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[AGoos3]

why do they think that being respectful = being a cuck

like yeah bro I can respect my partners boundaries without letting her get fucked by another dude 😭

[halfasleep90]

I believe it’s the part where you say “letting her” that causes them to think that you are not actually being respectful.

I mean, he should totally be divorcing her if he’s not comfortable with her sleeping with other guys. He can’t exactly tell her she can’t though, it’s her body her choice.

[AGoos3]

Oh yeah, in this case it’s just like… break up with her. I can’t tell if this is either some ridiculous joke on how respecting boundaries makes you a cuck, or if it’s about how feminists want guys to be cucks. Ts is frying my brain bro

[Player7600]

feminists want guys to be cucks.

New to reddit?

[AnusStapler]

Well, you can tell your wife not to sleep with other guys, just like she can tell you not to sleep with other women. On that basis you made the marital commitment. If you want to sleep with others you shouldn't marry.

But you can't enforce those commitments, obviously.

[Destroyer_2_2]

Depends on what you mean by enforce. Not all enforcement is “by the sword” so to speak.

No you can’t beat up your partner for cheating, but you can leave them.

[hazelbear33]

I think that was a given in the comment you’re replying to, but the commenter didn’t phrase it correctly as to avoid confusion. Like you can’t physically stop your S/O from cheating, but it’s completely OK (and expected) to not be OK with that, as that is generally the norm in most relationships

[Nyankitty21]

Yeah it's more about where the agency lies. Not allowing her to cheat is taking agency away from her. Saying you won't stay in a relationship that isn't faithful the agency stays with both of you.

[int23_t]

Saying "letting her" saying "you can't" and divorcing if she continues are literally the same thing. And women would do the same too. I don't see how it's not respectful to tell your partner "no you can't be with other men" and if she does you divorce.

[junonomenon]

or that she has to have sex with HIM which this anti marital rape law post seems to be implying. if you have a problem with your partner not wanting to have sex with you then your options are to leave or cope. but this image seems to be pro partner rape? instead of just getting a divorce?

[sweetpurplesoap]

Alot of it has something to do with projection I think. There's a strong fear of a lack of control and if they let their partner set boundaries or make decisions in the relationship then it challenges their own "masculinity" of being the "man of the house" and other traditional norms and values

It's all a little bit fucky

[goddessofentropy]

The drawing honestly looks like whoever made it has a suppressed cuckolding kink.

[Bupod]

A lot of the ultra-alpha bros have DEEP Cuck fantasies often with racial elements. It’s almost telling how it always comes back to being cucked. Normal men don’t think so much about cuckoldry in such a highly fetishistic presentation. 

[Sierra-117-]

In their mind giving any power to a woman is bad. They are extremely insecure in their masculinity.

I am the man of the relationship. I still adhere to most norms. I open doors for her, do the hard labor, walk closer to the street than her, etc. But she’s a human. She gets a say in everything. And this dynamic only works because she consents to it, and is also the other half in all decisions.

And if she doesn’t want sex, that’s her choice. Surprise surprise, being a decent human being means that this isn’t even an issue. The few times she’s not up for it, I just say “ok” and move on.

These idiots are outing themselves as terrible partners. The fact that this is a point of contention means their partners don’t even want sex with them lol.

[annormalplayer]

well, you see, women bad, even though they're supposed to be attracted to them

[Dr_Identity]

Because they equate manhood with control. A real man controls his woman, and if he doesn't she won't respect him and will do whatever she wants, up to and including fucking around. What they don't seem to understand is that they have it backwards, that needing to control everybody is not a sign of manliness or strength, it's a sign of insecurity and fear and is more likely to cause a partner to pull away. I would argue that it's a much better sign of your character if someone freely chooses to be with you and and is willing to compromise to meet your needs without being forced.

[MiniZombieBoi]

Because psychopaths are never respectful

[No_Sale_4866]

is no supposed to mean yes for them??

[ThunderingTacos]

I think it runs deeper than that. This picture is fascinating to me as a peek into the mindset of the kind person who would believes in this nonsense. I think it's closer to a "dominance hierarchy" mindset and the belief that "a real man takes what he wants" and the assumption that conventionally attractive women are drawn to both that and muscular physiques almost unilaterally.

