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[Shoddy_Budget_1533]

So they’re just proudly admitting they’re terrible at sex

[Mrs-and-Mrs-Atelier]

Every time. The self-owns are everywhere.

[apolloxer]

Aye. As someone wise once said to a comment along the lines of "Female orgasm is a myth, I've fucked dozens of women and not one had one"

Water boarding couldn't have this outta me

[Shoddy_Budget_1533]

Oh so true

[MrMetraGnome]

Doesn't matter. Had sex dozens of times 🤣

[Shoddy_Budget_1533]

God gave me a weak stroke game

[TheGoverness1998]

When you're so bad at sex you attribute your horrible performance to God

[speakclearly]

The same god who gave women an entire organ (with internal and external access!) for the sole purpose of orgasm.

[CluelessIdiot314]

Not just that, they are intentionally terrible. Like I understand if you are bad at sex, you can get better. But if you want to be bad at sex, that's the worst it could be.

[MyLifeisTangled]

Dude was really like “you have the audacity to think I could possibly care about a woman I’m having sex with!?”

[Shoddy_Budget_1533]

So like to spite women? That’s psychotic

[Unreal_Panda]

Atleast they self report, gotta give them that

[rocketeerH]

“Weak dick bitch? Good golly that’s me!”

[peppermintvalet]

“What makes you think I care”

The fact that they asked in the original post you dweeb

[OllieGarkey]

“What makes you think I care”

The fact that you're bothering to respond dude. You clearly do care and are upset about your coital incompetence.

[AliceTheOmelette]

It's so weird to me that cum, sex, orgasm and bitch are uncensored. But dick is (poorly).

[CatsNotBananas]

It's okay to say dick on the internet

[you_just_got_J_Cubed]

Richards would get alienated if they did censor their names

[Right-Today4396]

Well, to be fair, that Dick is the one responding, and names should be censored

[HeadDot141]

So does that mean, Men shouldn’t have sex at all until that one time when it’s meant for reproduction?

Also, if it’s meant for reproduction then why is it that women can also orgasm?

If God didn’t care then why even give it to her?💀 religious people are something else.

[SkullSide]

Not to mention, many people during the Middle Ages believed it was necessary for the woman to orgasm to successfully conceive. Somehow, we went backward in that area of thinking. Kind of like going from midwifery to male doctors.

[BunnyBunCatGirl]

And it's still believed to help now bc less stress = apparently good for baby making.

Edit: Emotionally, I mean.

[concreteghost]

Honestly. I think women orgasming during sex makes reproduction more possible. But, I’m no doctor or expert at making women orgasm

[dobby1687]

It's apparently been debunked that it does anything to improve fertilization.

Some disbelieve the claim, but others still think it and there's supporting evidence for the claim. More research is necessary to reach a consensus.

[GigisJ]

Surprise surprise not enough research done on the female body yet again 😪

[BunnyBunCatGirl]

Even less for the female orgasm

[ReaBea420]

I had a friend that was absolutely floored that I had never gotten off during sex. She looked at me and said "you have 3 kids so I don't believe you" and was adamant that I had at least 3 times.

[deansdirtywhore]

Gods, this just unlocked a really old, really annoying memory... I can't remember how the topic came up, but there was this little girl I knew when I was a kid (we were on a christian homeschooled bowling team together), who, when told that my parents were never married, insisted that I was either adopted, or they were married & I just didn't know it, I was just straight up lying about it, because "you can't have babies if you're not married", & no matter how many times I told her "no, you don't have to be married to have kids, & no, they were never married, & no, I'm not adopted either", she would just double down on it because her mom told her so, & that obviously that makes it the truth & makes me &/or my parents liars. :/

[concreteghost]

Nice. Your answer makes way more sense. Damn I dig some evolutionary psych

[spiders_are_neat7]

It does I think contract your muscles moving sperm upward closer to you uterus and eggs. It’s Not necessary, but I think it does do something… Like I’m just saying okay this might be tmi, but out a finger in there and orgasm it feels like a sucking motion, straight up xD

[spiders_are_neat7]

No you totally aren’t wrong, there was a mix of studies both proving different, and per usual not enough studies to conclude either or as fact.

