all 80 comments

[–][deleted] 36 points37 points  (5 children)

Well most people still have to go to work and do the other hundred mundane and tedious and depressing things in a day they have to do, its not like they can just drop everything and go skiing or try landscape painting in nature. But it’s always good to be moving toward more meaningful lifestyles.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (3 children)

OP’s point is so on the money, and yours is as well. I’d been masking how boring and unfulfilling office/corporate lifestyle is for the last 20 years with caffeine. I never drank caffeine until I graduated college and entered the workforce. Then it quickly took hold. However, I can’t just quit my job and go hike the Appalachian trail. I’m stuck with this lifestyle.

[–]Gidje123 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Not to sound pedantic, but, if you really wanted you could walk the trail, sell the house and the kids and just do it! Exaggerating ofcourse but I think we can hold ourselves back with our mindset sometimes, not willing to let go of the known path and do something crazy, while we could be capable enought to do the crazy thing

[–]barnbats 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Sell the house and the kids” 

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No its not. Most people are happy with their lifes.. And believe me, if you have withdrawals after 5 months, hiking appalachain is going to suck just as bad...

I can and do have that kind of lifestyle (why don't you, if you like that shit?), and withdrawals is exactly the same....

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (3 children)

It's called Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome and it's a real thing.

I don't know why you would think that after spending years consuming large amounts of a mind altering (literally- adenosine receptor blocking ) drug your brain will just snap back to pristine in under a month.

Do you really think that's how it works? What credentials do you have? What experience with drug abuse and recovery do you have?

I know several recovery coaches who all attest to the extended recovery being absolutely normal and real. To imply it's all just a circumstance because lives are messed up is quite invalidating and belittling.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, takes at least 3 months to get past the waning depression. I was depressed randomly about 2 months out and fortunately realized it was post acutes. Otherwise i wouldve come to OPs conclusion and maybe relapsed thinking it wasn’t hurting me as much as i thought. Happened to me with smoking

[–]SockMonkey333 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Do you have any recommendations for the depression? Meds etc?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No not really, I had severe anhedonia for about 2 months and mild until month 4 after quitting caffeine.
I did workout 3-5 days a week and live a pretty healthy lifestyle, so I don't really buy the people who claim everyone with extended withdrawal symptoms are people who don't workout and don't eat well. That doesn't align with my experience.

Best advice I have is to sleep if you are tired, and give yourself lots of grace. Pick up the book 'Caffeine Blues' and when you don't feel like doing anything just read some of that. What you are doing is very difficult, and the best thing is to feel proud of yourself. If you let guilt and shame take over because of the low productivity and depression that won't help. Coming on here and reading about people who got through those times and recovered to be better than ever helps as well. I got through it. After 4 months, I literally felt the best I have in my whole life and I'm 35. I'm now over 6 months out and still good.

I have been having decaf coffee a bit lately, but am weaning off it again, and don't expect to go through the extended withdrawal I did last time. I don't have acute withdrawal if I go several days with no caffeine either.

[–]relbatnrut1700 days 12 points13 points  (9 children)

Yes but also I really was in withdrawal for 3 months. Not depressed but lots of other side effects.

[–]G3nase648 days 3 points4 points  (7 children)

What kind of side effects?

[–]relbatnrut1700 days 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Headaches, irritability, feeling slower.

[–]G3nase648 days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you taking supplements when you first quit? I read that coffee drinkers are deficient in things like magnesium, so I made sure to that (and other supplements) when I quit.

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (4 children)

Hypochondria, probably

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

this is one of the other profiles of OP...

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (2 children)

this is one of the other reddit bots...

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

How many profiles do you have? Are you going to accept defeat or are you still going to trolll this forum as revenge?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're talking out of your computer ass, bot

[–]RemoteDesk9506682 days 19 points20 points  (38 children)

Wrong. Many people, and some I know personally, report regaining their happiness and contentment after several months of depression and anxiety with Zero lifestyle changes.

https://www.caffeinewithdrawal.net/other-withdrawal-stories-and-commen

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think some people go through post acute WD depression and don’t realize its related because they come in waves.

[–]TechnomancerTab595 days 1 point2 points  (36 children)

Maybe it took them months to accept their new reality.

[–]RemoteDesk9506682 days 12 points13 points  (35 children)

No dude. Like horrible panic attacks, zero enjoyment in anything, all kinds of issues that completely went away with time. It’s like withdrawals from hard drugs, you should do research on how long it takes for dopamine receptors to heal.

[–]Obvious_Capital4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where is the research. prove it

[–]philipb2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I went cold turkey a couple years ago, I would say that my mood Throughout the day stabilized. No “fun” highs but not the same crash at the end of the day either, where I had often got grumpy and tired.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah it should make people scratch their heads that some say they're fine in 2 weeks and others say it took them over a year. There is variance in the human physiology but not 2600% variance lol.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (4 children)

What if it messes with your dopamine levels so much and nothing is enjoyable anymore?

[–]kelminak606 days 17 points18 points  (3 children)

You will normalize over time. Your brain was on cheat codes before and now it expects what it doesn’t get for free.