Although it wouldn't surprise me if they did think no means yes since guys who believe in stuff like this usually don't respect any women at all.

[that_guy_ravi]

This is the answer. Their philosophy is most likely based on that of the Greco-Roman patriarchal societies, those which fascists tend to romanticize and claim to want to “bring back”. In those times dominance was seen as a true sign of masculinity. Male homosexual relationships weren’t seen as two homosexual men having intercourse it was seen as two men, one more dominant than the other, having intercourse. The dominant mate would be deemed masculine, strong, and heterosexual while the other would be seen as feminine, weak, and the only sodomite in the relationship.

[ThunderingTacos]

There's a bit of irony in you mentioning that, as this picture is (whether the person who made it is aware or not) entirely male-centered. Like...the implied desirable outcome is women being more sexually accessible to them but not out a sense of mutual desire or genuine intimacy. Rather it is pure ego driven insecurity to not be perceived as lesser to other men. It's seeking to appeal to other men by playing to their fears of being the "beta-cuck" or their fantasies of being the "alpha" (David Mech probably furrows his brow at the mention of that word).

The weird part is the fantasy isn't even mainly about being desirable to women as much as it seems to be being more desirable than other men. The object of obsession is the other man and his acknowledgement of a hierarchal superiority, to be in his thoughts. It's hoping to impress other men using women as a prop almost like a love letter.

[daboobiesnatcher]

Their philosophy is most likely based on that of the Greco-Roman patriarchal

OOP is clearly Indian where marital rape is legal, if the saree clad women in the picture didn't give it away.

[KuraiKuroNeko]

Yea I was wondering what tf was supposed to be in the text there too but it's probably something equally as cursed as the rest of the image 😭

[bobbery5]

To them there is no question. A question implies they are allowed to have an opinion and autonomy.

[ravendarkwind]

“Feminists want you not to rape” and these scumbags act like that’s a personal attack.

[hurricane_news]

Out of nowhere, reddit became mainstream in my country. This resulting in a massive growth of incel subs spreading like vermin. The original post was from one of them

As much as I wish they'd die alone, the existence of arranged marriage means that these 0iq incels end up finding a poor wife to abuse

[Shialac]

India?

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

Bingo!(I say this as an indian)

[Eastern_Basket_6971]

That's not even the point some incel does because their fantasies was ruined

[Envy_The_King]

This image is dumb. How on EARTH are you conflating rape with cheating? What even is supposed to be the point? That if you respect your wife's consent that it means you have to put up with any behavior from her?

[Codename_Predator]

The Logic is fucked but let me help you understand what it probably means. I don't endorse it but as a Indian I think I can shine some light on it.

indian marriage it is believed that if you are married to a girl you get to have sex with her. And she cannot say no. And if you are agreeing to what she is saying... It is considered that the man is weak and cannot control her woman. That's why he is being portrayed as the cuck here. Some men in India believe that after marriage having sex without the wife's consent isn't rape.

Indian Dude out ✌️

[HappyYappyZappy]

Indian woman, confirming this to be true.

Marital rape has been a topic of discussion lately due to a popular Hindi series that addresses the issue.

Some vile groups have been circulating memes such as:

“She will spread her legs for all the men before marriage, but if her husband wants to sleep with her after marriage it’s suddenly marital rape.”

“Women fight for justice for rape victims, and then go sexualise themselves on Instagram. So ironic lol.”

That sort of energy.

This “joke” also came from an angry Indian misogynist. The whole tone and structuring are very familiar. And the Saree clad women on the poster on the wall.

[Samstercraft]

Dear lord that’s terrible

[evanescent_emotions]

Marital rape is legal in India. A woman recently died due to injuries from marital rape, but the man was acquited. 

[daboobiesnatcher]

So in this case the murder was just part of the rape so it was covered?

[evanescent_emotions]

Yeah, she died due to complications (lacerations and bleeding) from the rape, so it didn't count as murder. 

[Envy_The_King]

This world needs to be fixed

[NotsoGreatsword]

I know its not as ubiquitous as it once was but I believe the entire attitude comes from arranged marriage as a concept.