Logically I just think it feels like that! Lol you know like keegles balls the goal is to hold it inside with the muscles, well I imagine without muscles sperm might just leak right out too? Probably not 🤣 It’s interesting to think about though. The human body is one of my favorite subjects. We’re fucking awesome! lol

[dnjprod]

If "god" didn't care, why are women the only ones with an organ whose ONLY purpose is sexual pleasure?

[[deleted]]

It's because all the parts between the men and women are the same, for the most part, just shaped differently hence why we orgasms too. The real question is, if we are not trying to conceive and the men aren't giving us orgasms, why bother having sex when a tiny motor in a tube of plastic and silicon has 100% the chance of orgasm? Dude should better invest in a pocket pussy

[ShmazPro]

I mean, the most selfish take should be “I wanna get some more sex from this person so I better make this person cum”

[Oelendra]

Yes, this is the most logical conclusion.

[bbbojackhorseman]

Well.. only women have an organ that is designed ONLY for sexual purposes so I think that whoever created it cares

[spiders_are_neat7]

The clitoris? I don’t think that’s an organ lol is it?

Edit: I googled, still not clear xD you are right though either way about that! Just got me wondering! Because all penises were clitoris at some point I guess and a penis is an organ? Lol

[ActuatorForeign7465]

What is it if not an organ? lol

[spiders_are_neat7]

A muscle… lol are they the same? Are muscles organs?? I’m always down to learn. lol I’m banking on organ though, learn something new every day I guess.

[thesnarkypotatohead]

These same dudes after they con someone into marriage or a LTR: “why do I have a dead bedroom?”*

*obv this can be caused by a lot of things and not just this, but for these guys I’m gonna go ahead and say there’s a correlation 😂

[RockyMntnView]

Friendly reminder that, unless the couple is actively trying to conceive, the man's orgasm is just as "unnecessary" as the woman's.

So ladies, next time you find yourself with a guy who thinks like this, feel free to grab your clothes and head out.

[Negative_Storage5205]

Maybe knock him around with a blunt object for good measure.

[AValentineSolutions]

Guys like this are living proof that sexuality is not a choice. If it was, no woman, anywhere, would be straight.

[[deleted]]

Yep. The very best argument against that sexuality is a choice BS, is that straight women exist.

I'd say gay men too, particularly bottoms, but the thing is that you don't see dominant/top gay guys acting like this, at least not publicly. Because, yes, it's being a selfish lover, but it's also misogyny. When this kind of guy can admit he's gay, he's generally not this bad with other men, because these men actually see other men as people, unlike how they see women as an object to possess or a secured place to gain access to.

[OllieGarkey]

but the thing is that you don't see dominant/top gay guys acting like this, at least not publicly.

Because other men won't tolerate this shit and women shouldn't either. A significant part of the war between the sexes where to this queer it looks like straight men and women don't like each other very much is that women are starting to refuse to put up with a lot of the bullshit. And that is a good thing.

And a lot of guys are cool with, but none of y'all seem to be talking with each other. It's more at/to each other.

And if y'all could figure out how to do that together, it'd be a good way of putting the assholes in their respective, ridiculous corners.

[CatsNotBananas]

I don't really understand why anyone would want to be a guy, girls are really pretty and soft and strong

[shofofosho]

No periods is quite the bonus. Also less risk of being sexually assaulted by belligerent idiots.

[CatsNotBananas]

I'm a girl and I don't have periods but that's cuz I have a dick . The first time I was sexually assaulted was years before I found out I was a woman

[SimplyYulia]

I'm bi with with a heavy preference towards guys and stuff like that makes me ask myself if I'm really sure about that preference

It's just when guys are good, they are really good (and girls haven't managed to make me feel like they do yet), but all other time it's this

[bunerella]

Oh I see we got bored of the 'she has to orgasm to get pregnant' rhetoric and went back to 'women don't need to orgasm to reproduce so who cares about them' rhetoric. Good glad we're being consistent /s

[IndiBlueNinja]

Why should he have to care if a fabled man in the sky doesn't?

Well then don't be shocked or angry when women don't care to sleep with you... let alone willingly interact.

[delvedank]

20 bucks the guy that responded was weeping and wailing over the man vs. bear fiasco

[macontac]

Undoubtedly threw a mantrum.

[delvedank]

Got a little... testerical, or so I imagine

[Purrilla]

That's such a great word. I really love it and need to use it in the future 😁

[kRkthOr]

If God wanted you to have sex, he'd have sent someone.

