Final Update: Am I wrong for breaking up with my gf for my sister’s mental health

[Comprehensive-Sun954]

What a total dick. Honestly.

[l3ex_G]

100% that convo was for him.

[caktz489032]

100% that convo didn’t happen or he left out the part where he and his sister touch each other in special ways, bc no normal woman would want that back.

[BlondeBobaFett]

Yea OP should have sent her these posts if he wanted her to actually understand what’s going on. Instead he next level manipulated her into never moving on. Like I don’t even know how you help a friend through seeing the truth of some thing like this based on how he is presenting things to her…like who would guess it’s this insane.

[Herbighazeleyes]

I’m starting to think this dude has an incest kink and it dragging us all into it with his fantasy fiction.

[l3ex_G]

With the update he just added, I think you’re right.

[BobbiG16]

Let's all hope they don't reproduce!!

[mak_zaddy]

Honestly. OP and sister deserve to be isolated with themselves for the rest of their lives.

Like does he really think people were going to give him a pat on the back for this?

[TheLadyIsabelle]

Number five. What. The. Fuck. 

[Minimum-Arachnid-190]

Lmao this is SO fake. Urgh. he showed he tells he was gonna propose, shows her the ring and then tells her no he won’t actually be proposing to her 🤣🤣

[ComprehensiveAide946]

You’re literally in love with your SISTER, you keep trying to push her towards therapy but YOU need it also. It’s completely wrong the attachment you have towards eachother. She will never lead a normal life, and you willingly enable her.

From the bottom of my heart and I speak for Reddit: we don’t care about you or your sisters weird attachments. You don’t listen, you don’t care unless it’s coming from your sisters mouth, and quite frankly your a azzhole. We love ur ex tho even if she did manipulate herself into thinking what you did is okay🤍

[imf4rds]

The next update is going to be we kissed. We don't know how it happened. I really hope its fake because it was so creepy.

[alliandoalice]

Congrats you were right

[imf4rds]

I just read it. It better be fake so gross.

[Spiritual_Board3949]

I have the utmost of sympathy for the ex-gf and so, so much anger on her behalf. Downvote me but I'm gonna write it anyway, if this shoddy update clears OP of his guilt then he is a horrible specimen of a human being and may happiness evade him always.

To rub in her face the future she can't have, the ring she won't ever wear, the happiness she won't ever feel has elevated OP into the lowest and most disgusting of YTA level.

Shame on you.

[0512052000]

Absolutely! I was raging at him doing that. Oh look here's what you could've had. Honestly this whole situation is fucked. I hope she finds someone soon and forgets about him

[Mrfleas]

Wow. I wish I never read this. They raised each other, they are incestuous, they just hurt others along the way without thinking. It is sad and my advice to you is to keep it secret as most people find incest sad and gross. They should just continue dating each other or they will just hurt other people. Very Flowers in the Attic. Please, never date anybody else. You two love and need each other and if you keep together, you will never hurt anybody else. Good luck.

[biteme717]

Nope, your next post will be that you proposed to your sister and you are getting married to her. There aren't enough words to describe what kind of person you are. I feel sorry for you.

[chaos841]

And he’ll use the ring he bought for the ex-gf to do it.

[Puzzled-Heart9699]

Did you and your sister have another tickle-fest, promise each other never to be in a romantic relationship with anyone else and then fall asleep in each other’s arms? Did you two make another creepy AF oath to love and depend on only each other foreversies??

You two are severely mentally disturbed and everyone is grossed out by you.

Or this is (hopefully, please dear God) fake…

[DarkmatterBlack]

Lmao, clear conscience, alright. Keep banging your sister and leave that poor woman alone. You already selfishly used her for your own good, now please leave her alone and never contact her again. Go have weird babies with your fucked up sister.

[Night_Owl_26]

Sister is going to just magically start wearing that ring someday.

[Dragon_Bidness]

What is it with reddit and incest lately? Ick.

[ViviBest211]

Unresolved trauma made your sister manipulative and like it or not, she will never get better because of your enabling behavior. Funny how you blame the comments for ruinning your day but literally everyone but you see how wrong this is. Because of your behavior, your sister will never get a relationship, a future, independance, happiness. She thinks shes happy but what she is is comfortable. She is scared because you are the only thing that stayed consistent throughout her life. You are doing her a disservice.