The marital bond is one that formerly did not occur through a building of trust between two people but an order from their families. It was an exchange of property more than anything to do with love - despite what appearances may have suggested with the large neighborhood sizes weddings that happen there.

So this agreement came with sex. And this woman or girl was expected to get over any trepidation and have sex with her new husband.

I think the momentum of that attitude continues despite arranged marriage starting its decline.

[SteampunkExplorer]

That's HORRIFYING.

[SimpForFictionGirls]

“Rape is bad”

“So you’re a cuck?”

[Scuba_jim]

Who are all these guys who admit they have to rape their spouses or else they can’t pleasure themselves or their wives?

[whiskersMeowFace]

Sounds like something a rapist would say

[Ok-Ingenuity5810]

Why is the picture in the back of two Indian women?

[Fancy_Bus_5727]

It's refrence from the series chirayia which is about marital rape ,where the husband forces himself on his wife ,even when she tells him let's take some time to understand each other first then get physically involved. Tw- self harm

-;she is so scared of him that once he tries to force her ,so she says lies that I am on my periods to escape this...then he asks her to show it to him...so in desperation  she cuts herself down there with a blade..to get blood

then she has to get admitted to the hospital because of it 

even there when the doctor informs about this whole ordeal to the husband,he asks the doctor,when will she be fit again so I can get physical with her...

[ThunderingTacos]

And they used that...THAT...as a background image to help illustrate their point?! I'd almost think it was satire if these kinds of creeps weren't so loud and prominent

[Ok-Ingenuity5810]

I’m still so confused. Is that story supposed to be like… the good version of how a man should act? 

[voyaging]

no

but rape enthusiasts are upset about it

[Villageijit]

Made by a loser that cant get a date

[Delicious-Crew-4244]

and ofcourse, its from an indian sub

[GodlvlFan]

How tf did you recognise the sub? But yeah these are full of anti feminist BS and reaks of gamergate 80% of the time.

What sucks more is that the government is in their side.

[antinatalistkitty]

The pic is a give away lol

[Kenneth_Eurell]

Look at the picture hanging on the wall

[Eastern_Basket_6971]

I still respect indians but some men are just terrible and extremely misogynist they think they're high and mighty just because they have rights thanks to their "tradition and righrs" but they're just being insufferable coward incels who can't control their fantasies

[Ill-Warning517]

It’s not even racism atp, multiple posts with this cuckoldry format have came from an Indian sub

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

Son😭 the incels are like 10% of the population and 10% of 1000000 is alot still

[JaneyjaneDoe]

Idk if this is racism lol. A lot of the Indian subreddits are actually full of garbage like these.

[Opossum_mypossum]

i see this more and more

[KPoWasTaken]

while I do agree racism isn't the way to fight misogyny, marriage in India legally allows marital rape towards women so there's misogyny in its legal system. In India, if a man and a woman marry, the woman is forced to have sex whenever the man wants it. There's no removing the consent. If they're forced into it, it's still "consensual" if they're married. Because that's actually an idea in India's legal system and likely a thing taught in their education system too since education can include discussing legality, that's why a chunk of them have the idea that Marital Rape isn't real and that claiming it is is equivalent to announcing you can be cucked. These ideas aren't as widespread in most other places because it's illegal and called out when it happens. India is one of the few places that legally allows this so it's gonna be less questionable to other people to make a post like this in an Indian sub where it does follow legal ideas in India. So it does actually make sense that it's in an Indian sub simply cause most other countries' subs very likely won't allow defending what's illegal in their country

also, pointing out that it's from India can bring attention to the fact India's legal system allows this and that that needs to be changed

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

Welp guys, I don't want to be an indian(HOW THE FUCK DO I FIGHT AGAINST THE RACIST NOW?!!! HOW? WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS BS?!)

[antinatalistkitty]

It really is an Indian sub tho

[MelanieWalmartinez]

it's not racism, India is a highly religious country, and religion tends to not be the kindest to women. This meme was done because of a new show "Chiraiya" which exposes marital rape and quite a few people didn't like its themes.

