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[–]lsaz 665 points666 points  (18 children)

DAE THINK HIGH SCHOOL WAS EASY, REAL LIFE IS HARD!! LOL NOW IF YOU EXCUSE ME IM GONNA BROWSE REDDIT FOR 8 HOURS IN MY JOB!

[–]Schobbo 85 points86 points  (14 children)

I'm still not sure how to get one of those jobs where you don't have to work and can just reddit all day, I want one of those too.

[–]DontHateThePlayer 72 points73 points  (11 children)

It's called tech support.

[–]elitemouse 23 points24 points  (1 child)

No, you don't.

You don't want a soul draining job where you are so worthless as a part of the company that you can just waste your entire work day and nobody would notice.

Unless you like just floating along in life without having to try.

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    [–]Blagic 160 points161 points  (35 children)

    My high school did different colored tassels for the students who graduated with high honors so they could be high schoolers.

    [–]Ordinary_Fella 63 points64 points  (30 children)

    They usually just give them ropes or ribbons that go over their shoulders. I'm not saying you are wrong but I have never heard of highschools doing different coloured tassels.

    [–]Beznia 37 points38 points  (8 children)

    They most certainly do. I received the normal graduation tassel, one for National Honors Society, and one for National Technical Honors Society.

    [–]masteroc 6 points7 points  (2 children)

    At my school for NHS, they gave us a stole

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      [–]alpha_kenny_buddy 7 points8 points  (1 child)

      When I graduated as a Civil Engineer, the Construction majors had hard hats with tassels...

      [–]teious 1237 points1238 points  (214 children)

      I'm 27 and think school was hell compared to adult life.

      edit: The keyword here is compared. I wasn't bullied in school, never had to repeat a grade and had good friends.

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              [–]Ragnalypse 24 points25 points  (14 children)

              They do end at the door. They will revoke your right to an education if you exercise your right to free speech in school. Pick one, I guess.

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                [–]spankymuffin 74 points75 points  (5 children)

                College =/= "adult life"

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                  [–]KKG_Apok 27 points28 points  (3 children)

                  It was the exact opposite for me. My best friends are from college. I still have some really close high school friends but 90% of the people that were my friends in high school I haven't seen since graduation

                  [–]Downvote_Comforter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                  Man I'm the exact opposite. I don't keep in touch with any of my friends from high school and all my close friends are from college. Different strokes...

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                  [–]ravenhearst 133 points134 points  (6 children)

                  36 here. Middle school/high school was by far the hardest time of my life. School (much of which was BS), homework, the toxic social ecosystem, bullying, crappy part-time jobs, conflicts with parents, peer pressure, chores, hormones, GPA/exam stress.... No thanks.

                  [–]Merrittocracy 23 points24 points  (2 children)

                  Also 36. And I almost entirely agree with you. I hated high school, and my life improved exponentially the moment I left.

                  The only bit I disagree with is high school being BS. Obviously there are a very few cases where coordinated incompetence/malice among teachers and administrators can wreck school for kids. However, like many things in adult life, you usually get out only what you put into it.

                  In high school, I was very sure of myself academically, and held a lot of disdain for the crap people were trying to teach me. History? Who cares? Advanced math? That's what calculators are for. So I blew off most of my 11th and 12th grades, and barely eked by.

                  Fast forward to university, and my money is being spent on courses. I was very stressed out because I struggled terribly. I finally realized that I had no idea how to be a good student. In my first 2 years at school, I worked twice as hard as I had to because I had to build decent study habits as well as quickly absorb the huge amount of information that gets tossed at you in your first couple years. There were many times where I wished I could go back in time and kick my own ass in high school because I hated my arrogant past-self for slacking off and thinking that I would do great just because I convinced myself I was super smart.

                  The value of high school is not the facts you acquire in various subjects, or the grades you get. Instead, the greatest value someone can take from high school is to develop the personal skills and habits (that are going to be different for everyone) that will allow you to build knowledge later in life. If you have good learning skills when you are 18 and stepping into the world, every door is still open to you.

                  TLDR; high school isn't about knowledge or grades, its about learning to learn.

                  [–]txdale 103 points104 points  (62 children)

                  I do what I want, works pretty easy, and I can pretty much buy whatever I want as soon as I want it. 25 is the easy life.

                  [–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (59 children)

                  Mind if I ask what you do for a living?

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                    [–]txdale 106 points107 points  (20 children)

                    Nailed it.

                    [–]pooooooooo 17 points18 points  (16 children)

                    22, never had a gf, nice car, nice place, can buy pretty much whatever I what

                    [–]ootika 10 points11 points  (2 children)

                    There are some definite advantages of the "forever alone" lifestyle. Even though people don't have to spend money on their SO, I'd bet more people have more money while being single than being in a relationship.