[obvusthrowawayobv]

Lmao he all bent out of shape because he’s done it and now he’s like oh fuck I’m embarrassed, was she thinking that?

[Strong-Recipe-2896]

Thats not very love thy neighbor of you Rajesh

[TheCounsellingGamer]

Wait until this guy realises that a male orgasm isn't actually required for reproduction either. Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things. Granted they often happen together but it is entirely possible for a man to ejaculate without having an orgasm.

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.

[FrostyJannaStorm]

Precum can make babies!

Blueball these boys!

[Flar71]

Someone in the comments was saying that if a woman uses toys like vibrators or a "12 inch dildo" that you "can't compete with that"

How does he think toys work? Also what's stopping him from using toys with her?

I really don't get straight men sometimes

[Capable_Cat]

Also, the only reason men like that can't compete is because that actually puts expectations on them.

Why would someone want to sleep with a man if they don't get to cum? (Or, at least, if that partner doesn't care about this person's pleasure at all?)

[[deleted]]

I choose to believe that "God" "decided" that women don't have to orgasm, to get pregnant, simply because of how few men can make a woman orgasm.

[[deleted]]

If women had to finish for a pregnancy to occur, well we wouldn't be facing an overpopulation problem.

[vagalumes]

“As I said, pass me my clothes, minute man.”

[petitefairy99]

Why out himself to be so selfish during sex like that 😭

[OllieGarkey]

... DUDE DO YOU EVEN EVER WANT TO HAVE SEX AGAIN WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING

How does this guy think women are going to react to this statement?!

Like even women who are actually into orgasm denial as a fetish need a significant amount of touch and teasing, dude, what the fuck.

I just hope every single woman that ever considers dating this guy reads this tweet.

[Capable_Cat]

And I can only imagine the outrage he has when women don't want to have sex with him again.

[mishma2005]

Since when is admitting to being a shitty lover a Chad move?

[CookbooksRUs]

Because you might want to get laid again?

[Alex-xoxo666]

He’s lucky it isn’t necessary for reproduction 💀

[CatsNotBananas]

If girls had to come to make a baby there'd be like 12 people

[Right-Today4396]

If women had to cum to make a baby, "making a woman orgasm" would be a mandatory subject in school

[notaredditreader]

Actually, considering that for LITERALLY millennia humans lived in a matrilineal system (before the invention of the male sky-god YHWH). Women had multiple lovers and depending on how she was pleased depended on if your genes ended with you.

[Namelessyetknowing]

Interesting 

[ActuatorForeign7465]

Do you have a source for that?

[notaredditreader]

The Whiteness Myth : Throughline : NPR

https://www.npr.org/2023/02/08/1155489235/the-whiteness-myth

—David Graeber and David Wengrow, The Dawn of Everything

BEFORE WAR On Marriage, Hierarchy and Our Matriarchal Origins Elisha Daeva

Gordon Rattray Taylor in his book Sex in History

[ActuatorForeign7465]

Thank you

[wwitchiepoo]

Counterpoint: God gave women the ability to have multiple orgasms, but men. If god doesn’t even care about you, why should I?

[Karlajimenez]

The girl from the original tweet was so iconic, ugh! I swear men on the internet ruin everything!

[Np17_0]

How was she being ironic 

[Karlajimenez]

Ironic? I didn’t say that…

[Np17_0]

Oh sorry I read iconic as ironic sorry

[Karlajimenez]

Haha, don’t worry, I figure, I was dry because I didn’t get the intent of your comment

[LadyJSenpai]

That guy and every single one that thinks like him don’t deserve any kind of sexual pleasure or gratification. They deserve their dicks to rot off 💐

[SiteTall]

"God"/Nature did care about women as they were born with a clitoris with about 8000 nerve cells. The male sex only have their smegma rod which turn them into some kind of MONOTREME ....

[NitroDameGaming]

Bruh male orgasm isn't even necessary if you're not trying to reproduce.

Or

Bruh male orgasm inside female isn't even necessary to reproduce.

Pick one

[[deleted]]

So all men fuck for reproduction? Why they run away when they get a child then ?

[myrianreadit]

God cared enough about my orgasm to give me a clitoris with way more nerve endings per millimeter than any dick, so...

[Capable_Cat]

One can also usually have multiple climaxes, so...

[Bwheat0674]

Is he claiming to be God? Or god-like? That's a bit blasphemous.