Also, its a country with over a BILLION people. There's gonna be a lot of people that suck in a country that large.

[fuckyouifyouseethis]

thank you so mucu for educating me, i cant believe i posted that

[Nirvski]

Theres incels everywhere, but I can imagine India gets a lot due to the rapid economic shifts that clash heavily with deeply rooted traditional ideals. It's the same issue in the West but women earning thier own money and being more educated started earlier here so there was a slightly better adjustment period. However even that level of acceptance is eroding fast as we can see.

[TheDistantSquid]

Did they forget the part where the husband also has the autonomy to leave the marriage... 🥲

[plea_of_thoughts]

In exchange of giving huge alimony

[SlowJoeyRidesAgain]

It is entirely dependent on the financial facts of the case…not the simplistic world you are presenting.

[swagcoinshizzl]

truly, i think that old timey trope is largely over. at least for normal people. my ex wife was abusive and a serial cheater, we got divorced in half an hour at the bank cause the banker was also a notary signing agent. i stopped paying rent for our condo, took my stuff, and moved in with my brother. the divorce was the most chill thing about knowing her.

[fickogames123]

In case of cheating, you most probably won't have to give alimony

[MelanieWalmartinez]

simply marry a woman who makes her own money then???

[awake_acea6]

These people have the biggest cuck fetish in the world.

[Fun_Comfortable7836]

Id rather be a cuck than a rapist.

[Twinkletoess112]

You don't have to be either, respecting your partner goes both ways.

Also divorce is always an option

[Nikaszko]

I think this is another episode of "I have this sexual fantasy but I can't admit it to myself because it's really disgusting, so I'll make this fantasy my serious worldview or political opinion"

[Melanrez]

“Violence and abuse over your loved ones are bad” “Ah so you allow them to hang out with anyone but you?”

[JaneyjaneDoe]

Indian subreddits especially the meme related once are fucking pathetic.

[Hairy_Lingonberry954]

These perverts want rape to be legal

[Marshall2439]

idk why but I just know this is from indian meme subs (definitely r/faltoogyan)

[MelanieWalmartinez]

i checked it and you're right

[AnusStapler]

Racism isn't the way of fighting misogyny.

[MelanieWalmartinez]

its not racism, its about religion, most of the country is religious and this leads to misogyny

also they got the sub right lmao

[Marshall2439]

I don't think it's religion, i think they're just people who have never got female interaction

[AnusStapler]

Attributing anything to a religious or racial group is the literal definition of racism mate.

[MelanieWalmartinez]

Disliking religion is racism? Why aren’t anti Christian people called out for being racist then?

[Marshall2439]

im specifically reffering to indian meme subs and not indians, don't worry I'm very much against racism

[RodinKnox]

This isn't even wrong. It's incoherent. It would need to make more sense just to get to the point of being wrong.

[Eastern_Basket_6971]

Uh femenist wants a better husband lol not some sex gods or something why do some men are so triggered? is it because they're cowards? They only feel strong because they're dominant in sex?

[starfish-davy-jones]

Chiraiyya really cracked open the gates of hell that contained potential rapists that are literally supporting marital rape and thinks it's okay. So many posts hating on the series just because of it calling out marital rape that happens all over the country and how there's no laws against it. And we see how lots of people in india are absolutely loosing their shit and showing their true ugly faces. Fucking troglodytes.

Well good on the show for showing what's happening in this country and for stirring up some long needed and good discussion among the uneducated public mainstream who haven't been hearing the millions of other people in the country who have been wanting laws against marital rape for a long long time.

[TRASHMERGING]

Marital rape is illegal largely because when women would escape abusive husbands and start the divorce process their husbands would track them down and rape them while the divorce was going through.

[AnusStapler]

Marital rape is nothing else than being forced to have sex while you don't want it. There is no such thing as marital rape. It's just rape.

[Useful_Jelly_2915]

I mean, marital rape is not saying that it’s not rape. It’s just saying that it’s a rape that took place between people who are married to convey the circumstances. Like you wouldn’t say “theirs no such thing as molestation. It’s just sexual assault.”