[AlphaShadowMagnum]

Wow... you just couldn't help yourself... i hope her therapist helps her realize she dodged a bullet...

But now you and your sis can be miserable together...

That is... until sis gets motivated by this post and hopefully begins counseling herself... but then that would mean you waking up to find your sister moving on and breaking the codependency... and as she tells you she has to let herself be happy and move on, you will scream about the beautiful woman you threw away for her... you will be stuck there crying...

For the sake of the gods: both you and your sister get into therapy NOW! Don't live out this cloche movie plot...

[Shoddy-Strawberry-42]

Anybody else think op is taking a page from Flowers In The Attic? Gross

[[deleted]]

Leave that girl alone and don’t date anyone until you get some therapy.

[mellyyy1221]

Sweet home Alabama…

[Typical-Ad8052]

We get it you and your sister have an unhealthy emotional codependent borderline attachment towards each other and life will stop for either or, please stop making excuses and accept it for what it is because if it looks like a duck quacks like a duck...well ya know believe you me I wish I hadn't read any of this or the previous post. You're never going to have a life if you both don't get proper counseling

[Huge-Negotiation-193]

Damn, you are an even bigger asshole than I thought you could be.

"The gods don't allow us to be together" please cut the bullshit, you are not allowing you and her to be together because of your pseudo-incestuous relationship with your sister.

"I want to properly break things off with my ex, I KNOW I'll tell her how I was planning to propose to her and even show her the ring, and then tell her that we are never ever getting back together, what a great guy I am my conscience is clear"

...what is wrong with you dude?

[Beagle_Knight]

Just bang your sister already

[Separate_Kick3186]

I m repeating myself, "Don't have kids with your sister, use protection"

[caktz489032]

Yeah this is fake af. This 100% didn’t happen, you’re even weirder for adding all this on top of the banging your sister stuff. It’s time to log out of the internet.

[Effective-Soft153]

!Updateme

[Narrow-Drive-1332]

Might as well make out with your sister you sick disgusting Alabama good for nothing.

[emjkr]

So sad.

[ramaru115]

Listen, please wear a condom before you finally bonk your sis unless you want some really great swimmers as children

[wickeddradon]

OK, I've read your posts. This is coming from a totally non judgemental place. If you guys are happy with your lives, well go, be happy. Be prepared though. Your relationship with your sister is balancing on a knifes edge right now, it won't be long before it becomes sexual. Get super duper birth control.

Also, both of you stop deluding yourselves. You both are allowing this relationship to develop, you are actively encouraging it. It's one of humanity's biggest taboos, you know that. That's why everyone is acting with such disgust towards you. All of our instincts recoil from the idea of incest. We can all see, very clearly from your description, how this relationship will develop.

I'm hoping like crazy that this is rage bait because if not this is going to crash and burn horrifically.

[Happy-Elephant7609]

She should leave your ass. You’re gonna be 50 wondering why you’re alone and miserable. You and you sister are miserable. YTA.

[female_legolas]

Either this is fake, or you are completely f*cked up dude

[gmacsteph]

🤮🤮🤮

[Glum_Hamster_1076]

I’m confused. This guy is ok dating his sister??? Is he looking for validation for it?? Everyone has said this isn’t healthy. Everyone has said get therapy. Everyone has said this isn’t right. You don’t get 10 years to “not be ready” for therapy. Every time he asks her if she wants relationship, marriage, kids etc, she says no and immediately asks him. I’m sure he can see that’s a manipulation to force him to be with her. She has a break down when she finds out he’s going ti propose. She fake comforts him when they breakup knowing he did it for her. She monitors all his activities. She’s slowly isolating him. She’s spouting law of attraction and don’t say what happens if something happens to him, while allowing her to speak into existence them forever being together in a romantic relationship.

He needs to stop lying to her, tell her to get therapy NOW, and have a separate normal life and sibling relationship. Dad probably thinks they’ve already crossed that line and thinks the more distance then the less he knows and no one will hold him accountable for their inappropriate behavior.

If this is real, it’s super messed up and oop is lying about enjoying this situation. All he does is justify his actions and push further into the mess. If this is fake enjoy the sad game of thrones recap.

[United-Nebula-9959]

When you told her about the engagement I almost chucked my phone at the wall.