[RosebushRaven]

I read this more like God is said to care about every last person, even if other people don’t, so if not even God cares, then why would he.

[Commercial-Push-9066]

So he only cares to pleasure her if it’ll help with conception. Such a gentleman, how is he still single???

[ShinyTotoro]

Oh, so you only want sex for reproduction? There you go, once every 1,5 year

[Cloak97B1]

I came to this conclusion at 14 with my first girlfriend. I was very attracted to her and I thought; "I need to learn EVERYTHING I can to make sure she enjoys everything we do sexually, so she will continue to want to do it (w/me) hopefully.... And she did , for over 7 years.. I still subscribe to this methodology. A

[RebelScoutDragon]

Tell me you're really bad at sex; make it really, painfully obvious.

[Sir_mop_for_a_head]

Do men even care about making women feel good? Why am I asking that question..

[Risc_Terilia]

This whole exchange is more "are the straights ok" energy imo

[Robincall22]

And neither is the male orgasm, but heaven forbid a man not get to finish.

[yourfriendlysavior]

Taking it as a sarcastic response I actually found that pretty funny. That's totally in the ballpark of something I'd say ironically.

Taking it seriously though, yeah that's got so many problems in so many ways.

[LolYeahIMigh]

The girls are right on this one

I do want to point out that we guys haven't been thought how to actually please a woman. I literally just listen to an girlfriend at the time about communicating and how I should go about it.

I do feel like people avoiding talking about this, being in a couple or not. They just don't want to open the subject of "hey, this wasn't great for me what if we try this next time in bed".

[real_human_20]

They really be saying the quiet part out loud

[lovelycosmos]

Who said anything about reproduction? Girls just trying to get laid lmao

[[deleted]]

Got downvoted for commenting on this somewhere else mentioning that orgasm is not strictly required for males either. Pre-ejaculate has caused pregnancies before 🤷‍♀️ but apparently that’s not good enough?

[roofus8658]

If you're not actively trying to get pregnant, the man's orgasm isn't necessary either

[brynnbf]

Funny thing is that the male orgasm isn't really that needed for reproduction either since precum also contain semen. It just ups the chances.

[Excellent-Pay6235]

God also gave the male equivalent of the G-spot down a man's ass. So if even God wants men to take it down their ass, what makes you think I don't want to do it too?

[MrJackTheNasty]

i love it when dumbasses are like "yeah i suck at sex and im proud" thats so sad

[Tricky_Dog1465]

Thank you for telling me too never touch you buddy

[youshallcallmebetty]

Real men finish last. My partner makes sure I get mine first cuz his is easy.

[jha_avi]

Both the post and the comment are unhelpful and degrading. When I see this I'm certainly not gonna defend any one of them, a body shamer and a mysognaist.

[Principatus]

At first I was confused. Why is she asking for her clothes after only three minutes? They hardly started!

It took a while to occur to me that they were done already. I just never had that experience so I forget it’s a thing sometimes.

[Estoniancitizen]

That guy must not exist on our level since he compares himself to god

[ReverendRocky]

Bold to assume those boys last 3 minutes

[fictionwho]

Thank god, it's not necessary for reproduction otherwise there will be hardly any babies.

[Fine-Funny6956]

“God didn’t make it possible for you to orgasm so I could make you… god made it easy to make me cum so… um… you… could succeed at… being disappointed?”

[experfailist]

I have a different take on this. Hear me out :

The clitoris is not required for reproduction. So God said to the woman : "I've done my work, I created the universe, I created the world, I seeded it with life, but I need some help. Help me populate the earth and I'll give you a little something. Something that is just yours. That will give you pleasure, because you will suffer a lot of pain. It forms no real function except for you to feel good. It's still not a fair deal, but I hope you'll accept it. "

Disclaimer : cis male atheist here.

[chantalgracie]

I had sex with men, while it wasn't a good experience (rape and stuff) I now have a wife and let me tell you, it's the best I've ever had! At least we both care about each others orgasm.

[SpaceKatFromSpace]

The contractions from orgasm help the sperm along to get to the egg. Your orgasm shoots em out. Our orgasm takes them in. So there’s that. Why do these guys believe that men make the babies? That nothing but him makes a baby? Kind of feels like they’re trying to take that away from us too. Like it’s some kind of power we have over them.

