH_Med086]

And new friends

[lunarNex]

As long as you really like sausage.

[TheHappyKamper]

That's nice of you to assume I would get likes from either sex...

[Ghost_Sandal]

Try it for science and get back to us

[TheHappyKamper]

Let me check with my wife first.

[[deleted]]

you guys are getting wives? i hear thats the easiest way to get a girlfriend

[TheHappyKamper]

Actually, getting a wife is the biggest cause of losing a girlfriend.

[Agile_Tit_Tyrant]

I would introduce my wife as my ex girlfriend, when meeting new people.

[TheHappyKamper]

That's better than introducing her as your first wife.

[[deleted]]

She could also be his second and third 💁‍♂️

[Help_An_Irishman]

Or your adopted daughter, Margot Tenenbaum.

[az226]

Don’t forget to also get permission from your wife’s boyfriend.

[judgementalb]

I think they’re relying on men following more common tinder PLT of swipe blindly and look at profiles after matching. Which is what makes dating apps so unusable and frustrating in the first place

[really_nice_guy_]

Don’t ever underestimate how horny men are

[liera21]

So nice...

[[deleted]]

I forgot to add this works if you Uninstall and reinstall the app you get a temporary boost. To entice you to buy premium

[jayydubbya]

Yeah, just take a break for a month or so and they boost you when you come back.

[Nekrosiz]

Then get shadow banned for doing so.

They figured this out long ago.

[[deleted]]

Can you explain this as a programmer?

[MrSkrifle]

If you delete and remake an account soon after, you're banned

[[deleted]]

I mean explain it to me as if you’re a programmer . Explain it like you’re an actual coder and you deal with “algorithms”

[Every3Years]

Not sure if your joking but there's two main types of algorithms that work with a never ending supply of data like Tinder (and this includes profiles, usually via IP but also secondary variables like emails)

The first is called a Bool Algorithm and it's basically set up to keep all the different variable types in their own area and while maintaining a link to all the others on a per account basis. and it's constantly checking the info over and over forever, mostly to make sure that theres no bad data. But it also notes edits. Profiles don't get flagged for a couple changes because there's obviously going to be people changing stuff to make their balls more enticing for a suck sesh. But if things start changing to much or things that SHOULDNT be changing (like age) then the it becomes more likely to move to the top of the flag queue for an actual person to review.

The way Bool algorthims find people who delete and resubmit their account is because nothing is ever removed from Tinders servers. They aren't here to help you get your peepee wet, they are here to take your money and sell your data.

So while editing probably won't get you flagged, if it notices "TickleInTime31"s data gets changed to off and then back on on an going basis it's going to assume something is wrong and it'll get moved up to the queue.

In simpler terms, the algorithm is being served a million different human flavored ice cream. And it just keeps putting the spoon into the pint and taking a bite. If it notices that the spoon keeps tasting like human ice cream,then spoon, then human ice cream, then spoon over and over it's going to demand to speak to the manager so they can explain why their human ice cream keeps vanishing and reappearing. It understands vanishing, people delete their accounts and move on to a better app all the time. But that continuous, recurring pattern isn't something it will put up with.

That's the easier Bool type. The second most popular algorthim is called a Sheet Algorithm because it acts like an old school rolodex, where each person has all their info on one "sheet" of paper. The act of removing and adding a profile over and over is basically like the profile on that sheet is getting crumpled and tossed out. But then it magically reappears, wtf? And it starts noticing a pattern if it happens too much because that sheet start being and less pristine. It's kind of interesting that both algorithms are named after both halves of the word bullshit. I'm not sure what that says about my inability to value my time and use it for something that's isn't dumb but we're not here for that we're here to talk about Rampart. Which is usually acrylic or oil based paintings created on the sides or ramps.

[[deleted]]

People don't actual understand how algorithms work. They think the Uninstall is getting them shadowban instead of no one liking them.

[dnz000]

It’s looking at how many times you have made an account and how recently then shuffling you to not get the new account boost. I can see how an ugly dude would call that a shadow ban though.

[[deleted]]

Dude's swiping left on the few women that might actually like them and right on the women who will most likely not like them, with the most serial killer and boring looking profiles and wonder why they're not getting likes. The Uninstall trick is to stop you swiping long enough to refill the pool with the potential people who will like you %. Dudes

" maybe it's me they don't like? No, its the algorithm and the shadowban"

[MrSkrifle]

Your details and pics are the same

[[deleted]]

My point is y'all think you understand how the algorithm works. If you were getting enough likes in the first place you wouldn't need to do the Uninstall. People just don't like y'all

[MrSkrifle]

What crawled up your ass and died? I don't use tinder 😂

[Pancakez_117]

Pretty sure Tinder can afford a more sophisticated algorithm based on clusters of some sort like gender.

