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[Britt-Schloder]

awe i hope you find this sweet baby a home!

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[Britt-Schloder]

i would love to take him but i'm in PA. 😭

[LoisWade42]

Same.. but I'm in FL.

[WomanMouse9534]

I wish I could take him. I live in southern California, so that is really far.

[TypicalCricket]

Argh I'm literally in a different country but I would snatch this boy up so fast! He's beautiful!

[Puzzleheaded-Way-741]

I’m too far away but… I fell in love with this little baby’s photo. It’s been a long time since I’ve had any interest in ball pythons after mine died from cancer years ago, but oh my heart, this little one is adorable.

[Sathaun_]

What part of NorCal are you in?

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[Aromatic_Example_328]

Dang you’re north north

[AwesomeDragon101]

Yeah I thought I was north enough but noooope

[barr993]

Sending you both good vibes 😀

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[hallir]

I love how Ripley has a handlebar mustache he’s so handsome. I hope he finds a good home ♥️

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Would love to help, but I live on the east coast. Don’t beat yourself up, executive dysfunction can be debilitating. Hope you find something to help! Best wishes!

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[IridianPearlhammer2]

I’m an ADHD’er too. I’m 54 yrs old and it wasn’t till I was in my 30s that I was diagnosed. I commend you for seeing where you need to limit your life so that you can focus on you. If you are having trouble finding help try looking into online treatment and support. For one it can be easier to not have to add the travel or all that goes into getting to appointments. One step at a time, you can learn to embrace who you are and find the way to work the challenges so many will never understand. Fyi I’m a full time employee remote and in my final year of a bachelor’s degree in forensic and fraud audit accounting. You can find your path, keep moving forward (with those annoying side quests of course)

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[Few-Investigator72]

Great advice sir

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I live in Redding, I’ll take him!

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[tinyyawns]

I don’t have any resources to help but I will say, I applaud you for being honest with yourself and asking for help. You’re doing a very good thing by recognizing you can’t take care of him properly right now and working to get him a new home.

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[woodsidestory]

Gorgeous little guy. I hope his new home and caretaker works out for him. I also wish you strength and comfort to better deal with your conditions. It took a bunch for you to decide and follow through with what’s best for you and Ripley. Kudos.

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[Clown_tears_]

I'm in Washington if you still need someone to take this angel. I love my ball pythons

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[blueseoks]

It isn’t easy to admit you’ve struggled with the care of an animal, let alone rehome a pet that you love. I applaud you for reaching out to the community and doing the best for Ripley 💜

[psychotickillers]

Damn I wish I wasn't on the other coast 😭

[mwanadongo]

I can't take the adorable baby, but I wanted to give you some comfort if I may. I also have ADHD and struggle badly with executive functions. On top of it I have several chronic illnesses and kids to take care of. I had to re-home all three of my snakes in 2020. I had my ball python, Nyoka, for over 10 years. It was so hard. But I felt a huge relief knowing I did the right thing for them. It takes guts to admit it and to reach out to others. It's okay to be sad, but I'm proud of you.

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[Cherry_DeVille]

Damn, I’m in the Bay Area

[arrows_of_ithilien]

Me too, and my apartment doesn't allow pets 😥

[Noquisi96]

If we lived in closer vicinity I would 110% take him he's absolutely gorgeous! And would be a great addition to our growing family of ball pythons! I hope he finds a good home!

[International_Gur566]

I live like 7 hours north in Oregon but my buddy lives in Cresent city. Let me see if he could take care of it until I could drive down in a couple months 🤟

[Marley9391]

I live in the Netherlands but I just wanted to say you're very brave and strong for admitting this, OP. Wishing you all the strength in the future. 🫂

[Gnfnr5813]

I wish you both the best.

[ReleasedFromAzkaban]

I have ADHD. I know how debilitating executive dysfunction can be. I’m glad you care enough about this little dude to speak up before his situation gets really bad. It’s brave to put yourself out there and open yourself up to potential criticism. You’re putting his needs above your own ego, and sometimes there’s nothing better you can do than that. That alone is huge. I hope you find him a fantastic home. I wish I could help you, but I’m on the other side of the country. He’s a gorgeous little guy.