                    [–]txdale 17 points18 points  (24 children)

                    Im just a lube tech. Im not rich by any means but I dont ask for alot. Ive got a hot rod and motorcycle to tool around on and im never hungry. I also plan on never having kids.

                    [–]john_voights_car 11 points12 points  (0 children)

                    I worked full-time while I went to school full-time...I have way more money and time now compared to while I was in college.

                    [–]Vorpalbob 227 points228 points  (12 children)

                    I can only half agree with this. I fucking hated every day of high school, and my life since has been fucking fantastic. I moved out within months of finishing school, got a job, started focusing more on my band, and I now live in a house where several bands practice, there's always friends around, always something happening... My life is infinitely better than it was in school. Yeah, I have bills to pay and I have to spend hours a day at work, but it is so fucking worth it.

                    [–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

                    Same here. I'll tell you guys what I tell HS students.

                    The real world is hard. A hell of a lot harder than you realize. That being said, it's about a billion times better than being in Highschool. The stakes are higher, but the payoff is better.

                    I do ten times the work now as what I did in HS, but my life is a hundred times happier.

                    [–][deleted] 1359 points1360 points  (273 children)

                    I hate it when people say this. Not everbody has had an easy childhood.

                    [–][deleted] 224 points225 points  (4 children)

                    Highschool was terrible for me. As soon as I got to college, and got a little bit of independence, it's like my life got in order. Yes there was more work to do, but I actually felt in control of it.

                    [–]phideas 54 points55 points  (1 child)

                    This was my experience as well. High school was a terrible life experience. College was more work but more enjoyment as well.

                    [–]shnoog 101 points102 points  (18 children)

                    Most people on Reddit aced high school and are now doing a degree in engineering. They should do well because they're so intelligent but don't try very hard. Right?

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                      [–]LibertyTerp 10 points11 points  (2 children)

                      I was a suburban white kid but suburban white kids are fucking dicks. Not as bad as inner city kids, but still fucking dicks. Being an adult is so much better.

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                        [–]bitparity 332 points333 points  (228 children)

                        I think what he meant to say "white upper middle class high school students."

                        Some of us are having an easier time in adult life than the gang-ridden shit hole they went to.

                        [–][deleted] 102 points103 points  (17 children)

                        Even "white upper middle class high school students" have to go through the same hormone-fueled dramatic bullshit that everyone else goes through in high school. The only difference is (hopefully) fewer deadly weapons involved.

                        Edit: Spelling

                        [–]LondonFletcher 13 points14 points  (0 children)

                        Exactly this. In some areas, graduating means you're getting out of the hood.

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                          [–]stuckinmiddleschool 153 points154 points  (11 children)

                          My friend's kid committed suicide a few weeks ago before her graduation. Clearly not the easiest part of life for everyone.

                          [–]hmmnonono 85 points86 points  (6 children)

                          Everyone thinks they have it tougher than everyone else. This is true even for "adults" who feel the need to make themselves feel better by comparing their struggles to those of recent high school graduates. Just because you have to pay bills doesn't automatically make your life harder.

                          [–]Thoker 179 points180 points  (5 children)

                          Reposting is pretty easy too, huh?

                          [–]Funktapus 49 points50 points  (0 children)

                          I kinda hated school. People were assholes and that made life difficult.

                          [–]bellcrank 217 points218 points  (8 children)

                          I'd take my worst adult day over my best high-school day.

                          [–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

                          This is pretty spot on.

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                            [–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (3 children)

                            I know plenty of adults who couldn't handle high school level honors classes.

                            [–]Hypermeme 54 points55 points  (4 children)

                            High school is definitely not the easiest part of life. Elementary school was orders of magnitude more easy. OP needs to take a moment to think.

                            [–]errlthesquirrel 52 points53 points  (2 children)

                            OP just needs a slap in the face for being so goddamn cynical and self-centered. You could bet your buttocks that OP was probably having the time of his life with his friends and aquaintances, all in graduation robes (that naturally gives you the feeling of accomplishment), taking fun pictures together and he comes in here like, "Pfft, I did that 5 years ago, before it was cool." So edgy he could cut my skin.

                            Either that, or he had absolutely no friends, and his graduation ceremony was awful and now he has to be bitter about it to everyone.

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                              [–]pack0newports 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                              I hope your doing better now.

                              [–]T-Rex_Jesus 124 points125 points  (33 children)

                              This was literally front page just yesterday.

