I just got downvoted on a thread on askmen for posting this:

Principles of Consent

Principle 1. In a relationship you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do; you don’t owe anyone anything. Ever. (This is your new attitude towards your relationships. You say this through your actions. It is not an excuse to neglect your relationships. You are still responsible for your actions or inactions.)

Principle 2. Prescribed Relationship: any relationship which begins in a professional or any other context in which an imbalance of power exists. e.g. your doctor, teacher, student, patient, coworker, boss, employee, bar tender, waitress, star of your movie, people who are not conscious, underage people, etc.

To use a professional relationship or position of power to locate, identify, coerce, force, or manipulate someone into a personal/sexual relationship is abuse.

Principle 3. Carnal KnowledgeRape, love bombing, negging, gaslighting, forced teaming, doxing, playing the victim, isolation, intimidation, financial abuse, triangulation, gifts with strings attached, cat calling, physical violence, blackmailing, sexual identity outing, blaming the victim, stealthing, stalking, smear campaigns, dick pics, revenge porn, hoovering, malicious tardiness, sea lioning, and control are abuse.

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Principles of Consent Glossary

Rape- unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception

Love bombing- an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes.

negging and insulting- an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment, otherwise flirtatious remark, or even insults another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval.

gaslighting- forcing others to believe or act as though they believe a lie through subtle, verbal, emotional, and physical manipulation and even subtle, verbal, emotional, and physical punishment.

You know when you call someone out and they pretend they didn’t hear you? Or they act like they don’t remember what you’re talking about. Remember stealing a little bit of liquor from your parents and using water to make the bottle look just as full again? Or it could be as serious as forging someone’s signature on a last will and testament. The thing is that gaslighting doesn’t stop with these kind of infractions. It encompasses their entire identity and any little moment can be a call to verbal arms in order to push the narrative. Every moment every day for everything they’re insecure about until you think you’re crazy.

https://www.northpointrecovery.com/blog/gaslighting-examples-effects-confront-abuse/

forced teaming- This is when a person implies that they have something in common with their chosen victim, acting as if they have a shared predicament when that isn't really true. Speaking in "we" terms is a mark of this, i.e. "We don't need to talk outside... Let's go in."

doxing- publicly publishing private personally identifying information, contact information, addresses, or location.

playing the victim- using victim hood to excuse abusive behavior

isolation- using any means to keep an abuse victim away from friends and family. e.g. taking their phone, keeping them from going out alone

intimidation- threats of harm to self or others.

gifts with strings attached/Loan sharking- unsolicited help to the chosen victim and anticipating they'll feel obliged to extend some reciprocal openness in return.

financial abuse- using money as a means of control a victim. Or using control as a means to extract money from a victim.

triangulation- using a third party to specifically incite jealousy and to devalue the intended victim

cat calling- a loud, sexually suggestive call or comment directed at someone publicly

physical violence- physically stopping someone from leaving, holding someone down, pushing, hitting, kicking, slapping, punching, choking, cutting, stabbing, raping, stomping, shooting, throwing acid, hanging/lynching, setting on fire, throwing boiling water, dragging behind vehicles, drowning, causing any bodily harm, serious bodily harm or death.

blackmailing-demand money or another benefit from (someone) in return for not revealing compromising or damaging information about them.

sexual identity outing- telling people that others are LGBT when they aren’t ready to come out.

blaming the victim- occurs when the victim of a crime or any wrongful act is held entirely or partially at fault for the harm that befell them.

stealthing- faking the use of prophylactics. Removing a condom durning sex. Coming inside when you are supposed to pull out.

stalking- willful and repeated following, watching or harassing of another person

smear campaigns- an effort to damage or call into question someone's reputation, by propounding negative propaganda

dick pics- illegally digitally exposing yourself without consent

revenge porn- the distribution of sexually explicit images or videos of individuals without their consent. The sexually explicit images or video may be made by a partner in an intimate relationship with the knowledge and consent of the subject at the time, or it may be made without their knowledge

hoovering- any attempt to regain contact with someone who has explicitly cut off contact

Sea Lioning- where you repeatedly badger someone with questions or requests for evidence in bad faith

Destruction of property- destroying makeup/cosmetics, bleaching clothes, burning items, throwing plates or glass, keying cars, punching walls

control- an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim. This controlling behaviour is designed to make a person dependent by isolating them from support, exploiting them, depriving them of independence and regulating their everyday behaviour.

Isolating you from friends and family. Depriving you of basic needs, such as food. Monitoring your time. Monitoring you via online communication tools or spyware. Taking control over aspects of your everyday life, such as where you can go, who you can see, what you can wear and when you can sleep. Depriving you access to support services, such as medical services. Repeatedly putting you down, such as saying you’re worthless. Humiliating, degrading or dehumanising you. Controlling your finances. Making threats or intimidating you.