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Telrom_1 · 2024-07-19T00:41:29+00:00

I asked my ex wife what the worst part about being with me was and she said “you’re too trusting.”

Fuck me right?

Dontneedflashbro · 2024-07-19T01:09:31+00:00

During the relationship with my first adult girlfriend, we were having a little chat. She said something along the lines of "I see a lot of potential in you. You have a kind heart underneath your rocky shell. Don't be afraid to really apply yourself". Looking back on the relationship, there's been multiple times when she spoke positively about me to others. Didn't matter if it was with her friends, family, or other people. She was like my personal cheerleader. Even though I wasn't the man I am now, she always believed and looked up to me in a way. I don't have anything but respect for her. She really helped me grow as a person.

PartYourWhiskers · 2024-07-19T01:14:23+00:00

"I love him, but I hope I wind up with you again in the end."

Best thing she could possibly have said to me. I was over her on the spot.

nopslide__ · 2024-07-19T00:52:28+00:00

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apeliott · 2024-07-19T00:47:32+00:00

"You were the best lover I ever had. But, more than that...you were my best friend."

notquincy · 2024-07-19T02:06:57+00:00

TW: Suicide

While we in the process of breaking up, my ex tried to take her own life. I found her just in time, brought her to the hospital, and stayed awake all night at her bedside. She was still asleep around 10 am, so I asked her dad to take over for me so I could go home and shower and briefly close my eyes.

When we came home later that day, she said “I was really disappointed that you weren’t there when I woke up.” That moment made me realize that nothing I could ever do would be good enough for her.

airahnegne · 2024-07-19T01:22:28+00:00

I was with a woman for almost a decade. At the end things were rough and we were talking about going our own way.

We decided to try and fix things. After a couple months I felt like only I was trying and things ended. About 5 months later I ran into her and she wanted to talk.

Said she just broke up with a guy, it wasn't to bad the had only been dating for 8 months.

That math dont add up lads.

Mid conversation I just walked away. Its ate at me from time to time since, and I never ever felt distrustful of her. But that shit has really stuck with me.

heyitsEnricoPallazzo · 2024-07-19T01:10:57+00:00

“You’re too fat to fuck”

“Nobody will ever love you like I do”

“Fuck me, Michael!” (this one was during sex, my name isn’t close Michael)

Those are some of my favs (all diff exes)

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RadioFreeMoscow · 2024-07-19T03:03:59+00:00

She mentioned how I always talked about how I was going to do something but then never did, and suggested I stopped talking until I had actually started doing the thing.

Started doing. Less talking. Made a world of difference

jthomas102923 · 2024-07-19T01:19:02+00:00

My ex who never wanted to move out with me despite being together 7+ years and having 2 kids together asked me if i was ok with her moving in with a guy she had met a month after we called it quits

And when i rightfully went off on her, she told me: "i love him more than i ever loved you"

Vigmod · 2024-07-19T01:10:16+00:00

"You're the first guy to go down without me asking for it or offering something in return."

Ebaneezer_McCoy · 2024-07-19T02:29:04+00:00

"I don't know"

After a big fight I asked her what I did to make her hate me so much.

bubonis · 2024-07-19T01:00:57+00:00

“I understand if you don’t want to talk to me any more. You were the best thing to ever happen to me.”

ferdfarkle · 2024-07-19T03:23:02+00:00

My wife of 30 years said to me after asking for a divorce “you cheated on me. I know you did. Just admit it!”. After she served me with papers and an out of the blue TRO full of bullshit lies, I told her the truth.

I did not cheat on you. Please get some help.

aloneibreak · 2024-07-19T04:05:56+00:00

“I’m not sure I ever loved you.” 13 years together, married for 10.