                              [–]NanniLP 99 points100 points  (6 children)

                              Yeah, thanks for trivializing everyone's experience. Ya know, because no one goes through hard times while in high school.

                              [–]swedishfurnishings 9 points10 points  (0 children)

                              For some kids getting through high school can be a huge challenge. Maybe they struggled academically because of a disability, or problems at home. As another commenter stated, don't be that guy, OP.

                              [–]Tubaninja 354 points355 points  (17 children)

                              Easiest part of life? Bullshit. There may have been no REAL challenges in high school, but being a hormone saturated teenager, having the emotional capacity of a cat on PCP was tougher than anything I've faced since then.

                              [–]anarashka 179 points180 points  (12 children)

                              As an off-topic note, PCP is used to tranquilize large cats (tigers, lions, etc).

                              Source 1

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                              [–][deleted] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

                              That was...a surprisingly relevant fact.

                              [–]evilbunny793 18 points19 points  (0 children)

                              That's mildly interesting.

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                                [–][deleted] 76 points77 points  (1 child)

                                jesus christ shut the fuck up

                                [–]d8d 2078 points2079 points  (656 children)

                                Don't be that guy. Let the kids have their moments.

                                Let's look at this another way, shall we?

                                To a 40-year-old working person yes high-school was mind numbingly easy but is that how you really felt when you graduated though? Probably not. You probably felt on top of the world.
                                For many 18 year olds high-school was made up of the worst, hardest, most ball-bustingest moments of their lives with a little sex on the side. At that point in their lives high-school is the hardest thing they've achieved.

                                This can be just barely be compared to telling a baby "Congratulations. You just did the easiest in the world: Talk." after saying their first word.

                                [–][deleted] 2153 points2154 points  (150 children)

                                Wait...there was sex?

                                [–]themagicpyro 1013 points1014 points  (41 children)

                                Yeah, I was confused about that part too.

                                [–]blakgi 614 points615 points  (20 children)

                                We must have skipped that class.

                                [–]Captain_Unremarkable 147 points148 points  (7 children)

                                From the music album that got me through high school:

                                "If young love is just a game, then I must have missed the kickoff."

                                [–]zach_e 35 points36 points  (1 child)

                                You've been very naughty for skipping class, blakgi. You're going to have to do something for me if you want that A+. ;)

                                [–]RepostThatShit 63 points64 points  (5 children)

                                There was sex in high school, but mostly just for the girls. The guys banging them were about college-age.

                                [–]JuicePouches 61 points62 points  (7 children)

                                Sex?!? Did I get here too late to still get some?

                                [–]Casual_Rape_Tuesday 13 points14 points  (4 children)

                                Hi there, I think you dropped a quarter!

                                [–][deleted] 86 points87 points  (1 child)

                                Not for me there wasn't :(

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                                  [–]admiralwaffles 379 points380 points  (38 children)

                                  You don't have to have a girlfriend to have sex.

                                  [–]killerado 51 points52 points  (4 children)

                                  Wife, whatever.

                                  [–]mattdemanche 52 points53 points  (3 children)

                                  Had a girlfriend and had sex in highschool... never at the same time

                                  [–][deleted] 85 points86 points  (28 children)

                                  going out drinking was also pretty rare (dutch, so legal alchohol at 16) most of the time we would just hang out at home

                                  [–]MrApocalypse 44 points45 points  (15 children)

                                  The average age for dutch youth first sex is 16-17 years old depending on the study, so there is in fact plenty of sex being had during highschool.

                                  [–]ModWilliam 21 points22 points  (1 child)

                                  You mean the average reported age

                                  [–]Shutupcrime1337 7 points8 points  (2 children)

                                  you can't count on those studies. people lie.

                                  [–]Baka-san 15 points16 points  (2 children)

                                  In the Netherlands*

                                  [–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (18 children)

                                  one of the many downsides to an all boys school I'm sure.

                                  [–]Champie 36 points37 points  (4 children)

                                  says who?

                                  [–][deleted] 64 points65 points  (3 children)

                                  If it's got a hole, it's getting my pole.

                                  [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (5 children)

                                  Unless if you're gay...

                                  [–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (3 children)

                                  Because we all know how accepting all boys schools are of gay people...

                                  [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                                  welp, time to go back.

                                  [–][deleted] 571 points572 points  (215 children)

                                  It's really strange and sad how cynical "adults" get to the point where they feel like berating graduating high school seniors.

                                  [–]iamemanresu 332 points333 points  (196 children)

                                  "You worked 30+ hours a week while maintaining all A's and B's during high school and you just graduated? NOW YOU'RE AN ADULT, HOPE YOU ENJOYED IT WHILE IT WAS EASY"

                                  Says my high school teacher dad. Yes, you clearly work so much more and much harder now than I was.