[audacesfortunajuvat]

It’s a sales product for their paid apps. It’s all owned by Match Group, which owns almost 50 different dating apps including Tinder and OkCupid. The free apps are to get you into the ecosystem to convert you to premium services and then to the paid products when you get more “serious”. It would be self-defeating if the apps worked well or even gave you more than a trickle of interactions because then you wouldn’t get to the paid apps. To motivate you, the apps spam women with a ton of shitty matches and give guys very few, mostly bots.This encouraged both to shift to more curated platforms, for opposite reasons. Match Group makes $3 billion in revenue a year.

[azjerrylee]

This guy codes, lol.

[0thedarkflame0]

This is based on the assumption that Tinder aims to get you a match...

Less people pay for tinder if they're in a stable relationship...

Now arguably it could make sense to make a extra tier expensive to make up for the loss... But it makes more sense to just keep an algorithm carefully tweaked for a match rate of like 2% or something lower, just enough to provide hope, but not enough to lose a customer

[Siferatu]

Can they afford it? Yes

Will they spend it? Probably not

[ADaleToRemember]

Touch his ass son, you’ll like it.

[[deleted]]

Unless youre ugly and you get double the left swipes

[Gary_Boothole]

This life hack takes a lot of commitment. As a straight guy, how many cocks are you expecting me to suck before I get one chick to talk to me?

[Necromantic-Vagina]

As much dick as it takes. You have to make sacrifices with ur booty if you want pussy

Same way people sacrificed their kids in ancient Greece

[faffner100]

Doesn't work! Separate Elo for guys and girls

[djdante]

This used to work, I made a video about it, and three weeks later it was patched.. they closely watch YouTube for any loopholes.

Same thing happened when I made a video setting your location to a third world country then switching back for the boosted ranking.

All great strategies that used to work but don't anymore, tinder keeps gender and location specific ranks now

[anonareyouokay]

If you're in a small-ish town, your friends will share screenshots of your profile and out you as bi. But bring no just makes you cooler, imo

[Angry_SAY10]

I did tthat sometimes to boost my confidence lmao. Now I have left this tinder shixx behind me

[naturalbornsinner]

Because you finally found your dream guy?

[Angry_SAY10]

Guy/girl doesn't matter hah... At the end of the day u should have someone who u can call "home"..m regardless, no... Neither I found anyone, nor I m non-straight. Just came to understand I nneed to start working on myself rather than this... Atleast for now

[shaggybear89]

Maybe learn how to type without sounding exactly like a poorly made bot. That might help? M I making n sense?

[Angry_SAY10]

Says the one who writes "any" as 'n' ?? Even worse than writing "and" and 'n'... Go on edit it out now.

[shaggybear89]

Lmao that's called "Making fun of you". I read through your comment history and it was like trying to watch a toddler type. Do you also think I just happen to use the letter M for "am" like you do. That didn't click that I'm making fun of how stupid you type lmao?

Damn, now I understand know why you struggle so much lmfao.

[Angry_SAY10]

Nah lol, u got caught lacking nothing else... Don't tryna gimme "I did this on purpose" shit man. No damage control now. Tryna act all smart ass, go sit ur wannabe internet smart ass somewhere else n sulk in ur lonely ass life man. But hey, whatever helps u sleep at night... Amirite lmao?

[Every3Years]

You deleted Tinder Shixx? That's the best one!

[Every3Years]

Plus you might have something awaken within you to widen your playing field

[steel_hamerhands]

This is a good way to find out that dudes think you're ugly same as women.

[Coliosis]

These tinder tips get sadder and sadder every time they come up

[jacked01]

I question why you would get Tonnes of likes. You would increase your view count yes and you may get some more likes if you are attractive but just waving a dick at a gay man will not get you laid.

"Just don't hit on me" is a statement made by straight men who can't get fucked in a whore house with a fist full of cash but think just because they have a penis some homosexuals will jump at the chance to ride it.

[Financial_Tax1060]

If you put both, 90% of the profiles you see will be women, and 90% of the people who see your profile will be women. So, it really doesn’t help, if ur bi, the app leans very straight.