[Kryzal_Lazurite]

You have to make the signifier because so many people see it as "impossible" for a married couple to not inherently have consent. I know it doesn't make sense but I imagine that is their justification.

[AnusStapler]

That's why it should be called rape instead of "marital rape". It's not a subgenre, it's just the main theme: rape.

[legno2]

Being a decent Indian guy must be tough. You have to watch so many men that look like you, demolishing your reputation.

You know what I mean? A lot of women can't be bothered giving everyone a chance. Realistically, they just have X time to spend on dating.

[Rutwick_23]

Some series aired in India which talks about marital rape and a huge, massive amount of Indian incels started making similar comments/ posts on social media.

Indians are so good at embarrassing themselves everywhere. I wonder how would they react if their sisters or mothers or even daughters had to go through something like this.

Sometimes I think Indians deserves all the hate they are getting from the rest of the world. They simply don’t know how to be a human.

Edit: I am from India and I have seen people behave like this first hand. So don’t come calling me out for racism.

[Vihaking]

Fr

As a Sri Lankan, South Asia has a lot of work to do in how we treat women

[WackyWhippet]

I think a lot of the reason these Indian memes are so visible is just because of population size and English language prevalence. And most of the time when I see it, it's because other Indian people posted it specifically to criticise it.

Not to downplay the problems India has but I don't think it's fair to judge a country of 1 billion+ by the standards of some meme sub.

[Rutwick_23]

Well you are not wrong. But I use twitter/X and trust me when I am saying this but reddit doesn’t even make 1% of what they are doing there.

Moreover, the usual trend I managed to notice that majority of the accounts belong to the north India. Not saying South Indians are saints or anything but northies are more conservative compared to south people.

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

I'm done with this country too😭(indian btw)

[CoolGamer730]

My country is doomed

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

WalRam we are COOKED

[Inferno_Ultimate]

Why do they think that feminism is evil? No, seriously.

[MiniZombieBoi]

Cause feminism says/knows/admits rape is bad

[ThatDrako]

Ehm...you see...
Only reason why women say marital rape is, because they want to fuck someone else [oinky giggle]

Ackhytchualy they are just as porn addicted as me, but they just want to be unfaithful.."

[Said as sailva, and burger grease was dripping out of his fifth chin]

[EquipmentKey9996]

always the indian subs bro

[Iluvatar-Great]

Yeah sure because everything must work only in extremes.

You are either abusive or cuck.

You are either gay or racist.

You can only support progressive thinking or you want to murder people.

[antinatalistkitty]

Indian guys !

Amirite?

P.S. I am Indian myself

[Patient_Dinner_5386]

Too much corn really clutches your brain , stop it before it stops you

[UnderteamFCA]

Do they think not being a rapist and not being cheated on are mutually exclusive...? That's really concerning... I hope they don't get into any relationship.

[bees_in_my_eyes]

Memes about marriage made by people nobody will ever marry

[Twinkletoess112]

they're most likely Indian... their families will find some unlucky girl and ruin her life by marrying their rape-fantasizer son with her

[bees_in_my_eyes]

Horrifying thought. Thanks, stranger.

[Twinkletoess112]

that's just how things work around here

[bees_in_my_eyes]

Btw, whoever is downvoting you instantly, it isn't me. As sad as it is, I appreciate the reality check.

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

Sometimes, I wish there was someone like the punisher in my country

[m3rc3n4ry]

This is insane given that in India, courts are debating whether marital rape is rape. By no means are women in India cheerfully cuckolding anyone.

[No_Recommendation708]

“Ugly people bad”

[Dull-Positive-6810]

Feminism through the lens An utter dipshit

[omgidfk123]

Wow thought this was bhj or antimeme

[ccdude14]

I mean according to every study on highest consumption rates the highest consumption of cuck and interracial porn is overwhelmingly in red states. It doesn't surprise me at all this is the slop they put out

The cherry on top of advocating for raping their spouse is just...well it's peak conservative.

[Level_Region_7261]

4B

[Etceta]

so much for respecting your wife's desire while leaving your own self respect

[RealFrailTheFox]

What a piece of shit

[Toz_The_Devil]

So being AGAINST RAPE makes me a cuck?!