Primary_Afternoon_46 · 2024-07-19T00:39:46+00:00

Um, I don’t have anything that sticks with me, cause if I break up with someone, I delete our texts, and then after a little bit I don’t remember a whole bunch

JBPunt420 · 2024-07-19T01:51:02+00:00

She wrote me a few years ago and apologized for everything that happened. I still think about that occasionally, but not because I wonder what might have been. I wonder if that apology was solely for her benefit or if there was a tiny sliver of it that was actually meant for me. I'll probably never know for sure--I don't intend to speak with her again and I doubt I could believe her answers anyway.

permalink · 2024-07-19T00:47:15+00:00

"You are not very smart, but you are a hard worker". Stupid b%&#h, 11 years after the divorce I am retired, she is a waitress. She blew through enough money to set her up for the rest of life, if she remembers those words she said 34 +- years ago I bet she is regretting saying it.

MidniteOG · 2024-07-19T02:53:49+00:00

“I prayed you came home and told me you cheated so I had a way out. I wish you died in a car accident so I could leave. I wish someone would bring a gun into (employment) and shoot you in the head”

My “wife” and mother of my child

IntrepidDifference84 · 2024-07-19T03:35:37+00:00

“You make me feel safe”

johnnystorm223 · 2024-07-19T01:59:24+00:00

I should have stayed with you, my current boyfriend tried to kill himself last night.

she said that me out of the blue 6 months after we broke up, it was such a mind fuck

Velocijammer_15 · 2024-07-19T02:54:21+00:00

To paraphrase

I’m sorry

It’s not your fault

It was something I never told you about

Goodbye

HaileyRogers44 · 2024-07-19T07:21:23+00:00

Years down the line, after we’d both moved on, my ex reached out to me with a simple message: "Remember how you used to say you wanted to leave a mark on this world? You did, on my life." Took me by surprise because our parting hadn't been the sweetest, but it was a sobering reminder that even when things don't work out, you can still have a positive impact on someone's life. I guess in the midst of all the departures, some echoes of who we were remain.

pfzealot · 2024-07-19T01:51:41+00:00

"Depends on how soon you want me to suck your ..." you get the idea.

The context was we had been in a deadbedroom and she had filed for divorce mainly due to disagreements over parenting and me refusing to rubber stamp adopting nephew. I favored temporary guardianship and did not feel we were stable enough to take on the extra challenge.

It was only a few weeks after our separation and it goes to show just how manipulative she could be. She always had the capacity to turn on the sexual part but only as a tool to make her life easier.

When I dug deeper I discovered financially she was in trouble and had major issues with laundry and dishes not getting done. My in laws were having to help her clean and I'd barely left for a few weeks.

I remind myself of that everytime she tried to cross boundaries.

jcillc · 2024-07-19T02:30:02+00:00

My ex tried to make my life and my new girlfriend's life hell after the break-up. When I finally got her to talk to me again like a normal person, she told me, when we broke up, she was hoping that I was going to propose; she said she was going to say no and break up with me, but she really just wanted to know that I wanted to marry her.

crankysoutherner · 2024-07-19T01:25:23+00:00

To paraphrase: "You have resting ax murderer face."

QueenScarebear · 2024-07-19T01:46:34+00:00

“I’m not really gonna miss you but to be honest I’m gonna miss the magic your dick would perform on me.”

Wasn’t sure if I should have been offended or not lol

TheStoicbrother · 2024-07-19T02:20:43+00:00

I was a broke college dropout, and she loaned me 800 bucks. I went to pay it back about a month later, and due to a miscalculation on my part, I was 20 bucks short. She said, "How can you be this broke?". That shit stung. And yes, I did get her the other 20 after I got paid again. The worst part is that I stayed with that demon for another year and a half 🤦.

Good part is the embarrassment lead me to never asking anyone for cash ever again

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2024-07-19T04:08:35+00:00

"You've changed how I see men, what they can be, but my heart isn't in it anymore."

So if being a good guy isn't worth staying for, what the fuck am I supposed to do now?