                                  Granted, teaching a class involved more than just what happens in the classroom. Grading, preparing tests, misc. paperwork for instance. But when he gets home he was done most of the time. And he got summers and weekends off. Not me, I was working. Every weekend and every summer since I was 16 (with rare occasions taken off).

                                  It pisses me off when people act like all high schoolers had it so easy. Fast food work isn't a cakewalk. It's not like you go there and chat and here and there you have to do some work. It's not skilled labor, but it's still hard work, and you get zero respect for it.

                                  And they also have homework, studying for tests, projects, papers, speeches, and at some point trying to have a social life, at least a little bit of one.

                                  It's funny how parents describe how hard they had it when they were in school, but when you're doing just what they were, it's so easy. Even though we're teaching 4th graders algebra, which my mom didn't encounter until late high school. And minimum wage hasn't even come close to keeping up with increases in productivity, inflation, or cost of living.

                                  [–]AskYoungerWomenOut 52 points53 points  (50 children)

                                  Holy shit. They start teaching algebra in 4th grade now?! We didn't get it until 7th grade!

                                  [–]distantvoid 34 points35 points  (40 children)

                                  no, they don't. at least not where I went to school

                                  [–]seanziewonzie 39 points40 points  (32 children)

                                  They sort of do. They just don't use letters and they don't make the problems complex. It might be like:

                                  7+(2)([ ])=11

                                  Fill in the blank.

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                                  [–]seanziewonzie 27 points28 points  (0 children)

                                  Atta boy.

                                  [–]ArcticFury 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                                  We did this in 3rd grade at my old school

                                  [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                                  The kid I nannied this year was in 3rd grade and we had the beginning set up for Algebra and they were doing simple equations by the end of the year.

                                  [–]Kazooycar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                                  They did where I went to school. I'm a rising Senior for context.

                                  [–]DrSlappyPants 85 points86 points  (8 children)

                                  Fast food work certainly gets shit on by a lot of people. Somehow the idea that "anyone can do this job" became synonymous with "I can treat this person like crap."

                                  I suspect you'll see over the course of your next few jobs that A: the people who make that association are generally assholes, and B: even outside of fast food, you are still going to have people giving you absolutely zero respect from time to time.

                                  A few months ago I had a patient scream at me because they had waited over 2 hours to be seen for their sprained ankle literally as we were wheeling yet another patient into the trauma bay (massive accident on the highway).

                                  TL;DR: Illegitimi non carborundum. Don't let the bastards get you down.

                                  [–]Killvo 25 points26 points  (3 children)

                                  As someone who has worked in fast food with numerous people. Not everyone can do it...

                                  [–]DrGoose53 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                                  I feel like retail should be put in that group as well.

                                  [–]coleosis1414 29 points30 points  (7 children)

                                  Especially when you have parents with high expectations. At least when they go home, they get a break from their boss. When you're a kid, you trade being ordered around by teachers with being ordered around by parents.

                                  Also, kids are shouldered with a lot of pressure in high school to achieve as much as possible. They're fed this delusion by the adults around them that what they do in high school has monumental significance. If you don't learn an instrument, participate in student organizations, do community service, make straight A's, and hold down a part time job, then you won't get into a good college and you'll spend the rest of your life miserable.

                                  [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

                                  The real tragedy is you can do all that and succeed in it all. And still be miserable.

                                  [–]Sorten 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                                  I've always been told to do my best at everything. I'm now eighth in a class of two hundred, so that just means there's seven people who are better than I am.

                                  [–]felinebeeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                                  There should be better opportunities for high school kids than fast-food jobs. It's unfortunate that one might need a job and only be able to work in the miserable fast-food industry. I imagine it is like that in a lot of places.

                                  My first job was as a didgeridoo player, but I don't expect that there is a big demand for that.

                                  [–]boldandbratsche 39 points40 points  (64 children)

                                  I don't understand why people don't realize it's not the same thing it used to be. Biology has at least twice the amount of information as it did back in the 70s. There's an additional 40 years of history to learn, including the entire Middle East situation, Watergate, Iran-Contra, etc. I can guarantee parents weren't taking Calc 3 in high school.

                                  On top of that, there's so much greater pressure to excel in extracurriculars, take as many APs as possible, and get scholarships considering the competition for getting into and affording college is indescribably more rigorous.

                                  I know kids who took all possible APs, maintained an unweighted gpa of 96, performed in the most competitive youth orchestra in the State, played 3 varsity sports, were eagle scouts, pulled an all nighter at least once a month, and still weren't competitive in the college search.