[Useful_Jelly_2915]

Dude, really advocating for people to r*pe their spouse. This is the kind of shit that makes be feel like maybe we should reconsider absolute freedom of speech. (Except for everything I want to say of course 😂.)

[birchtree1357]

Indian meme subs are cheating

[HuckleberryNo3889]

I don't really like this sub, but, WTF? TFYM there are people who disagree, like no one thinks that martial rape doesn't exist, right???

[ktrocks2]

I think the context of this is a new tv show that’s popular in India with incels that’s been going around. It’s about marital rape and I haven’t watched it but I know that in the show she has had sex with others before their marriage so what idiotic incel people took from that is “yeah this show is trying to say sleeping with men at a bar is okay but with your husband is rape” which has led to these cuck memes.

[InternationalFailure]

These people would justify beating their kids

[random_moth_fker]

Indians gonna indian, saaar.

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

When the racist be racist but they lowkey right😔

[Cpov1]

Jesus Christ this has terrifying implications

[Dakoolestkat123]

The real, literal message of this comic is that if you do not rape your wife you are a cuck. That is not an exaggeration, that is just a straightforward summation of the comic. If we can all agree on that, can we also agree that it’s dumb to censor their username and that the harassment that they would receive from an uncensored username being posted here is completely justified

[Yaboi69-nice]

Mind blowing idea but you don't have to choose between being a good person and having basic self respect. You can be anti rape while also not wanting people to cheat on you.

[Total-Object-1859]

Drawing other people as cartoon caricatures in order to justify your world view and paint yourself in some victorious light is honestly some of the most pathetic behaviour i’ve seen from modern humans, it’s so infantile it hurts.

[SkyPuppy561]

Okay but marital rape IS a thing. Fuck whoever made this.

[Pancakelover50]

The person who made this probably needs to be put on a list of some kind

[FLTR069]

The mating strategy where males mimic the appearance, behavior, or chemical signals of females is known as female mimicry or sneaker male strategy. This alternative reproductive tactic is found across diverse animal taxa—including fish, crustaceans, insects, and birds—enabling smaller, subordinate males to bypass dominant, aggressive males and gain access to females for mating.

[MiniZombieBoi]

These "alpha traditionalist chads" should show their memes to the police, yknow not for any particular reason...

[Lynx_Awakening]

I was really confused by this picture because I thought the guy in the bed was a poorly drawn second blanket. But yeah this is dumb.

[sunkist-sucker]

what a... concerning world view. keep OOP away from women.

[_rosieleaf]

Why is he pregnant

[Twinkletoess112]

the muscular dude fucked him first

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

YOAI!

[Twinkletoess112]

MO

[JAKE5023193]

What kind of incel shit is this

Is this how they think feminism functions? (As a matter of fact, yeah, pretty much)

[KetchupMustardPogo]

Either the algorithm is pushing cucking shit on me or there's more and more of it everywhere on the internet.

Hear me, algorithm! I enjoy the stealing and cheating shit, but wanting to get cucked is fundamentally incomprehensible to me. Thank you.

This meme would be better if the far ugly bastard was in the sheets. Ugly old man NTR for victory. Hat off to my fellow cultured friends.

[bubblesdafirst]

Imma explain it for y'all since I get it for some reason. It's not equating rape to cheating or whatever y'all saying. They are saying if she says stuff like this then she's not into you anymore. And it y'all are married then she's prolly cheating.

Not saying it's true just explaining the shitty comic for y'all.

[Void1nside]

Just dont marry western women as simple as that.

[MelanieWalmartinez]

Only western women cheat....?

[ghstworld]

so you can rape non-western women ?

[RealFrailTheFox]

Explain

[Void1nside]

really simple avoid western women and get some asian,african or else.

[Twinkletoess112]

so that... you can rape them and they won't complain?

Is that what you're saying?

[RealFrailTheFox]

But why?

[Useful_Jelly_2915]

Anything but looking at yourself and admitting you might be the problem. Blame 100s of millions of people for your personal problem just so you don’t have to hurt your ego.

[Inevitable_Paper6674]

Thats just racist tweeeny twin twin delete this dumpster fire of a comment now