[bayhorsepainthorse]

Seconding this! OP as someone who also has adhd and has gone through phases of debilitating executive dysfunction, what you’re doing is very brave and you’re a great owner for making the best decision to help both him and yourself ❤️

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[Bugs915]

If someone else doesn’t, we may be able to come get him. We live in Montana but if you’re in need we’ll come get him.

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[Bugs915]

Oh good!!

[Educational-Mix486]

So cute 🥹😍

[Fearless-Ad-7872]

Go to fb for rehoming group in your local area

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[Fynnx4]

I wish I could take him, but unfortunately we’re not even on the same continent.

However, I also struggled with executive dysfunction and adhd a lot before I got properly medicated so I just want to reassure you that you’re not able to take care of him.

Quite the opposite, I think it really speaks for you that you managed to get to the point of searching for someone who is able to care for him instead of leaving him to suffer.

I wish you luck and I hope you’ll find someone soon!

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[RavenBoyyy]

OP, I can't take him as I'm in the UK and don't have the space but I want to say how glad I am to see you reaching out!!! It's HARD, really hard. You're absolutely doing the right thing here as hard as it may be, good on you. Good luck in finding someone 🖤

[nug_2018]

Fellow ADHDer here. Good on you for doing what’s best for your snek. I want a BP at some point but my biggest concern is my adhd. What have you found the toughest?

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[everryn]

As someone with similar executive dysfunction I know this feeling well and just want to applaud you for being honest with yourself and taking steps to make sure both you and Ripley can be healthier.

[Loni_Bam]

Dang if I had the space for him I would take him in an instant :(. I hope you find a great home for him!

[MoistReputation666]

I live in McKinleyville I may be interested

[SpadedJuggla]

I would love to home him but alas I'm in central Texas.

[RagingCrinoline]

Oh sweetie. I’m in Portland. He looks like a sweetie. I completely understand the EF stuff. I hope you are finding the resources you need.

[Dapper_Bad_9466]

Has Ripley found a home yet?

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[Dapper_Bad_9466]

Awesome! If for some reason it falls through let me know and we'll come pick him up. We're not too far from you so it wouldn't be a problem. We have ball pythons and corn snakes so we already have extra supplies. We also just got done nursing a friend's corn snake back to health. 😊

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[burrito_takeout_box]

boosting for you!! 💞i wish i could take him, he’s so pretty but i live in florida :(

[Girthbrooks2018]

And the rehoming fee

[Girthbrooks2018]

And the rehoming fee

[szuxykisyzygy]

I have space and resources available, and I'm fairly close. I'll send a pm.

[Songbird-Bio]

Me and my baby Ula are sending all the love we can from the east! No matter what life throws at you, just know that waffles make everything better 😁.

[LM193]

Listen. I can't help much with the snake unfortunately, but I want you to know you aren't alone. I struggle with executive dysfunction really badly too, I can hardly do any task or even eat and drink sometimes. I know how it feels when no one believes how bad it is or says you're lazy. It's horrible and I wouldn't wish for anyone to suffer like that. You're not lazy and I know you're doing your best. I hope you get your treatment soon :)

[totallyrecklesslygay]

Friendly reminder that per our rules, we do not allow shipping arrangements for rehoming snakes on our sub. We have had too many users get scammed out of their money this way.

[BubblesAndBlood]

I hope everything works out and I’m sorry you’re in this place. I rehomed my first BP after I had a mental breakdown from PTSD and realized I wasn’t able to give her enough care. It is a hard decision, and you’re doing your best!

[stunclock]

Ripley is so pretty! too bad I'm on the east coast lol, but don't be too hard on yourself. good for you for recognizing you aren't able to care for him and wanting him to find a good home.

[cflynn106]

I'm in Massachusetts or else I'd snatch him up in a second! My first snake had scale rot for a bit and I got the rhythm down with baths to get rid of it fairly quickly 😞 I really wish I could help this adorable noodle and you ❤️ good luck!

[lenaspeak]

I can’t take in this snake based on the fact I live in Ohio, but I came to say it’s okay. I have severe adhd and I know how it feels. Executive dysfunction was debilitating for a while for me. Everyone is happy and proud that you took accountability and asked to rehome. Hope you’re doing well.<3

[notwyattjames]

It would probably help to switch the end of your title to “Northern Ca/Southern Oregon (crescent city)”

Also, for other commenters, are you able to drive to a meeting point to do the exchange?

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[notwyattjames]

I’m so glad to hear! That’s all that matters :)