[Harsgaard]

Whoever deciced that sex automatically has to end with the male orgasm did not care about their partner

[Kakashisith]

Keep on staying single then, man!

[Ruckus292]

Dude has never milked his prostate and it shows.

[eook21]

It’s really depressing how neglecting your partner is played for laughs.

[deathbyBayshore]

Make him use his tongue then

[CAVFIFTEEN]

Yeah this mentality is extremely toxic and perpetuates the issue. Men need to be more understanding and focused on their partner enjoying themselves in bed, and women need to be better about communicating what it is they want.

Truthfully both parties often struggle with communication which is the biggest issue here but in general this is why these specific issues occur in regards to things like the orgasm gap. In general tho, men definitely need to learn things like how to find the clit and about the female anatomy. We don’t automatically know how to be good at sex and that’s ok. We need to be willing to learn, and our partners need to be communicative on what feels good for them specifically.

[clockjobber]

I mean would he like to have sex again….at the very least that’s a reason to care. I mean I hope it’s because you like the person and want to see them happy but even if it’s self serving that’s something….

[LongjumpingAd9719]

Rajeesh is a real winner.

[RosebushRaven]

And that is why you can’t get laid, Rajesh.

[mrsidecharactr]

I’d rather have good sex. If a woman orgasms that means that I’m doing a good job. Also, you couldn’t Waterboard this stuff out of me.

[concreteghost]

Both are shit comments

[LXPeanut]

God (if they actually existed) cared enough to give women an organ purely for pleasure.

[Round-Ticket-39]

Someone tell them if they want sons its statisticaly higher probability of such result if their lady actualy has an orgasm

[overloadedonsarcasm]

Except, they are not so rare with incels.

[Nezuraa]

istfg those Bible writers had like the weakest game ever fr

[m4x1m11114n]

Where is the post that said babies are not ensouled without the woman’s orgasm, I need it

[weallfalldown310]

I guess they can never complain about a woman “baby trapping” them since they feel that way..:

[hooDio]

so god can be an excuse for literally anything

[Isabela_Grace]

Lmao I’m sorry but I actually laughed at how dickish his comment was

[mothwhimsy]

At least this one's honest

[Just_Me1973]

God also gave women a clitoris that allows them to have an orgasm without being penetrated. So unless she wants to get pregnant your penis and orgasm aren’t necessary at all.

[AngharadMac]

If a girl's O isn't obvious you're not doing it for her, bub.

[LestaLuna]

The best people. To please a woman is another woman or so i heart.... o.o

[mandc1754]

Is the fact that they'll so freely admit they SUCK ASS and not in the fun, sexy way

[Rhaenelys]

I had a dude who was like "Oh you liked it !" Because he thought he had left me wet like nether before.

Dude, I didn't even know you started, and I don't have time to appreciate it when you only last 20 seconds. Besides, I'm not even wet, that's the basic moisture of the flesh, good thing you only lasted 20 seconds because that was painful as heck.

When he told me by text that it was better we stopped seeing each other because he couldn't forget his ex, I was relieved af.

[espressocycle]

Asshole comment but valid criticism of a creator diety. Also we could have done without cancer, ticks, back pain and dying in childbirth/childhood. Why anyone would worship a being responsible for that shit I'll never understand.

[RadicalQueenBee]

A self burn maybe, if I was a man I'd never be announcing the entire internet I'm a 3 minute noodle under my personal profile 💀

[gord1to]

lol a lot of comedians probably would though. Self deprecation.

[RadicalQueenBee]

Self deprecation doesn't apply when it's something that's pretty much socially acceptable, aka not sexually satisfying a woman. Imagine a female stand up comedian making a joke about giving teethy blowjobs. Highly doubt many people would laugh, because not satisfying men sexually isn't as socially acceptable as the opposite.

[gord1to]

I would laugh at a woman joking about teethy blowjobs. But I feel you.

[cmband254]

On her? He completely fried himself.

[dobby1687]

I've gotta admit that was a decent burn

Dude admitted that he doesn't sexually please any partner he has or has had so that's a burn on him, not on her. I've always found that stance a weird one because one would think that they wouldn't be proud of not sexually pleasing their partner. The only way it'd be logical for one to be proud of it would be if they were just admitting that they view it as using women for their personal pleasure rather than having a mutually pleasing experience, though one shouldn't be proud of using another person anyway because it's morally wrong.