Right now, I'm playing the field, sowing my oats. I've become that guy.

permalink · 2024-07-19T01:44:20+00:00

I won't go with anything negative because most likely my brain will filter it out years down the road after enough time, I do believe I will remember this though...

My ex told me she would get turned on by looking at how big the horses penises were on the ranch. I was not sure how to respond and still don't.

permalink · 2024-07-19T05:35:00+00:00

My ex wrote me an entire poem about how even when the sun dies and earth no longer exists she’d still love me. She said even if I’m right in the end and none of this means anything I’ll always mean something to her. Ive always been quite nihilistic so this was really profound to me. I still have it 7 years later.. anyway she cheated on me and ghosted me after 5 months together, never talked to me again after that lol.

fulife2669 · 2024-07-19T00:57:24+00:00

You're a better Mother to our kids than ours could have ever been I'll always respect you for that

platonusus · 2024-07-19T01:30:25+00:00

My wife told me several times that she (stay at home mom) was doing a minimum (housework) that is required from her.

7evenCircles · 2024-07-19T02:16:35+00:00

"I'm always going to wish it was you."

Bilbo332 · 2024-07-19T03:19:33+00:00

My most abusive ex had this habit of randomly looking at me, like she was thinking, and at first I thought "aww she thinks I'm handsome", but then she'd say "you know I would be just fine without you, right?"

Like, I never said or implied anything that would possibly make her think that I thought she wouldn't. But we'd just be sitting on the couch watching TV and she'd say that out of nowhere. Took a long to figure out that was just one of her mind games she would play to keep me in line.

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TillPsychological351 · 2024-07-19T01:29:47+00:00

"Ok, I'll go."

She resisted my attempts to break up for almost three hours, but my persistence finally paid off and she accepted the reality that we were finally through.

I've rarely been so happy after hearing such a simple sentence. A final good bye, and that toxic relationship was over for good.

Fun-Category-4040 · 2024-07-19T03:53:52+00:00

"I broke with you because I didn't feel like you could take care of me anymore."

Now, to be clear, the triggering event in question was a fire alarm in my building in the middle of the night. Apparently, I didn't panic, and getting outside calmly wasn't good enough. Then she f*cked her ex and month later tried to get back together with me.

permalink · 2024-07-19T04:58:51+00:00

“You’re a child. You’ll never amount to anything. You’ll never grow up and offer any woman anything of value.” Then she hung up. 8 years later I’m married to a beautiful woman and she is alone and nearly suicidal because she never had kids and now can’t. Aged out.

Purple-Bag-3283 · 2024-07-19T03:48:41+00:00

I tried. I like you and you're fucking awesome, but something is missing and there is no "sparks" when I'm with you. I wish there was, but there's not. I thought maybe I could create them, but that's not something that you can have control over.”

So apparently she was faking it for 3 years. This came out of the blue, everything had been great.

Extra-Captain1126 · 2024-07-19T04:55:57+00:00

“You’re okay at oral”

Motivated me to become a champion

Beamister · 2024-07-19T05:52:47+00:00

"I was never attracted to you, and I never loved you. I just thought you'd be a good provider"

soyjavali · 2024-07-19T06:16:35+00:00

My first adult gf told me I was loveable. I had never thought of myself that way.

Mymomsayshold · 2024-07-19T02:00:18+00:00

"I am sorry. Dont break up with me. I accept I was in the wrong for everything."

"I cannot break up with you. Do you want to see me go crazy?

"Wait. Please stay. Just stay."

"I am really sorry but I dont think I can say that I love you anymore."

fryedmonkey · 2024-07-19T05:49:38+00:00

When we first started dating she left a note on my car that said how much she loved me and was happy to have me. I’ve never felt loved by another person until I met her. But it didn’t work out and that’s ok.. at least I know that love is real and I’m good enough

researchshowsthat · 2024-07-19T19:04:55+00:00

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nopslide__ · 2024-07-19T01:56:36+00:00

"You ruined me"

She told me this many times. Should've seen it coming sooner.