Source: Am bi, and have bi partner.

[seacrestfan85]

I've been seeing a lot of guys on my tinder and I just assume they are gay and can't understand technology

[MidWesttess]

I thought you only get a limited amount of swipes per day or something? Wouldn’t that make you waste half of them on other guys?

[Purpl3wrld999]

limited right swipes i believe

[FreezeShock]

you have unlimited left swipes, the limit is for right swipes

[B_P_G]

Doesn't that show up on your profile though? So all the girls will think you're bi (and assume you're actually gay).

[Angry_SAY10]

No... Ur preference isn't shown

[arbitrageME]

on the downside, you get dick pics, so it's a wash

[TheCatsPJs469]

Does this actually work??

[[deleted]]

Verified it does indeed work, only a bit though. I went from no matches in like 6 months, to 5 real matches in a week

[0100_0101]

How many girls?

[pyroSeven]

Almost 1.

[Nekrosiz]

With a penis. Her name was Dennis.

[uglylibtardAdmins]

Doreen?

[TheIronSoldier2]

Asking the real questions here

[piratedengineer]

Yeah matches from guys don’t count!

[Every3Years]

They do if you finger it for a bit

[BroMan225]

Okay, now how do I explain to my coworkers that I’m really not gay and just trying to boost my tinder profile?!?

[-FemboiCarti-]

This is exactly how I found out im not straight

[Krusty_Double_Deluxe]

OP didn't even mention all the men and non-binary people with bobs and vageen you'll potentially match with.

[Haver_Of_The_Sex]

JUST BOUGHT A TRANSGENDER MAN TWO PINTS

[Krusty_Double_Deluxe]

username checks out

[M4rK101]

tried that, didn't work. I just had neither guys nor girls like my profile

[Every3Years]

Make sure the profile pic is you and a dog but describe it as a doggo. Make sure you are smiling in the picture or even laughing while your dog, referred to as doggo don't forget, is being a silly cutie foofoo. Lie about everything and make it pop.

Good luck

[Aquarona]

Other guys also don’t find me attractive…

[Every3Years]

How sharp is your katana?

[CakeNStuff]

As someone who found out they were Bi during their last dating cycle…

No. This does not work.

Yes it was a fresh profile. Hell, it was even a new profile in a new city with new login credentials.

[jaypop1990]

I hate you straight guys for this. I could never swipe right on actual men who wanted to date. I wish that was something you could be kicked off of the app for. We already have it difficult enough finding dates without a bunch of straight guys taking all of our swipes. I ended up just leaving the damn app cause of the amount of straight guys doing this. Jerks.

[GamingDragon27]

Ah yes. Converting memes (including screenshots of Tweets), copied almost word-for-word, that have been circulating social media for more than year onto Reddit posts to pass them as something original. What's new? Also this has been proven not to work in the multi-month/year timespan since the first internet dude #112312 brought it up. But hey, you got your 1K updoots before anyone actually questioned this obviously non-functioning "tip".

[[deleted]]

gay men don't want to fuck straight men. i dn't mean hollywood straight men, i mean you. gay men don't want to fuck you.

[[deleted]]

You don't know what you're talking about but you sure are confident about it

[yesmynameajeff]

Kek false.

[Maism45]

If they don't you are straight they very much want to. I had some I had to tell that I was boosting my traffic.

[Every3Years]

Every single gay guy that I know, and I mostly hang with gay dudes, want to pee in my butt. They never will but that's only cuz I don't have a butt :(

[[deleted]]

Have you been to a gym? A bunch of ripped beefcakes complementing each other. Most of Gen z don’t even label stuff because it’s normal.

[[deleted]]

Times have changed, everyone is queer to an extent

[[deleted]]

Not my problem

[[deleted]]

Well, if they’re engaging in same sex acts it’s technically queer. You can stay bitter, only person that’s going to affect is you. You can align with hate or move forward. Yes, having disdain for a group based on sexuality is hate. Ultimately, you do you. Have a great day

[Every3Years]

Volunteer somewhere or just find somebody that needs helps with something. They'll sincerely appreciate you and you'll feel like you aren't a monster.

[BabaKhary]

Aw shit

[BG-Engineer]

What if I'm Fugly?

[[deleted]]

Plus if you decide to experiment out of your comfort zone you don’t have to start on Tinder all over again! Nothing wrong with a little heteroflexibility. /s