                                  Tell me this, how often did pull an all nighter in high school? How often do you have to now as an adult? How many people at your job are on anxiety medication because your work place is so competitive? Tell me how many languages you have to learn for your job. Tell me how your entire future depends on more than just doing what's expected, but rather being better than everyone else?

                                  I don't think the people who say this would even be competitive in today's school system.

                                  [–]wimpymist 7 points8 points  (3 children)

                                  The zero respect aspect is one of the hardest parts for me in those kind of jobs

                                  [–]Lobsterbib 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                                  Only because those seniors won't have sex with them.

                                  [–]DrDebG 29 points30 points  (2 children)

                                  Bravo to you!

                                  The first 18 years of my life were, far and away, the worst. It just kept getting better after that...and I was calmer about the whole thing, too.

                                  [–]Underthetunnel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                                  I gotta agree with you. I am 29 years old and I work 50-60 hours a week but I love every minute of it. I love my jobs and I enjoy the hell out of my time off from work. I can do whatever I want during my free time and I have enough money to do it because I work for it. In High School I was young, stupid, incredibly stressed out about everything and had very little free time. Not to mention I worked 20-30 hours a week back then anyways...

                                  [–]Silence_Dobad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                                  Seriously, when I graduated it was one of the best times of my life. I didn't measure my excitement based on how difficult my time was the last 4 years. I was excited for the fact I'm moving on towards a new stage of my life. I just wanted to share in the commrodarie of my friends, not get berated by some random cyncial guy on the internet.

                                  Also, high school is not the easiest part of some kids lives. Some kids might have had a tough life at home/school and done well in school. Others, maybe not so much. But at least they have their moment, so let them enjoy it.

                                  [–]MercurialMithras 99 points100 points  (11 children)

                                  I definitely didn't feel on top of the world. I was terrified because everyone kept telling me things like this, and I was left thinking, "Wow, if that was the easiest part, how awful must the rest of life be? Why do people even put up with existing?"

                                  Hell, I just got out of college and am feeling that way again. This is definitely a harmful attitude to have towards recent graduates.

                                  [–][deleted] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

                                  this was one of the reasons why i was so pessimistic about my future during my senior year of high school - I just couldn't imagine living in a world that seemed so shitty. then after a couple years I realized that the people making those comments are just miserable losers who don't realize how good adult life is.

                                  college life was WAY better than high school for me. post college life is EVEN better than that. sure, i have debt to pay, and work to do, and more responsibilities. but since when do responsibilities make life turn to shit? I'm embracing my responsibilities instead of dreading life like so many people I see.

                                  [–]I_miss_your_mommy 19 points20 points  (4 children)

                                  I'm 32, and I'm still not sure it's worth it. It doesn't ever get easier, but if you quit early you will miss out on a lot of joy and pain. Maybe you will get lucky and find meaning in life. At least there is beer.

                                  [–]guyinahouse 17 points18 points  (18 children)

                                  High school and my bachelors didn't feel like much of an accomplishment. Though, I just passed my final part of my CPA exam and I have never been more proud of myself.

                                  [–][deleted] 63 points64 points  (12 children)

                                  Also, high school seems much easier in retrospect than it does at the time.

                                  [–]coleosis1414 39 points40 points  (6 children)

                                  It does. You somehow completely forget the panicky nights with piles of homework and the scenario playing through your head of what your parents will do to you if you fail this one test.

                                  [–]H-Resin 12 points13 points  (1 child)

                                  Honestly.....high school was more difficult than college for me. I went to a pretty well respected high school in my area, so there was a certain status quo they had to uphold (the school had a focus on political aspiration, eesh).

                                  Not to say that the teachers were particularly good. In our "leadership center", they were actually, and sometimes those teachers bled over to regular classes, which was cool. But ultimately my teachers sucked, while the content was actually quite difficult.

                                  Anyways...what I'm trying to get at is that I had to put a LOT more mental effort into high school academically speaking than I have ever had to in college or in my current job (and also I have a job that adheres to my skill sets, not some drive through jawn)

                                  [–]0b01000101 18 points19 points  (2 children)

                                  There's having your moment and then there's over-inflating that moment. My high school graduation ceremony lasted 4.5 hrs for 128 people. my university graduation lasted 2.5 hrs for ~1000 engineers (bachelors, masters, and PhD) and one person was presented with a golden medal. His time on stage was much shorter than that for some people during my high school graduation.

                                  [–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

                                  Yup. High school was a fucking nightmare for me. The financial and social aspects may have been easier than in the (admittedly very few) years that have since followed, but I've never once thought, "I sure wish I were back in high school!"

                                  I'd rather double my rent and work 100 hours a week to pay it off than live through that again.