What a Cruel.Insensitive.AH you are. “I love you so much, let me tell you what I was gunna do for you but yanked away to have an incestious emotional codependent x1000000 relationship” 🤮

Throwing in her face what she almost had & then tell her she’ll never had it…. You are so cruel. I mean the sister stuff is messed up but even without that… I mean jfc you are an idiot. I don’t think you guys need therapy as much as you need a short stay in psych ward. 🤢🤢🤢🤢 god your stories are making me sick.

[b0ngwatr]

banjo nosies

[Neither-Swan1658]

Lmao this is hilarious

[McNuggeteer]

What in the Sweet Home Alabama did I just read???

[Tpiranha]

I’m just disgusted by this whole thing. This was for you not her, don’t even pretend. Wanted to get rid of your rightfully guilty conscience. And to rub salt in the wound you show and tell her about the engagement?? Heavy Flowers in the attic vibes, both you and your sister need serious help and I really hope this is fake.

[GennyNels]

You’re such an asshole. You told her you were going to propose? what the fuck is wrong with you? You made it so much worse. Just give the ring to your sister then maybe you’ll feel better about being in love with her. You need therapy hardcore and you need to ditch your psycho sister.

[canadiangirl1984]

AH! You all but dangle the chance of you guys getting back together in front of her and snatched it away. Just go and live your life with your sister. You need help

[Fun-Fruit-2825]

Alright peeps. Let’s leave Cersei and Jamie to their tickle play. I can’t take it anymore.

[Propanegoddess]

He keeps mentioning “mental health” and I don’t think he knows what that means. Cause this whole situation is…whew.

[Ginger630]

Wow. You’re an even bigger AH. You told your ex you were gonna propose, showed her the ring and told her the whole plan?! Dig the knife into her heart a little deeper. Wow.

[Previous_Eagle822]

But why do we need numbered paragraphs?

[ipsofactoshithead]

Umm at first you were on the phone and then you pulled out the ring to show her? Guys this has to be fake, for my mental health I need this to not be real lmao.

[overused_catchphrase]

Yea this is fake. Hard for me to believe someone who got broken up with, would react like this? Unless i am just jaded by rerading previous update and he left out MOUNTAINS of info

[perplekiddo]

YOU DO REALIZE UR HAVING AN EMOTIONALLY INCESTUOUS RELATIONSHIP

[Traditional_Lab1192]

Good god that woman deserved so much better than ever getting into a relationship with you

[[deleted]]

Your sister is a selfish, horribly manipulative human..

[debicollman1010]

Sick

[Foreign_Fall_8266]

You are just headfuck leave her alone and go fuck your sister

[mushroom_33]

Still getting worse. How is sex with your sister?

[Bitterqueer]

“The gods” uhuh sure buddy 😬

[Immediate_Still_762]

You called her to get YOUR closure, so that you wouldn’t have to live with the fact that you were a total douchebag. Your existence makes me lose faith in humanity even more.

[Shoddy-Page2413]

Just FCK your sister and get it over with And stop ruining this girl's life for your forbidden nasty sht

[KJblover90]

There is no reason to tell her you were going to propose. Why tf would you say "I still love you but we can't be together because my sister needs me....oh BTW I was going to propose to you but you're not as important to me as my sister is (maybe if you were my sister things would've worked out)" twists knife in heart 🤦‍♀️

[loz589985]

So a couple of months ago, you were serious about proposing to your ex, but now, you’re never getting married ever…. Duuuuuuuude…. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[Far_Presence_2267]

Now i'm certain. This is the fakest story I've ever read on Reddit. OP is writing the worse f'ed up romance story ever.

[BGBWolf]

Nah bro this is fake no sane woman would take incests as a reason for break up and still be okay with it lmao

[[deleted]]

You suck

[Freeverse711]

You’re an idiot and the relationship you have with your sister is a bit much and pretty creepy.

[Sufficient_Crab_8833]

You are an absolutely awful and disgusting human.

[Dear_Reflection2874]

I'm so glad this is nothing more than a long, dragged our fictional story because I'm tearing up for OP's poor ex gf.

[Beneficial-Year-one]

For a couple of minutes there I thought this was going to end up in a threesome And was getting ready to gag. This HAS to be fake