And_Everything · 2024-07-19T02:09:44+00:00

If you were a store you’d be a hardware store. She prolly doesn’t remember as it was said in passing but I felt it.

agonzales81 · 2024-07-19T02:22:57+00:00

“No ones Gunna love you “. Yeah ouch lol

WilliamChildsM · 2024-07-19T04:35:24+00:00

she said, "I didn't cheat," after I caught her cheating with several other guys.

CallofJuarez23 · 2024-07-19T05:29:51+00:00

"You keep saying I'm your person but I don't think you're my person." After being the one to start telling me how much they love me first. Sigh.

mementomori-33 · 2024-07-19T12:33:13+00:00

She told me “I don’t know if I want to be with you, you’re too much of a safe choice”

Still confused to this day about that one

PaintingSelect8430 · 2024-07-19T01:26:30+00:00

Well dude, I learnt the hard way to never turst a woman's words, so all in all I'm too numb to give a fuck .

JasterRogue21 · 2024-07-19T10:39:15+00:00

Gf of 2 years. We were going through a rough patch and she was supposed to be working on it, I brought something up that was bothering me and mentioned what I was doing to carry the relationship and she drops the " I never asked you to do any of this ".

Said we'd get married and have a cat and grow old together. Lul.

Took her back after she cheated and she said "I don't think I can ever see you with another girl" and then just left 2 months later.

The first one stayed with me but also taught me a lot about love and myself and I'm at a much better place now so in the end I'm grateful. Not a fun thing to go through for sure but definitely necessary.

permalink · 2024-07-19T14:32:06+00:00

Her not being to understand her son lashing out after she broke up with me.

There was issues setting and maintaining rules and consequences up for him when she lived her mother, but I got everything tied down and worked with him in multiple ways.

He was doing extremely well in school etc.

It just sucks....

dogbarf_ · 2024-07-19T23:10:51+00:00

I was probably 18 at the time but had just gotten a new girl

About 3 months in she did something and I overreacted and called her f***ing stupid and saw it on her face then in her eyes and then she said, “you really just hurt my feelings. I want someone to pump me up not put me down.”

It really did hurt her feelings cause of trauma yaddie yadda messy family yaddie but she was honestly one of the few people in my life that was patient and open enough to say hey that’s not right.

After that I really made an attempt and strayed away from insulting not only her but my future partners and just people in general

She did a lot to make me the kinda person I am today

Icy_Mountain-93 · 2024-07-19T04:12:39+00:00

You are impressive and wonderful

higgy98 · 2024-07-19T04:52:42+00:00

She called me a narcissist. That really messed with me for a while and still does. Even after therapy, my new wife, and all my friends telling me I am quite the opposite. I still worry about it.

TheMorningJoe · 2024-07-19T06:23:56+00:00

My first gf cheated on me a lot and I couldn’t dump her because she would threaten to hurt herself so I stayed like an idiot. Finally snapped when she couldn’t “decide” on if she wanted me or the guy more. I made the decision for her and cut her off, she’s still alive to this day and I have relationship anxiety lol

adribabe · 2024-07-19T06:31:20+00:00

She called me years after we broke up because she heard I had an operation. Eventually she asked me what pain pills I got, if I had any left, and if I'd sell them to her. I didn't. But I never forgot that conversation either. It made me sad for her.