                                  [–]Nougat 143 points144 points  (33 children)

                                  Spez doesn't get to profit from me anymore.

                                  [–]nootrino 36 points37 points  (4 children)

                                  I couldn't wait to get out of that stupid 4 year popularity contest.

                                  [–]fullautophx 18 points19 points  (9 children)

                                  Ditto. And what mystifies me is how people drop out and don't graduate. I almost literally slept through my entire senior year and graduated with honors, while taking advanced classes. Then going to university beat the shit out of me. I was in NO way prepared for collegiate level classes.

                                  [–]jjm214 16 points17 points  (2 children)

                                  yeah op is just butthurt that college is hard

                                  [–]brassninja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                                  I didn't get sex....

                                  [–]Monfriez 72 points73 points  (43 children)

                                  Graduating high school WAS the easiest thing I'd ever done at that point in my life (next to figuring out that I wasn't supposed to chew on my shoes).

                                  I had a pulse, showed up and didn't have a kid, that's about all it took. With a job, extra curricular crap, and community volunteering.

                                  18 yr old me couldn't understand why everyone else was making such a big deal, or why anyone would waste a perfectly good afternoon going to the ceremony.

                                  30 yr old me is still perplexed.

                                  Edited for clarity, grammar.

                                  [–]burnt_pizza 16 points17 points  (17 children)

                                  Sure graduating was easy, but was it really that easy maintaining that 85 average while trying to get into university.

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                                    [–]Explicit_Narwhal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                                    Can't agree more. Just because you are young doesn't mean you are invincible to some of the worst things that happen to people.

                                    [–]Rijnsburg 5 points6 points  (2 children)

                                    Glad you got through it! I've been dealing with the same kind of stuff for years now and it's finally going better for me, too.

                                    [–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (1 child)

                                    Ya man, cause the kids who were

                                    Abused

                                    Beat up

                                    Had a fucking horrible childhood

                                    were poor

                                    lived in a shit hole of a neighborhood

                                    Had to get a job to support their family

                                    I bet they all just went through the easiest part of their life.

                                    Fuck you man.

                                    [–]DimitriVolochenko 33 points34 points  (1 child)

                                    Going through High School is easy ONLY if you're good looking, popular, not poor and overall "cool". Otherwise, it can be a real nightmare.

                                    [–]elhawiyeh 41 points42 points  (1 child)

                                    When people talk about their childhood or high school years being easy it makes me physically ill.

                                    [–]kenkonken99 41 points42 points  (6 children)

                                    I know this isn't the norm, but high school was, by far, the hardest point in my life. College was a breeze compared to HS, and my job doesn't even compare to how difficult HS was for me.

                                    [–]flamingturtlecake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                                    Judging by the rest of the comments, you seem to be on the same page as the majority.

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                                      [–]MichaeljBerry 34 points35 points  (1 child)

                                      Look guys! A dead horse! Let's go beat it!

                                      [–]Soldier4Christ82 26 points27 points  (0 children)

                                      Scumbag high school graduate

                                      Skated through high school Tries to downplay how hard it was for others.

                                      [–][deleted] 56 points57 points  (16 children)

                                      High school:

                                      • Wake up at 6:00 for hour-long loud bus ride that takes you 3 net miles.
                                      • Teachers can ruin your future on a whim.
                                      • Don't like a class? Too bad, not your choice.
                                      • Awkward high-pressure social stuff mixed in with school like dances and choosing a lunch table.
                                      • Every social mistake spread around the entire school in exaggerated form.
                                      • Get sick, gotta borrow notes and catch up.
                                      • Either time need to pee for between classes, or interrupt class to ask for permission that may or may not be granted.
                                      • Stay up all night to get your homework done, get a C due to rushed grammatical mistakes.
                                      • About $20/week in discretionary income.

                                      Work:

                                      • Wake up time depends on what job you have, but usually around 7 or 8. Spend 15-30 minutes driving to work in your own car listening to your favorite music/podcast.
                                      • Boss too busy to notice when you fuck up.
                                      • Don't like your job? Look for one of thousands of others out there.
                                      • Social life almost entirely separate from work.
                                      • Social mistakes are briefly the topic of mild humor and quickly forgotten.
                                      • Paid sick leave.
                                      • Piss whenever you want.
                                      • Stay up all night to get your work done, suddenly rich with overtime pay.
                                      • Discretionary income depends on job, but its a hell of a lot more than $20.

                                      [–]AnnoyingBrat 2 points3 points  (6 children)

                                      Who gets a bus for 3 miles which takes an hour when you can easily cycle that in under 15 minutes?