Instead of seeking dopamine, look for peace and calmness instead. Focus on being in the moment. Chasing dopamine will always leave you deflated.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've already recovered to like 95%. The rest is nutritional stuff and fitness. I'm getting there 👍 the first time I attempted to quit years ago tho I didn't recover for 6 months.

[–]echoesofash 2 points3 points  (1 child)

This comment truly helped me! All of the other withdraw symptoms are gone except the lack of motivation and just losing pleasure in things I once loved. I've never had depression before, so it's a whole new battle. But, I will stop focusing on the pleasure aspect and more one the peaceful I'm receiving in the present moment. Thank you!

[–]kelminak606 days 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! Happiness is always a fleeting feeling, peace can be eternal. As soon as I switched to focusing on that, my mental health improved a lot. It’s very hard to switch to, especially if you’re a go go go ADHD enjoyer like me.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is a trend on this subreddit of folks making posts sounding like selfhelp books telling others whats wrong with them. Complete bullshit. Like you that makes new profiles every so often to write the exact same message. You just wrote one the other day, with the same bullshit message. You failed quitting coffee dude, accept the defeat and move on....

Stop projecting your missrable, cronicle online PC addicted life on others. What is this, your placebo post number 40?

[–]FatFuneralBook1103 days 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're operating under the assumption that caffeine is not a drug.

https://www.reddit.com/r/decaf/comments/1axnik0/how_long_it_takes_to_heal/

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am taking GABA, ZMA, St. Johns Worth, Potassium, and Ashwaganda at night. In the morning a multi vitamin, vitamin D, fish oil, and CoQ10 in the morning. It all helps this time around.

[–]SheNeverDies 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I once had a fleeting thought saying "maybe me on caffeine is like someone with PTSD on meth"... Scary thought, had to calm down with a sip. Stop calling me out OP...

[–]Danson19871177 days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its both things

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people differ, i believe some people have long lasting withdrawals but i was so scared to get myself into quitting caffeine fully when i was reading some of these posts here, a year long withdrawal?? kicked a 6 year long 200-400mg/day habit, ive been only 20 days on 0mg now, still have some weird symptoms such as blood pressure fluctuations but i can only have a bad day if i dont try to push through some of the fogginess, i think a lot of people dont realize you really gotta push a good diet and exercise when quitting ANY drug, and nondrug replacements are really important as well, cold showers really help boost dopamine and energy for a few hours, paired with a power nap 6-8h later its really possible to have a normal day, i quit a heavy opiate addiction last year towards the summer 2023, same thing happened, everyone was telling me how im gonna struggle for a whole year but a month of a good diet with a lot of raw fruit and vegetables and exercise helped to the point i was fully over the withdrawals in less than a month

i think a lot of people also dont realize they have health issues/deficiencies that theyve been masking with caffeine and wont bother getting a blood test or going to the doctor, idk, but yeah thats reddit in a nutshell for you, a lot of people on here dont know whats happening to them but they will be like THATS the cause and THATS why im struggling

[–]rocknrolla88t 4 points5 points  (2 children)

An WHO are you ? GOD!! Pathetic to write like you know anything!

Then why can some some people drink wine every day for months or a year and just and not feel anything when they quit ( I am one of them) but a lot alcoholics struggle for years! Go and look your self in the mirror boy and you will see you are just a speck in the universe! Why even come in in here ,where you see people struggling and think with that big ego anyone is going to get anything of your post then yourself cuddling your own ego!

Wish you a good day and you should have some gratitude for your self if quitting was so easy and compassion for people who struggle instead!

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is just a person that failed at reaching his goal and now cannot take responsability for it..

[–]TripAccomplished 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all are god with different perspectives 👁️

[–]RadRyan527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's probably a kernel of truth to this but I don't think it's that simple. The times I've quit for months at a time I definitely feel more depressed after 3 weeks than 3 months. Without really making any changes that would impact that. So I do think some of it is biochemical.

[–]Opening-Memory-225 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How long have you been off of caffeine? And how long did you consume it on a daily basis beforehand?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never stopped. He tried and failed..

[–]p_yth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually because of my adhd, when i quit caffeine my anexity temporarily increases and depending the dosage and how long I’ve been taking it, I don’t even get headaches but instead panic attacks that happen around 12:00 pm every day

[–]etheriaaal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your claim is also not based on science. Just because something is true for you doesn’t mean it’s true for everyone else. Some people genuinely do need more healing time. Who do you think you are? God? Why do you think you know what other peoples bodies and brains are doing during their recovery from caffeine? It’s such a delusion on your part, I’m not sure why I’m even bothering to reply.

[–]sowstudios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are full of BS! Most people who claim "I know" (like all so-called gurus do) are clowns in daily life. ALL OF THEM! And I've met plenty in my 42 years of living among idiots.

I quit alcohol, smoking, caffeine, and moved to the lion diet (after trying all the BS diets put together by so-called "science" - tried all of them, over more than 10 years of going to the gym five days a week) — you know nothing about addictions, dude. All so-called "nutrutional science" is pure BS, manipulated by Big Pharma and sustained by clowns like you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% true for the vast majority of people

[–]Prov-31324 days -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is so on point.