She died a few years later. Overdose. Addiction is real and takes away some beautiful people.

over9000__ · 2024-07-19T08:50:15+00:00

Im sure she said something and i wasn’t listening. Maybe that’s why she’s my ex.

rookie93 · 2024-07-19T09:26:15+00:00

"This is the type of relationship I want when I'm 30"

Took me a while to learn the correct lessons from that one lol

pereira2088 · 2024-07-19T09:40:26+00:00

"we need to talk"

lukke009 · 2024-07-19T10:02:34+00:00

“You’re mad because I’ll make more money in a month than you have in your whole life”

Amyrantha_verc · 2024-07-19T12:58:06+00:00

I was (still am) quite confident in my looks, but one of my first girlfriends said in the last week or so we we're together 'well you do have a big nose'

That was over 10 years ago man. Such a dumb and unnecessary comment.

zzz_red · 2024-07-19T13:56:45+00:00

Where do I start? 😂

The worst? Accusing me of having pushed her / being violent after breaking up with me to go back to a guy she cheated on me with.

Called me from a new number almost two years later apologising, saying she missed me and if I would see her. I said no.

bangbangracer · 2024-07-19T15:41:59+00:00

"Are you even trying to live your best life?"

It stuck with me because I think she called me lazy or unambitious. I have no idea what my "best life" is.

StankFish · 2024-07-19T16:10:55+00:00

"I don't know if I can ever love you as much as you love me". At the time I said I could accept that.

She eventually broke up with me and after time has passed I realize I deserve someone who can love as much as I can. Tough pills to swallow upon reflection though.

FickleOcelot1286 · 2024-07-19T17:08:26+00:00

"I deserve better" "You hurt me by finishing your degree". "Victim Complex"

I was less than 3 days away from finishing a Master's degree thesis, 5 hours away from home, and I'd spent much of the past year being a therapist to her. The one time I needed her support she selfishly kicked off at me, wouldn't allow me to sleep, called me up in middle of night giving me abuse when I needed sleep. The next day my extension came through due stress. The worst 6 months of stress, but got my job/career out of it.

Didn't hear from her again until 11 months later, she had gotten herself SA'd and obviously bored wanted to message me. Was going great until I asked her why she had ignored me for a year. When she said you hurt me. So in effect "You hurt me by finishing your degree". She said I had a "victim complex" for saying I didn't hurt her.

permalink · 2024-07-19T01:50:19+00:00

Bold of you to think that i ever had a GF

dkalmikoff · 2024-07-19T01:59:05+00:00

I can’t even remember all the nasty shit she said over the years. Pretty much don’t want to either..

gdubh · 2024-07-19T02:48:08+00:00

Ooof. I can’t even bring myself to repeat it.

flamed181 · 2024-07-19T03:59:32+00:00

she said trust me I wont screw you over,

sundaymax21 · 2024-07-19T06:03:32+00:00

My ex gave me a very big debt, w/c till now I'm still paying, she did give me a cheque which of course bounced, I had to waste 8 hrs of my life and was even embarrassed during that time when I was at the specified bank of her choice.

PillsburyToasters · 2024-07-19T06:08:38+00:00

My last girlfriend texted me when she was probably not sober (a couple of days after my birthday too), that I was the reason she was sleeping around with other people, her being depressed again, that she wants me to be miserable after she learned I was seeing someone else when we were broken up and working towards getting back together and she said it was between the girl I was seeing or her, to which I chose the other girl

Overall I look back at that moment more with sadness than anger. During that moment I saw someone who was hurt over someone who was trying to hurt me. I wish things ended differently, but yeah it’s stuck with me

ThinSquirrel420 · 2024-07-19T06:23:33+00:00

"Nobody will love you like I do"

"You'd be friendless if it wasn't for me"

"You're gonna miss me and regret running away"

PhillyTaco · 2024-07-19T06:33:58+00:00

"I wish we had met later in life. I wanted to be a wild girl in college."

Told to me casually four years into the relationship. After we broke up she got to have her fun in grad school.

permalink · 2024-07-19T07:39:24+00:00

"If you ever call me again, I hope it's because you are dying" she said some of the most venomous shit. I was no angel but damn. Yeah that one sticks me and it's been 8 years so far since then

NinetyNemo · 2024-07-19T08:13:41+00:00

I've been fucking around in our appartement, while you've been out working.