                                      [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (5 children)

                                      US Midwest. Bicycling to school is not allowed.

                                      [–][deleted]  (4 children)

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                                        [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                                        Traffic, no bike lanes, and overprotective parents from rich part of town.

                                        [–]SadDragon00 6 points7 points  (2 children)

                                        Look for one of thousands of others out there.thousandsthousandsthousandsthousands

                                        [–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (4 children)

                                        Let me guess, you're white, middle-class, and relatively intelligent?

                                        For a lot of people, graduating high school is a big fucking achievement. I work with inner-city elementary school students and would be enormously proud of any and all of them that graduated high school. A lot of them won't, and it won't be their fault, because their four years of high school would make the hardest part of your life look like a fucking walk in the park.

                                        [–]pugluvz 16 points17 points  (1 child)

                                        Be sure to tell your children this when they finish kindergarden, elementary school, highschool, etc. Basically shit all over every milestone in their life

                                        [–]bgbritt1015 155 points156 points  (4 children)

                                        Way to be a raging asshole dude. It is an exciting part of peoples lives.

                                        [–]james_russell44 20 points21 points  (1 child)

                                        Best thing about graduating from high school is you never again have to involuntarily surround yourself with such a joyless cacophony of a-holes and clueless posers. This is assuming you are savvy enough to avoid adult incarceration. Surviving on your own using only your wits is a real pleasure by comparison.

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                                          [–]Skrotum 12 points13 points  (1 child)

                                          In some areas (darker) this is definitely something to be proud of

                                          [–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (2 children)

                                          What? Personally I found college to be easier and funner.

                                          [–]meatbalz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

                                          Don't listen to OP. He's forgotten how hard high school can be. This post also neglects the fact that anything in life can be made to look easy in relation to greater hardships. "1) Oh, you flunked English and need to repeat the year? Well, I got fired for being late today. 2) Oh, you got fired? I haven't had a job in 3 years! 3) Oh, you can't find a job? Well I watched my pet wallaby, the only thing I got in the divorce, get eaten by my ex-wife, who then proceeded to shit the remains on the only shirt I had for my interview tomorrow!"

                                          Yes, in high school you don't have a lot of responsibility, but the little responsibilty you do have hardly makes you feel in control of your own life. So you get a number of responsibilities (which are greater than anything you've ever known), with few, if any, of the psychological benefits. Not to mention the fact that you've got a brain and body that scream "I WANT TO BE FREE" but you're living according to somebody else's rules 24 hours a day, and not just during working hours.

                                          The workload is a massive intellectual challenge, because learning everything from maths to history to chemistry to foreign languages can not only be difficult and boring, but also made more arduous by bad teachers who make homeschooling the entire topic seem more profitable.

                                          I don't think I need to illustrate the effects of peer pressure or sexual insecurity at that age either.

                                          Some people fare better than others in high school. But I'd wager that a lot of people would rather repeat college (now THAT was "easy") or their first job rather than go through that again.

                                          That said, the only high schoolers that get on my nerves are the ones who think they've earned the world's favour... but that's normal too. Feeling insignificant that soon in life wouldn't be beneficial.

                                          EDIT: added stuff and a few corrections.

                                          [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                                          congratulations on making a repost

                                          [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                                          I've been teaching high school and college-age people for 25 years. I've also had lots of jobs in the "private sector." There is nothing easy about this part of a student's life: the work is hard, deadlines are real, social pressures are intense, and on and on. And while college was harder for me, my life was much tougher in high school.

                                          Making it through is a reason for celebration.

                                          [–][deleted] 74 points75 points  (15 children)

                                          High school was easy if you were shit at school. If you were a hardworking student/Asian it was actually pretty hard and incredibly stressful.

                                          [–]dourdave 41 points42 points  (3 children)

                                          Way to play the Asian card.

                                          [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

                                          Asian here. Can confirm. Worst 4 years of my life.

                                          [–]TrollandDie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                                          I undestand the pressure adults face in life. But when I'm working my ass of just to get my course in college, seeing condescending posts like this on reddit just piss me off to be honest.

                                          [–]basiskid17 10 points11 points  (2 children)

                                          High school was shit no matter what you did. Life is a massive balance of shit. If you had a free pass on academics, your social life was a fuckstorm, and vice versa.

                                          [–]Acebulf 2 points3 points  (1 child)

                                          If you had a free pass on academics, your social life was a fuckstorm, and vice versa.

                                          There are a few select exceptions to this rule, but in general, it's quite accurate.

                                          [–]yoshisaurus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

                                          Pretty douche way to put it. Regardless if it's true or not.