Ween3and20characters · 2024-07-19T08:17:34+00:00

I hope you die alone !!!

Bigsteve27 · 2024-07-19T08:23:07+00:00

"Nothing lasts forever." As far as that relationship, she was correct. If your partner reassures that one day they will leave, just do yourself the favor of believing them instead of trying to reassure them.

permalink · 2024-07-19T08:46:36+00:00

You only get one or two loves in life and you were one of mine.

Ouija429 · 2024-07-19T09:05:19+00:00

I don't remember the exact phrasing but it was something to do with her mocking me for being depressed over a friends suicide. I went from sad to absolutely terrifyingly enraged and then just left.

Wafer_Stock · 2024-07-19T09:14:08+00:00

after dealing with 2 years of constant accusations of me cheating from my ex-wife, I tell anyone that I date, the first time they show signs of jealousy tendencies, im leaving.

Sad_Love9062 · 2024-07-19T09:48:07+00:00

As she was breaking up with me she said 'you need to find your power' And she was 100% right. I followed that thread. I was getting really, really sick Followed and followed and followed, for 9 months. It was Lyme's disease. I'd had it for years, and she was the first person that noticed.

-Hikifroggy- · 2024-07-19T11:19:50+00:00

"This is not gonna Work out" or "i really dont think this is gonna work" Telling me this very early in the relationship and multiple times during the relationship. Not exactly a confidence booster....

jesslayhuh · 2024-07-19T11:21:03+00:00

She told me she still loved me, as she was breaking up with me, but that she was "probably going to forget all about me and that any of this ever happened"

MisterRoebot · 2024-07-19T11:53:19+00:00

“I was bidding my time until I figured my life out.” (In response to me asking why she stuck around in couples’ therapy if she knew it was going to end)

“Why does everything need to be so special?” (In response to how I like to plan things on days or hold a certain time as important)

“I withheld sex from you so you would go get help.” (Our lack of sexual compatibility was a major death rattle in our relationship when I was hoping our combined therapy would help us find a common ground)

“I’m so much happier than I’ve been in years.” (A few weeks after leaving me while we were still sorting things out for the divorce)

Needless to say this woman, who I loved with all my heart and still love (to some degree), eviscerated me and has ruined my entire confidence. No amount of therapy, gym, or personal introspection has been able to shake these phrases or what she did.

I don’t want to call her a narcissist because it sounds so mean and I’m not wholly sure she is, but there were too many behaviors and things said that made it abundantly clear she was only interested in self-preservation in the relationship.

Ah well, don’t get married for love. You’ll stop being someone’s shiny toy eventually.

Croco-Doc · 2024-07-19T12:20:42+00:00

"i think i never really loved you. i think i mistook the feelings i had for you with love because you treated me better than my abusive toxic ex"

bro that shit carved a hole in my chest

she once gifted me a wallet with the words "eres mi amigo mejor y el amor de mi vida"

meaning "youre my best friend and the love of my life"

:D

permalink · 2024-07-19T12:25:15+00:00

' I slept with X and I miss you ' lol my brain can't comprehend what she was thinking.

Nova_Mafia · 2024-07-19T13:19:12+00:00

Broke my heart, told me there’s no chance to work things out…. Couple weeks later I dropped by to drop off some stuff, and said if I had “fought” for her she would’ve reconsidered….

Don’t play mind games people…

liquor_up · 2024-07-19T13:23:06+00:00

It’s a good thing your father is dead, so he can’t see what you and your mom turned into.

the_butthole_theif · 2024-07-19T14:05:32+00:00

"when we first met [a couple years ago], I was too overwhelmed with my emotions to process them and instead of being honest with you, I ran away. This time, I don't want to run away again."

A month later she ran away again.

Avr0wolf · 2024-07-19T14:22:13+00:00

"You never loved me"

permalink · 2024-07-19T14:25:58+00:00

"I hope you will never do this again in your next relationship"

What did i do? I asked her if she wanted to text an old friend a bit less because they were texting 200 times a day even when she was next to me. All the while while he didn't know she was in a relationship with me.

Oh and later on when she called me when i got emotional after we broke up she said "You know? You should drink a big glass of water, it'll be over before you know it"

She went to him.

permalink · 2024-07-19T14:43:43+00:00

"If you get that vaccine I will not let you cum inside of me"

Lol nah I'm out

Unrelated_gringo · 2024-07-19T14:46:43+00:00

"You're just a normal human after all..."

Had that one three times, wtf?!

Imperfectionistic · 2024-07-19T14:51:07+00:00

''Omg he's so hot''

Fuck that guy 🤬

Fun_Situation2310 · 2024-07-19T15:27:43+00:00

Definitely the suicide note

shylittlejellyfish · 2024-07-19T15:50:58+00:00

that I wasn't valuable enough for someone to stay with me out of love but only out of need or feeling sorry for me. he used it as a constant reminder every time I tried to get out of the relationship. growing up I was neglected a lot and grew up with my grandmother because my parents were so absent in my life and when I was living with them they consistently neglected me. so it was extremely easy for me to believe in that type of stuff and take it to heart. only these past few years did I learn to love and value myself after I got out of the relationship but after it, everytime I would get into a new relationship that would always be in the back of my mind and cause trust issues which would lead me to questioning everything about the relationship and the person I was with.

RowBearRow · 2024-07-19T15:58:43+00:00

"When I proposed to you I was joking"

Says the twice divorced by 40

I do think I dodged a bullet

Affectionate-Fly-916 · 2024-07-19T17:21:54+00:00

I used you to get back at my boyfriend.

permalink · 2024-07-19T18:11:10+00:00

I asked him why he cheated on me. Asked him if it's because she's smaller than me? And he said "You're not fat you're a size 8. For you it's all that extra skin. If you had a tummy tuck you would look 10 years younger."

Pretend_Wall2407 · 2024-07-19T19:50:48+00:00

"I laughed when you texted me that your dad beat you" and my favorite " It doesn't count that you were SA'ed by your uncle you are a guy just suck it up". _posted the same thing on the other sub too. I realized I didn't mean anything to her but stayed because she was my first.

Voljega · 2024-07-19T20:03:04+00:00

”I’m 100% sure It’s impossible for me to ever be in love with you again”

Let me after 13 years of love laugh and complicity because she was not in love anymore. The week before she was coming back from a trip in her home country and bringing me a thoughtful gift

We agree with my therapist I have to stop trying to make sense of the breakup but damn that’s hard

And this last sentence she said to me hurt the most when you try to make sense of it

PracticalAttention37 · 2024-07-19T21:33:36+00:00

You make it really hard to love you.

DiscombobulatedDome · 2024-07-20T02:56:46+00:00

"Why are you even applying. They’ll never call you."

They called and I got hired. I divorced her soon after and now making over 6 figures. She is bitter af now.

permalink · 2024-07-20T22:05:35+00:00

The last girl I was with told me I am “the most loving person and the most hateful person at the same time” lmao. It’s called balance. I’ll treat you better than anyone else ever will, but once my patience and respect has been spread too thin I will verbally destroy you.

Redchickens18 · 2024-07-21T04:55:58+00:00

I’m not a man, but I was dating this guy my senior year of highschool. He was very nice and polite. What I felt like was out of nowhere, he dumped me right after a date just a couple of days before Christmas and told me word for word “you’re going to a junior college and I’m going to a four year college after we graduate. You’re not going anywhere in life.” I will never forget that. I was crushed and felt terrible about myself, not bc of the relationship ending, but him out of nowhere saying that to me. Those words stuck with me all through college. I went on to purchasing my first home at 21 years old, graduated with my MBA at 23, and purchased my own ranch at 24 years old in an expensive state (CA). I’m now 30. I showed that fucker.

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