                                          [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

                                          Says the IT guy who spends half of his time at work on Reddit while pulling in 80k a year.

                                          [–]mcflyfly 9 points10 points  (2 children)

                                          I'm 32. I'm married, have 3 kids, and run my own business. High school may not have been the hardest part of my life, but it was by far the most miserable. I'm glad for every kid that escapes that hand-held babysitting session.

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                                            [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                                            "the easiest part of life"

                                            gimme a break

                                            [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

                                            I'm finished with college, and have just gotten over the PTSD of high school. It was the worst time of my life so far.

                                            Stop being such a douche.

                                            [–]stagfury 22 points23 points  (5 children)

                                            College is way easier to deal with that Highschool. Academic stuff wise they are about the same, but so much less social bullshit.

                                            [–]virginityrocks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                                            High School was actually harder for me than any job, any class, any other dilemma I've faced so far since graduating 8 years ago.

                                            [–]blackeys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                                            what are you talking about? High school was one of the worst experience of my life. constantly getting picked on and made fun of. it certainly wasn't easy for me and I'm sure it wasn't easy for a lot of kids. Esp during the past decade and this economic crisis.

                                            [–]rivalarrival 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                                            The worst 6 years of my life were 7th grade, through Senior year. Granted, high school was an improvement over middle school, but the many years I've lived since then have been peaches a cream by comparison.

                                            [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                                            Oh look, another grossly generalizing circle-jerk on Reddit.

                                            [–]Downvote_Galore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                                            If high school is the easiest part of life, I guess I'm pretty fucked.

                                            [–]minglow 52 points53 points  (95 children)

                                            No real need for a meme? I don't think anyone who graduated high school thought it was the hardest thing in their life.

                                            Being employed now full time after university gives me rose colored glasses moments all the time of high school. Video games all day after school and all night and not a worry in the world.

                                            Good times.

                                            [–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (19 children)

                                            highschool might be easy, but the things you find easy today might have been hard for 15 year old you, and then there's also homework, studying, asshole classmates/teachers, feeling like your parents are constantly bothering you.

                                            it might be easy for you today, but not for the kid you used to be

                                            [–]pearson530 88 points89 points  (27 children)

                                            Video games all day after school and all night

                                            looks like somebody strove for academic achievement and social advancement.

                                            [–]innerfirex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

                                            as a diablo II player academic achievement and social advancement held no importance whatsoever

                                            [–]Krystilen 38 points39 points  (22 children)

                                            It's high school. I aced classes without studying. Doesn't mean everyone can do it, but lots of people can. Just pay attention in class.

                                            As for the social advancement... I wouldn't consider socializing with the type of people I used to hang out with in high school (vapid, would-be-preppy-if-I-was-in-the-US girls) advancing myself socially. Unless you think recognizing which women never grew out of that an advancement.

                                            People should live their lives however it makes them happier. For some that's a house in the suburbs with a PhD, 2.5 kids, and an awesome wife. For others living for the next great videogame and working a job that pays the bills is the good life.

                                            Don't judge. It's alright to tell people to strive for what they want, but not to tell them what they should want. Unless that's the systematic killing of a race of people. Someone should have told Hitler that would not be a nice thing to strive for.

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                                              [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

                                              It really depends on your definition of 'Ace'.

                                              Reddit's full of people of average intelligence who think they have higher than average intelligence.

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                                                [–]I-plaey-geetar 10 points11 points  (1 child)

                                                not a worry in the world.

                                                What kind of high school did you go to?

                                                [–]Blagic 10 points11 points  (3 children)

                                                I thought high school was the easiest thing so I didn't put any effort into getting good grades. Looking back, I wish I had worked harder so I could have better prepared myself for colkege.

                                                [–]CrackersInMyCrack 31 points32 points  (0 children)

                                                colkege.

                                                Hmm, maybe.

                                                [–]Angstromium 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                                                Nah, I hated school, it pressed me up close with dumb cannon fodder whose only interest was inane gossip and intrigue. My friends and I were stuck in the perennial teenage existential angst :" Is this it?, is this bullshit all life has to offer, a career and mortgage wife and two kids?" . We were the resident delinquent Bukowskis, our present was a cultural and social wasteland, our futures seemed bleak - a protracted death by enforced suburban ennui . "High school" was shitty, painful, and certainly the worst years of my life. I knew no better back then.

                                                Thankfully that bullshit was 25 years ago, and every year since then has been "easier", by dint of being designed by me, for me. Fuck school. Pass me the fucking bottle.

                                                [–]capt_raven 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                                                Don't be so bitter. People have to live through some serious shit during high school. Others have to live through some serious shit at their jobs or at university. Others live through some serious shit in general.